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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

'Pregnant people'

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StickySundew · 18/08/2026 18:01

I know there are more important battles, but this pisses me off and we've learned that gender-centric language is used as a wedge.

Only women get pregnant. Don't try to erase the relevance of female sex. This doesn't happen to men - all the info my friend with prostate cancer gets refers to men with prostate cancer, not 'people with prostate cancer'. There'd be outrage and a lot of hurt if someone tried to set up support for 'people with prostate cancer'.

This time it was the Food Standards Agency, issuing a reminder about the groups most at risk from salmonella poisoning.

I just wanted to let off steam.

So that I have a bit more excuse, let's have an utterly pointless voodoo poll to see how many enablers and TRAs are hanging around.

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6ate9 · 27/08/2026 13:53

@Mouldemort “Women are people”

MEN are people too. Men cannot get pregnant. ONLY women can get pregnant. ‘Pregnant women’ works fine and ‘pregnant girl’ if need be.

iwishitwouldstartraining · 27/08/2026 14:03

is a casualty of gender critical obsessiveness with trans men

Thank goodness somebody cares about them and understands that they depend on sex based rights.

NotAtMyAge · 27/08/2026 14:16

Mouldemort · 27/08/2026 13:38

As "pregnant people" is frequently used in the context of reproductive rights, in particular by pro-choice groups, it's vital that we use language that all includes all people who can get pregnant, including children. Only "pregnant people" does this.

Frankly, suggesting that "children" should be subsumed under "women" because they are pregnant a deeply regressive and is a casualty of gender critical obsessiveness with trans men. You don't think they are men - fine - but don't let your views undermine reproductive rights.

Women are people. If you have a problem with this, you are no feminist.

Women are people. If you have a problem with this, you are no feminist.

Of course we are and we are also the only people capable of becoming pregnant because we are female, unlike the half of the population who are male. Age and any inner identity feelings are irrelevant here. The only thing that matters is reproductive sex.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 27/08/2026 14:18

Now, if Mouldy were proposing a new umbrella noun exclusively meaning the female half of humanity I'd accept he was arguing in good faith. While we haven't had such a noun in Emglish before, I can see the utility in it.

But he isn't. He is arguing the opposite. He is arguing that there should be no words that specificaly refer to the female half of humanity at all.

And given the clear and undeniable physical and social consequences sex has for us, particularly if we are female, who on earth would think that was a reasonable thing to suggest other than a person who at best totally devalues, and at worst perhaps even literally hates, women and girls?

Mouldy ain't no Feminist and he ain't no friend to female people if he can't even allow us a unique name within the overall mass of "people".

CreativeGreen · 27/08/2026 14:23

Black people are people, @Mouldemort and if you deny as much you are some kind of racist from the 1840s. But we don't say 'People's Lives Matter' do we? Because the actual category is really quite fucking important, wouldn't you say? In fact, isn't 'All Lives Matter' kind of a .... racist dogwhistle?

6ate9 · 27/08/2026 14:28

@Mouldemort We must use precise terms instead of "people" for female-specific conditions and male-specific conditions to ensure accurate medical treatment, clear communication, and proper health screening.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 27/08/2026 14:38

Mouldemort · 27/08/2026 13:38

As "pregnant people" is frequently used in the context of reproductive rights, in particular by pro-choice groups, it's vital that we use language that all includes all people who can get pregnant, including children. Only "pregnant people" does this.

Frankly, suggesting that "children" should be subsumed under "women" because they are pregnant a deeply regressive and is a casualty of gender critical obsessiveness with trans men. You don't think they are men - fine - but don't let your views undermine reproductive rights.

Women are people. If you have a problem with this, you are no feminist.

I know how this works
"Women are people. If you have a problem with this, you are no feminist."

Just like "Men are women if the say they are. If you have a problem with this, you are no feminist."
"Sex change is great for children suffering from pubertal angst. If you have a problem with this, you are no feminist."
"Some special men are entitled to share changing rooms, showers and hospital wards with women and girls. If you have a problem with this, you are no feminist."

Rinse and repeat.

stopbeingnasty · 27/08/2026 14:39

girljulian · 18/08/2026 19:48

Pregnant people to me is inclusive of women and girls. It’s quicker than saying that.

I mean it's women that should be getting pregnant, not girls...

