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UK radical feminists; what to do?

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RealRoseCritic · 29/07/2026 15:19

So there was a question earlier today in one of my groups about TERFs in the UK, why are they so strong there, etc. Let me elaborate on something.

There is something special in mainstream British feminism that is quite different from European feminism(s), but since the English speaking internet concerns mostly the Anglosphere and not Europe, due to us having separate, isolated debates in each country/language, you won't likely ever hear how the UK is substantially different.
It is important to understand the logic of British feminism. Unlike European feminism, which is mostly inclusive and focused on stuff like equal pay, care, safe design of public space and general equity, in the UK it was always about "separate but equal".

British centres of power were always men-only, and many British feminists didn't react the way European women did (aka pushed their way into male spaces, so that these became co-ed spaces), but created their own, separate spaces, which they then aggressively policed the same way British men did with theirs. Add some Victorian prudishness and bioessentialism, that was abandoned in Europe after WWII for obvious reasons, but not in the UK, and voilà, here come British second-wave radfems and the TERFs.

I am from the Czech Republic where I currently live; I lived in Norway, Poland and the Netherlands, I speak fluently multiple European languages and understand few others; I don't say that to brag, but to show my ability to do the comparative analysis, since I study the topic closely.

Out of EU member states, only in Bulgaria and Hungary are trans rights worse than in the UK at the moment, with Hungary being expected to get substantially better soon, and in neither of those two countries are trans people, and especially trans women, as demonised as in the UK.

In all EU member states transphobia comes exclusively from far right places; it is unheard of that liberals or anyone non-far right would say what is absolutely the mainstream in the UK, including Hungary and Bulgaria.
If you are saying the stuff JKR is saying, you are 100 % aligned with far right politics.

We had an attempt by a group of our far right senators to enact a bill proposal similar to what is in the UK, but the proposal was killed within a week before it could have been even voted upon in the Chamber of Deputies. Just for instance.
Scandinavian feminism is focused mostly on fair share of care and chores, German feminism focuses mostly on equal pay, Kita for everyone and the like, Polish feminism is mostly about access to abortion, Czech feminism is mostly about equal pay and safety from domestic violence - I could go on, but all in all, men are welcome to participate and the goal is to create equity for everyone, regardless of their gender. Together.
We don't get British obsession with separate spaces for women, women here are absolutely fine with the way things are, mostly because cultures in the Continent are far less prudish and overall we treat men and women as one people rather than different species.

Moreover, because of civil law rather than common law, we have different approach to legal texts and their interpretations; this makes it different too.
Not just regarding trans rights, but also regarding women's rights, I am often amazed by how much backward the UK is in so many ways compared to the EU (again, including places like Hungary, this needs to be stressed). I often see women in English-speaking debates saying things like "ugh, men" on things that actually concern problems that are specifically British and that stem mostly from both societies' tendency to separate already boys from girls, treating them differently and sexualising women in contexts we don't really see as sexual at all.

We can't really get this across the Channel, because we just don't have the power to do so. For instance Czech debate on feminism is quite isolated; it's interesting, but no more than 15 million people would ever be able to participate in it (CZ/SK) due to the language barrier, the same goes for Scandinavia (17 million), Benelux (28 million), Poland (38 million), or even DACH (95 million). It is nothing compared to half a billion people of the US, UK, CA, AU, NZ and IE that are giving tone to the worldwide debate in English.

So, if you are a British trans woman, you would do yourself a great favour if you moved to mainland Europe. You will be welcomed and cherished (for the most part).

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murasaki · 29/07/2026 18:35

Boiledbeetle · 29/07/2026 18:31

If you are saying the stuff JKR is saying, you are 100 % aligned with far right politics.

Card carrying member of the Labour party here who is in complete agreement with JKR.

So it's actually the other way round: Some people who support far right politics are in alignment with members of the UK Labour party when it comes to what JKR is saying.

Yes,, I guess it's my voting history that precludes me from my rightful share of these far right riches everyone's apparently getting.

