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Parkrun comments giving me the rage

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ChapmanFarm · 02/09/2026 22:49

If I have to read one more time 'but parkrun is just meant to be fun' or 'you are only racing against yourself and your best time' I'm going to scream.

Why does that only apply to women?

If it's just a bit of fun there is absolutely no need for trans identified men to get a time or position either. They have the option to register as another gender or to just run and not register at all.

If it's all just fun and we moaning women should shut up, why do these arguments only apply one way?

No one is saying they can't run in whatever clothing/identity they like. Just that they shouldn't be recorded as women.

But somehow this is still wrong.

I thought I'd peaked long ago but this one is giving me the absolute rage.

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alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 16:23

Helleofabore · 18/09/2026 15:47

Because …

i) It is supposedly not a competition / Olympics,
ii) Apparently, cannot be ‘policed’,
iii) Some people are supportive of male people being treated as if they are female because kindness / respect / friends / belief.

and people have lost so much already with parkrun that women should not expect anything to change because if there is a change it can only be to the detriment of women due to i) and ii) so therefore should accept sex discrimination for the overall good of the organisation and making some male people feel better because of iii).

Or... people just don't care. I run in our local one most weekends - as do my children and DP. It is literally just not an issue for the vast majority of people. Going hell for leather and attacking Parkrun is utterly batshit behaviour - it takes away focus from where we actually need single sex spaces.

TheKeatingFive · 18/09/2026 16:29

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 16:23

Or... people just don't care. I run in our local one most weekends - as do my children and DP. It is literally just not an issue for the vast majority of people. Going hell for leather and attacking Parkrun is utterly batshit behaviour - it takes away focus from where we actually need single sex spaces.

Really?

You think questioning when ‘first female’ is actually a male. That’s the batshit behaviour?

I mean, seriously? 😵‍💫

Cloudyz7 · 18/09/2026 16:31

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 16:23

Or... people just don't care. I run in our local one most weekends - as do my children and DP. It is literally just not an issue for the vast majority of people. Going hell for leather and attacking Parkrun is utterly batshit behaviour - it takes away focus from where we actually need single sex spaces.

Actually, I’ve noticed people increasingly do care. I think people feel more comfortable voicing an opinion.

The other week I was at Parkrun and bumped into a friend who was there with his running club and I stayed for a coffee and chat afterwards. Someone bought the topic up and the consensus was that it’s grossly unfair to allow men to run in the women’s category - even at Parkrun. .

Cadeaukatze · 18/09/2026 16:50

It turns out that there are photos of my local parkrun last year. I have found the woman who came 1st. I think it could be a woman, the person is quite small and slight but is wearing a cap which obscures a lot of their face. But anyway, now I know what they look like, I will keep my eyes peeled at future parkruns.

I just feel like someone who is that good would have been good in her youth and people would know about her.

iwishitwouldstartraining · 18/09/2026 17:07

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 16:23

Or... people just don't care. I run in our local one most weekends - as do my children and DP. It is literally just not an issue for the vast majority of people. Going hell for leather and attacking Parkrun is utterly batshit behaviour - it takes away focus from where we actually need single sex spaces.

It is literally just not an issue

Yet still they persist in sending emails telling people that they have come first in their category. Must be a technical error and not a blatant attempt to treat women less advantageously than men.

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 17:15

TheKeatingFive · 18/09/2026 16:29

Really?

You think questioning when ‘first female’ is actually a male. That’s the batshit behaviour?

I mean, seriously? 😵‍💫

I think trying to make it into a huge issue for what is essentially a community-driven initiative to get as many people running and active as possible - is batshit behaviour. There is an increasing level of GC purity test that we're all expected to just go along with and it's nonsense. I feel exactly the same way about what happened with the WI. Our local one voted to close - as did countless others - and then re-set up as a group on their own because they didn't want to exclude trans people. I have no problem if you want to set up a single sex group or run your existing group as single sex - and some should absolutely be required to be single sex - but for a bloody community fun run or get together - absolute nonsense forcing them into it. I've been reading about how the tide is turning for near on a decade now - it's not going to happen in the way that the extremist GC position wants. We can either have sensible boundaries and hold them or go on pretending that the Supreme Court did something that it didn't - and make ourselves look increasingly more batshit as the days go on. You may want being GC to be your entire personality but I can assure you that for most people - it's a passing thought.

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 17:16

Cadeaukatze · 18/09/2026 16:50

It turns out that there are photos of my local parkrun last year. I have found the woman who came 1st. I think it could be a woman, the person is quite small and slight but is wearing a cap which obscures a lot of their face. But anyway, now I know what they look like, I will keep my eyes peeled at future parkruns.

I just feel like someone who is that good would have been good in her youth and people would know about her.

With respect - this is unhinged behaviour.