6ate9 · 27/08/2026 14:42

stopbeingnasty · 27/08/2026 14:39

I mean it's women that should be getting pregnant, not girls...

If a girl gets pregnant, ‘pregnant girl’ works.

The word ‘people’ include both sexes. Pregnancy is something ONLY females can do.

Mouldemort · 27/08/2026 15:26

6ate9 · 27/08/2026 14:42

If a girl gets pregnant, ‘pregnant girl’ works.

The word ‘people’ include both sexes. Pregnancy is something ONLY females can do.

Pregnant people includes all people who can get pregnant. Pregnant women doesn't. That's why it is used. Honestly, do you get upset if people say "citrus fruit?" because apples aren't citrus fruit?

We aren't talking about specific cases, but a general term. Of course "pregnant girl" works if a girl is pregnant, and pregnant woman works if you are talking about it women. "Pregnant people" is a general term which includes everyone who is pregnant.

I've explained myself very clearly and I have nothing else to say on matter. Transphobia rots the brain and bleeds into perfectly normal use of language.

CreativeGreen · 27/08/2026 15:34

Mouldemort · 27/08/2026 15:26

Pregnant people includes all people who can get pregnant. Pregnant women doesn't. That's why it is used. Honestly, do you get upset if people say "citrus fruit?" because apples aren't citrus fruit?

We aren't talking about specific cases, but a general term. Of course "pregnant girl" works if a girl is pregnant, and pregnant woman works if you are talking about it women. "Pregnant people" is a general term which includes everyone who is pregnant.

I've explained myself very clearly and I have nothing else to say on matter. Transphobia rots the brain and bleeds into perfectly normal use of language.

No, but I'd think it was weird and confusing if someone said 'I've made a fruit crumble' rather than doing the normal thing of saying what fruit it was made of.

I think you have explained yourself clearly, yes, but I don't think what you've explained is necessarily what you meant to 😆

CreativeGreen · 27/08/2026 15:36

Would you like ice and fruit in your gin and tonic?

Oh, that's a lovely looking pie, what is the filling? Oh, fruit! Great, that's my favourite!

You should eat five piece of fruit and vegetable day, but do strive for variety - for example, you could have a fruit with breakfast, but a fruit at lunch, and then after having vegetable with vegetable for dinner, finish with fruit! Being healthy doesn't need to be boring!

iwishitwouldstartraining · 27/08/2026 15:37

Mouldemort · 27/08/2026 15:26

Pregnant people includes all people who can get pregnant. Pregnant women doesn't. That's why it is used. Honestly, do you get upset if people say "citrus fruit?" because apples aren't citrus fruit?

We aren't talking about specific cases, but a general term. Of course "pregnant girl" works if a girl is pregnant, and pregnant woman works if you are talking about it women. "Pregnant people" is a general term which includes everyone who is pregnant.

I've explained myself very clearly and I have nothing else to say on matter. Transphobia rots the brain and bleeds into perfectly normal use of language.

I've explained myself very clearly

No you haven't.

Do you think Boris Becker's 1985 Wimbledon win should be scrubbed from the board on the grounds that at 17 he wasn't yet a gentleman?

RowsOfFlowers · 27/08/2026 15:48

Mouldemort · 27/08/2026 13:38

As "pregnant people" is frequently used in the context of reproductive rights, in particular by pro-choice groups, it's vital that we use language that all includes all people who can get pregnant, including children. Only "pregnant people" does this.

Frankly, suggesting that "children" should be subsumed under "women" because they are pregnant a deeply regressive and is a casualty of gender critical obsessiveness with trans men. You don't think they are men - fine - but don't let your views undermine reproductive rights.

Women are people. If you have a problem with this, you are no feminist.

Suggesting that trans should be “subsumed” under pregnant people is exactly the same argument.

Only females can reproduce and become pregnant. You cannot erase gender when it comes to reproduction.

6ate9 · 27/08/2026 15:49

@Mouldemort “Pregnant people includes all people who can get pregnant.”

NO!! People include BOTH sexes. Only ONE sex can become pregnant.

You know this, we all know this. Only WOMEN can become pregnant. STOP trying to eliminate the words WOMAN and WOMEN!!

RowsOfFlowers · 27/08/2026 15:50

Mouldemort · 27/08/2026 15:26

Pregnant people includes all people who can get pregnant. Pregnant women doesn't. That's why it is used. Honestly, do you get upset if people say "citrus fruit?" because apples aren't citrus fruit?