Boiledbeetle · 29/07/2026 18:38

MashaPav · 29/07/2026 17:00

For one they don’t allow right bigots to buy out court cases or threaten legal action for anything they don’t like. AKA Joanne Rowling when Amnesty called out all the anti-rights organisations.
Two they actually follow science.
Hope this helps.

Is that the best you've got?

You know full well what you've written is not true.

Try harder.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 29/07/2026 18:39

Or don’t bother.

Boiledbeetle · 29/07/2026 18:44

Theeyeballsinthesky · 29/07/2026 17:31

I feel this calls for an @boiledbeetle style illustration 😁

You called.

The AI didn't understand my beetle draped in a Scotland flag prompt. Sigh.

UK radical feminists; what to do?
MyAquaOP · 29/07/2026 18:46

What a bizarre and prejudiced post from the OP, which I would consider xenophobic.

Since we're on the subject, it's worth quoting Judith Butler, the figure many would regard as emblematic of transwoman inclusive feminist theory, on so-called "gender-critical" British feminism:

"To be fair, some trans-exclusionary feminists call themselves 'gender-critical' feminists because, they claim, anti-trans politics is not at the center of their concerns. One of the main proponents of 'gender-critical' feminism, Holly Lawford-Smith, argues that sex, rather than trans identity, is at the center of her concern, for oppression on the basis of sex has always been the hallmark of what gender-critical feminists now call 'radical feminism,' understanding themselves as its contemporary incarnation."

I wouldn't recommend reading either but even Butler acknowledges that the British feminist tradition has its own distinct characteristics and is broadly left wing.

Unless, like the OP appears to, you think "different" automatically means "wrong," recognising that a tradition is distinct isn't controversial, it's simply descriptive.

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 29/07/2026 18:52

Boiledbeetle · 29/07/2026 18:44

You called.

The AI didn't understand my beetle draped in a Scotland flag prompt. Sigh.

😂😂😂

I'm sorry but that did make me laugh 🙂

Imdunfer · 29/07/2026 18:57

Helleofabore · 29/07/2026 18:26

I cannot be arsed.

Did you quote me by mistake? My post was not directed at you, I quoted Masha.

murasaki · 29/07/2026 19:00

Imdunfer · 29/07/2026 18:57

Did you quote me by mistake? My post was not directed at you, I quoted Masha.

Edited

She did and apologised up thread but with no tag, so you may have missed it.

Boiledbeetle · 29/07/2026 19:00

Igneococcus · 29/07/2026 17:43

I hope there will be an interpretive dance.

You try getting a load of drunk women to do Interpretative Dance!

EuroTerfs: Interpretative Dance at the Bluestocking Pub

CAST

Bavarian — exuberant, stompy, dramatic.

Frenchwoman — theatrical, over‑stylised elegance.

Irishwoman — three sheets to the wind, improvisational.

Dutchwoman — earnest, committed to the bit.

Polishwoman — rhythmic, expressive.

Ukrainian — bold, sweeping gestures.

Scottish‑Flag Beetle — tiny conductor of chaos, proud and patriotic.

SETTING

The Bluestocking Pub, late evening. Warm amber lights, fairy‑light strings, crowded tables filled exclusively with women. Wine bottles everywhere. A small stage with a speaker stack the beetle can climb.

SCENE

[Lights rise slightly. A tambourine rattles offstage.]

BAVARIAN (stepping forward, wobbling slightly) Ladies! Tonight… we interpret the human condition!

IRISHWOMAN (snorts with laughter) Aye, specifically the dramatic swooning variety.

FRENCHWOMAN (places hand to forehead, collapsing into a slow, exaggerated faint) I am overcome… by my own delicate constitution.

DANCE BEAT 1 — “THE FAINTING FITS”

DUTCHWOMAN (earnest, fanning herself with a beer mat) Oh! I cannot bear the weight… of existence!

POLISHWOMAN (joins her, staggering in slow motion) Life… is too… heavy.

UKRAINIAN (swoops in, catching both dramatically) Fear not! I shall rescue you from your… emotional collapse!

[They all fall to the floor in a heap, giggling uncontrollably.]

DANCE BEAT 2 — “THE HEROIC SIGH”

BAVARIAN (rising, puffing chest out) Observe! The mighty sigh of someone who has lifted… absolutely nothing!