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 17:19

iwishitwouldstartraining · 18/09/2026 17:07

It is literally just not an issue

Yet still they persist in sending emails telling people that they have come first in their category. Must be a technical error and not a blatant attempt to treat women less advantageously than men.

So?! Just opt out of the emails if you're that bothered or launch your own park race. Parkrun don't have a monopoly on running in parks.

TheKeatingFive · 18/09/2026 17:23

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 17:15

I think trying to make it into a huge issue for what is essentially a community-driven initiative to get as many people running and active as possible - is batshit behaviour. There is an increasing level of GC purity test that we're all expected to just go along with and it's nonsense. I feel exactly the same way about what happened with the WI. Our local one voted to close - as did countless others - and then re-set up as a group on their own because they didn't want to exclude trans people. I have no problem if you want to set up a single sex group or run your existing group as single sex - and some should absolutely be required to be single sex - but for a bloody community fun run or get together - absolute nonsense forcing them into it. I've been reading about how the tide is turning for near on a decade now - it's not going to happen in the way that the extremist GC position wants. We can either have sensible boundaries and hold them or go on pretending that the Supreme Court did something that it didn't - and make ourselves look increasingly more batshit as the days go on. You may want being GC to be your entire personality but I can assure you that for most people - it's a passing thought.

If it’s so important and so relevant for the community, why would anyone support egotistical men making it all about them and taking women’s ranking places?

Let’s blame the people who are actually ruining it. Not the people calling them out.

iwishitwouldstartraining · 18/09/2026 17:30

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 17:15

I think trying to make it into a huge issue for what is essentially a community-driven initiative to get as many people running and active as possible - is batshit behaviour. There is an increasing level of GC purity test that we're all expected to just go along with and it's nonsense. I feel exactly the same way about what happened with the WI. Our local one voted to close - as did countless others - and then re-set up as a group on their own because they didn't want to exclude trans people. I have no problem if you want to set up a single sex group or run your existing group as single sex - and some should absolutely be required to be single sex - but for a bloody community fun run or get together - absolute nonsense forcing them into it. I've been reading about how the tide is turning for near on a decade now - it's not going to happen in the way that the extremist GC position wants. We can either have sensible boundaries and hold them or go on pretending that the Supreme Court did something that it didn't - and make ourselves look increasingly more batshit as the days go on. You may want being GC to be your entire personality but I can assure you that for most people - it's a passing thought.

It's a time trial started by members of a competitive running club.

It is now more than that, but many competitive runners take part and when parkrun records are broken it makes the news.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c98pyp5pd6yo

Fitzgerald wearing her GB vest is leading a pack of runners

Devon athlete breaks fastest female Parkrun record

Innis Fitzgerald says she only did one or two of the events each year.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c98pyp5pd6yo

iwishitwouldstartraining · 18/09/2026 17:33

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 17:19

So?! Just opt out of the emails if you're that bothered or launch your own park race. Parkrun don't have a monopoly on running in parks.

Parkrun don't have a monopoly on running in parks.

I'm now sceptical about your claim that you take part in parkrun.

It is difficult to set up a parkrun event, and parkrun does actually have the monopoly. It is highly unlikely that a local authority or organisation like the Royal Parks would give permission for multiple events to be held each week.

But why cannibalise parkrun. What do you have against fair categories?

Cadeaukatze · 18/09/2026 17:44

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 17:16

With respect - this is unhinged behaviour.

In what way is it unhinged? There are photos of participants and she came in directly ahead of one of my running clubmates, so she's on a photo with them! Easy to see what she looks like!

There are people who check all the marathon results to look for anomalies. Now that is is a bit extreme, simply because of the volume at somewhere like the London marathon.

Cadeaukatze · 18/09/2026 17:46

And the age thing is always trotted out. I actually think that if a course record were set and it was obvious a 60 year old was actually 20, parkrun would do something about it.

But if a male-bodied athlete beat Ciara's or Ines' record, I am not sure they would.

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 18:01

iwishitwouldstartraining · 18/09/2026 17:33

Parkrun don't have a monopoly on running in parks.

I'm now sceptical about your claim that you take part in parkrun.

It is difficult to set up a parkrun event, and parkrun does actually have the monopoly. It is highly unlikely that a local authority or organisation like the Royal Parks would give permission for multiple events to be held each week.

But why cannibalise parkrun. What do you have against fair categories?

Parkrun welcomes all runners. If you're upset with how they run their own events - you're welcome to start your own.

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 18:03

Cadeaukatze · 18/09/2026 17:44

In what way is it unhinged? There are photos of participants and she came in directly ahead of one of my running clubmates, so she's on a photo with them! Easy to see what she looks like!

There are people who check all the marathon results to look for anomalies. Now that is is a bit extreme, simply because of the volume at somewhere like the London marathon.