We aren't talking about specific cases, but a general term. Of course "pregnant girl" works if a girl is pregnant, and pregnant woman works if you are talking about it women. "Pregnant people" is a general term which includes everyone who is pregnant.

I've explained myself very clearly and I have nothing else to say on matter. Transphobia rots the brain and bleeds into perfectly normal use of language.

Are we gonna start referring to “people who get prostate cancer” too then? Because again, biology states that only males can get prostate cancer. I don’t see language in their healthcare information changing as drastically as it does for us women and girls.

RowsOfFlowers · 27/08/2026 15:52

The term people refers generally to human beings of both genders (yes, there are only two).

I am sorry that biology may offend some people, it doesn’t make what we are saying a hate crime.

iwishitwouldstartraining · 27/08/2026 15:55

CreativeGreen · 27/08/2026 15:36

Would you like ice and fruit in your gin and tonic?

Oh, that's a lovely looking pie, what is the filling? Oh, fruit! Great, that's my favourite!

You should eat five piece of fruit and vegetable day, but do strive for variety - for example, you could have a fruit with breakfast, but a fruit at lunch, and then after having vegetable with vegetable for dinner, finish with fruit! Being healthy doesn't need to be boring!

But where do tomatoes fit?

I think you are going to have to drop your exclusionary language and just say 'food'.

CreativeGreen · 27/08/2026 15:59

People on this thread are really dumb. The people who keeps posting stupid stuff about fruit and twelve years olds I mean. It's very clear what that people is actually arguing, and that the comfort and safety of twelve year girls is not the priority of that people.

This post was brought to you by Perfectly Normal Use of Language.

6ate9 · 27/08/2026 16:10

iwishitwouldstartraining · 27/08/2026 15:55

But where do tomatoes fit?

I think you are going to have to drop your exclusionary language and just say 'food'.

And rhubarb! Rhubarb is a vegetable, but it is considered a fruit when used in desserts!

borntobequiet · 27/08/2026 16:13

Mouldemort · 27/08/2026 15:26

Pregnant people includes all people who can get pregnant. Pregnant women doesn't. That's why it is used. Honestly, do you get upset if people say "citrus fruit?" because apples aren't citrus fruit?

We aren't talking about specific cases, but a general term. Of course "pregnant girl" works if a girl is pregnant, and pregnant woman works if you are talking about it women. "Pregnant people" is a general term which includes everyone who is pregnant.

I've explained myself very clearly and I have nothing else to say on matter. Transphobia rots the brain and bleeds into perfectly normal use of language.

If you get pregnant, you’re a woman, a reproductively adult female.

There’s nothing remotely mysterious about it.

6ate9 · 27/08/2026 16:24

borntobequiet · 27/08/2026 16:13

If you get pregnant, you’re a woman, a reproductively adult female.

There’s nothing remotely mysterious about it.

Some people just can’t seem to grasp it!

Every human life on Earth shares the biological and literal reality of being born of a woman.

SirChenjins · 27/08/2026 18:10

6ate9 · 27/08/2026 16:24

Some people just can’t seem to grasp it!

Every human life on Earth shares the biological and literal reality of being born of a woman.

They can grasp it - they just pretend not to. However, if they were part of a couple trying for a baby they'd know perfectly well that a woman and a man need to be involved - they would know exactly which was which and who would produce the sperm and the egg, and they would know who would carry it and give birth to it. There wouldn't be any faux naivety and it wouldn't be oh so complex and nuanced.

6ate9 · 27/08/2026 18:24

SirChenjins · 27/08/2026 18:10

They can grasp it - they just pretend not to. However, if they were part of a couple trying for a baby they'd know perfectly well that a woman and a man need to be involved - they would know exactly which was which and who would produce the sperm and the egg, and they would know who would carry it and give birth to it. There wouldn't be any faux naivety and it wouldn't be oh so complex and nuanced.

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Very true! I was giving @Mouldemort the benefit of the doubt in case his IQ was the same size as his feet!!

SirChenjins · 27/08/2026 18:47

6ate9 · 27/08/2026 18:24

Very true! I was giving @Mouldemort the benefit of the doubt in case his IQ was the same size as his feet!!

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