[She inhales deeply, then releases a theatrical, trembling sigh. The others copy her, each more exaggerated than the last.]

IRISHWOMAN (pointing at a table of women) Look! They’re already choking on their wine.

DANCE BEAT 3 — “THE PEARL‑CLUTCHING WALTZ”

FRENCHWOMAN (grabbing imaginary pearls) Mon dieu! My sensibilities!

DUTCHWOMAN (whirling around her) Hold tight! They might escape!

POLISHWOMAN & UKRAINIAN (joining hands, spinning in a dizzy circle) Protect the pearls! Protect the pearls!

[They spin until they collapse again, breathless and laughing.]

ENTRANCE OF THE BEETLE

[The Scottish‑flag beetle climbs onto the speaker stack, waving a tiny claw.]

BEETLE (chittering rhythmically)Tap‑tap‑tap!

BAVARIAN (pointing) Our conductor has arrived!

IRISHWOMAN Aye, give us a beat, lass!

[The beetle taps out a jaunty rhythm. The tambourine joins in from offstage.]

DANCE BEAT 4 — “THE MOCK‑HEROIC MARCH”

UKRAINIAN (marching in place, knees high) Forward! Into the great unknown!

POLISHWOMAN (behind her, saluting dramatically) We march… for absolutely no reason!

DUTCHWOMAN (trying to keep time, wobbling) I’m marching! I think!

FRENCHWOMAN (doing a slow, exaggerated strut) I march… with style.

[They form a crooked line, marching toward the audience, then break into laughter.]

FINALE — “THE HUGS AND HICCUPS”

BAVARIAN (arms wide) Ladies! A final flourish!

[They attempt a coordinated spin. It fails spectacularly. They collapse into a pile of hugs, giggles, and mild hiccups.]

IRISHWOMAN (through laughter) Best interpretative dance we’ve ever done.

FRENCHWOMAN (raising her glass)To satire! To joy! To the Bluestocking!

ALL To the Bluestocking!

[The beetle takes a tiny bow].

Imdunfer · 29/07/2026 19:00

murasaki · 29/07/2026 19:00

She did and apologised up thread but with no tag, so you may have missed it.

I'm sorry I missed that completely!

@Helleofabore sorry about that.

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 29/07/2026 19:03

I don't know all that much about EuroTerfery but one of the big differences between the UK and US is that in the UK the response to TRA over-reach started with leftwing women. They were way ahead of the game although it has become pretty much cross-party now.

For those of us with an interest in history here's a blast from the past - 2018 no less.
https://janeclarejones.com/2018/11/13/the-annals-of-the-terf-wars/

FlirtsWithRhinos · 29/07/2026 19:05

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 29/07/2026 18:33

Why thank you kindly🙂

I now find myself vaguely wondering what the answer to "what to do?" is.
I do hope it doesn't involve peeing on the floor.

Edited

I keep reading it as "What a to do", which makes it seem like the opening line of a musical hall song.

mrshoho · 29/07/2026 19:08

Thanks OP for reminding us how proud we in the UK should be right now. Unlike so many other nations who ushered in self ID we threw it out. One of the most disastrous acts where any man at the drop of a hat can declare himself a female for a few quid. Making an utter mockery of sex based rights. So man of these countries are having to review and amend their legislation as they come up against problem after problem. All problems we could foresee yet have taken these fools by surprise. Our laws are being tested again and again but thankfully gender realists and women's rights are winning the battles. Beautiful to be the envy of the world when it comes to gender politics.

Helleofabore · 29/07/2026 19:09

Imdunfer · 29/07/2026 18:57

Did you quote me by mistake? My post was not directed at you, I quoted Masha.

Edited

I did quote you by mistake.

I agree with your post but I am sorry, my comment was for Flirts. I was acknowledging that while many of us can do the sock puppeting thing , who has the energy.

Sorry about attaching your post, it happened when I had a phone failure.

Helleofabore · 29/07/2026 19:09

Imdunfer · 29/07/2026 19:00

I'm sorry I missed that completely!