You've decided to monitor someone you don't know under the belief that they could be trans. It's unhinged. The fact that you cannot see that is yet further evidence that GC people have gone utterly mad.

iwishitwouldstartraining · 18/09/2026 18:14

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 18:01

Parkrun welcomes all runners. If you're upset with how they run their own events - you're welcome to start your own.

You didn't read the post did you?

PollyNomial · 18/09/2026 18:17

iwishitwouldstartraining · 18/09/2026 18:14

You didn't read the post did you?

I'm don't think parkrun has events in every park so while double booking may not be possible, others exist.

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 18:25

iwishitwouldstartraining · 18/09/2026 18:14

You didn't read the post did you?

Lots of 'it's too hard for me to set up my own event so instead I'll try to force an exclusionary policy on an unwilling organisation'. What it doesn't say is that the reality is that exclusionary groups with no need to exist just aren't as popular as inclusive groups. See the recent hiking thread - one hugely popular inclusive hiking group and one barely-attended, dwindling single sex hike. People aren't going to abandon their usual Saturday morning schedule unless they care a great deal about what the alternative is offering.

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 18:26

PollyNomial · 18/09/2026 18:17

I'm don't think parkrun has events in every park so while double booking may not be possible, others exist.

I would imagine that anyone who thinks Parkrun sections off parts of parks - or takes them over completely - has never actually taken part.

iwishitwouldstartraining · 18/09/2026 18:26

PollyNomial · 18/09/2026 18:17

I'm don't think parkrun has events in every park so while double booking may not be possible, others exist.

In some places possibly, but then there is also the issue that no publicly funded facility should not be supporting an event that disadvantages women.

Of course none of this would be a problem if it really were just a fun run and didn't bother to time participants, or if it decided that privacy were more important than competition, and so didn't share or publish comparative results.

iwishitwouldstartraining · 18/09/2026 18:27

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 18:26

I would imagine that anyone who thinks Parkrun sections off parts of parks - or takes them over completely - has never actually taken part.

I genuinely don't think that you have taken part if your suggestion is that e.g. Bushy Park would be happy to host more than one parkrun a week.

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 18:31

iwishitwouldstartraining · 18/09/2026 18:27

I genuinely don't think that you have taken part if your suggestion is that e.g. Bushy Park would be happy to host more than one parkrun a week.

I don't know Bushy Park, so I have no idea. Mine begins and ends on an athletics track - so there's plenty of opportunity to organise runs. Unless you think your local park is representative? But again - this supposes that a GC only run would be more popular - and all the evidence suggests that it would not be.

iwishitwouldstartraining · 18/09/2026 18:32

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 18:25

Lots of 'it's too hard for me to set up my own event so instead I'll try to force an exclusionary policy on an unwilling organisation'. What it doesn't say is that the reality is that exclusionary groups with no need to exist just aren't as popular as inclusive groups. See the recent hiking thread - one hugely popular inclusive hiking group and one barely-attended, dwindling single sex hike. People aren't going to abandon their usual Saturday morning schedule unless they care a great deal about what the alternative is offering.

Lots of 'it's too hard for me to set up my own event

Again, you give the impression that you don't quite know what you are talking about...

I'll try to force an exclusionary policy on an unwilling organisation

Nobody has suggested that. If parkrun wants to protect the privacy of all competitors there are ways to do that. It just wouldn't enable men to compare their results, and that seems to be a stumbling block...

See the recent hiking thread - one hugely popular inclusive hiking group and one barely-attended, dwindling single sex hike.

You seem confused. Nobody is suggesting that parkrun should become single sex. Just that it shouldn't discriminate against women.

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 18:34

iwishitwouldstartraining · 18/09/2026 18:32

Lots of 'it's too hard for me to set up my own event

Again, you give the impression that you don't quite know what you are talking about...

I'll try to force an exclusionary policy on an unwilling organisation

Nobody has suggested that. If parkrun wants to protect the privacy of all competitors there are ways to do that. It just wouldn't enable men to compare their results, and that seems to be a stumbling block...

See the recent hiking thread - one hugely popular inclusive hiking group and one barely-attended, dwindling single sex hike.

You seem confused. Nobody is suggesting that parkrun should become single sex. Just that it shouldn't discriminate against women.

The discrimination being what? They don't get an imaginary accolade? Again - it's a community initiative to encourage everyone to become more active. But you keep going - you don't at all sound deranged over it.

iwishitwouldstartraining · 18/09/2026 18:36

alcovecupboards · 18/09/2026 18:31

I don't know Bushy Park, so I have no idea. Mine begins and ends on an athletics track - so there's plenty of opportunity to organise runs. Unless you think your local park is representative? But again - this supposes that a GC only run would be more popular - and all the evidence suggests that it would not be.

It's where it all started. There are well over a thousand participants each week.

But again - this supposes that a GC only run would be more popular - and all the evidence suggests that it would not be.

I think your understanding of the term 'gender critical' might be a little fuzzy.