@Helleofabore sorry about that.

No worries at all.

Imdunfer · 29/07/2026 19:12

Helleofabore · 29/07/2026 19:09

I did quote you by mistake.

I agree with your post but I am sorry, my comment was for Flirts. I was acknowledging that while many of us can do the sock puppeting thing , who has the energy.

Sorry about attaching your post, it happened when I had a phone failure.

No worries I should have scrolled back further before posting.

Its not the strangest thing that's been written on this weird thread 🤣🤪🤣

murasaki · 29/07/2026 19:14

Gosh, look how polite everyone is when there's a misidentification!! How unlike etc...

ProfessorBinturong · 29/07/2026 19:21

"One of the main proponents of 'gender-critical' feminism, Holly Lawford-Smith, argues that sex, rather than trans identity, is at the center of her concern, for oppression on the basis of sex has always been the hallmark of what gender-critical feminists now call 'radical feminism,'"

So even Judith Butler has a stopped clock moment (albeit quoting someone else).

Yes. Feminism is about women. Our concerns. Our needs. Our rights. Otherwise it's not feminism.

How do people fail to understand this very simple point?

Neversofaraway · 29/07/2026 19:51

The far right don't really care about women's rights but, like Trump, see it as a wedge issue to make the democrats or the left look out of touch with ordinary people.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 29/07/2026 20:01

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EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 29/07/2026 20:06

Neversofaraway · 29/07/2026 19:51

The far right don't really care about women's rights but, like Trump, see it as a wedge issue to make the democrats or the left look out of touch with ordinary people.

Yep, opportunists are gonna opportune.
Stupid to hand them the open goal.

PriOn1 · 29/07/2026 20:30

I lived in Norway too. Their habit of getting completely naked when changing and showering for swimming has already highlighted how much dissent it causes when a man chooses to undress with them.

Women there also face possible imprisonment for speaking out on this topic. Perhaps that has skewed your understanding, OP.

WrongKindOfFeminist · 29/07/2026 20:43

ProfessorBinturong · 29/07/2026 19:21

"One of the main proponents of 'gender-critical' feminism, Holly Lawford-Smith, argues that sex, rather than trans identity, is at the center of her concern, for oppression on the basis of sex has always been the hallmark of what gender-critical feminists now call 'radical feminism,'"

So even Judith Butler has a stopped clock moment (albeit quoting someone else).

Yes. Feminism is about women. Our concerns. Our needs. Our rights. Otherwise it's not feminism.

How do people fail to understand this very simple point?

Cause a sexist society was readily groomed.

1984Now · 29/07/2026 21:22

WrongKindOfFeminist · 29/07/2026 20:43

Cause a sexist society was readily groomed.

That's a very interesting concept. Grooming can happen in many ways.
One way is for society to have become so liberal, develop such a soft underbelly morally as it strives to be kind, to not judge, that motivated actors find their way into positions of influence.
And they don't even have to try too hard, activists will put in the long hours, and useful idiots in polite society will wave their demands thru.
Look at Germany that birdbrains like Masha tout as having greater human rights than Britain in respect of trans.
A country that's legalized industrial grade prostitution and gender self ID.
The human rights of the women trampled underfoot don't even get a mention.

WrongKindOfFeminist · 29/07/2026 21:35

Women were hoodwinked. We were told we had to care for sad men, to include everyone. Men used shame, very successfully, to tell women it was selfish and mean to exclude them.

Women fell for it. Women are still falling for it.

In exchange, we were told we could be sexually liberated, not like those awful prudes. We could 'reclaim' our power by being promiscuous, and by dressing for the male gaze.

We are awarded the status of martyred saints, for the idiotic act of agreeing to destroy the category of 'woman' to admit men, thereby opening the gate to allow our aggressors and predators free reign to enter. Not only that, we agreed to shame other women, to join together to attack women, smear them, deride them, and insult them.

See this thread for examples:

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5557242-cancellation-of-wrn-ni-event-at-feile-festival

See also: Amnesty International.

These are intelligent, well meaning, educated, feisty women, who have been sold the lie that the category of 'woman' can include men, and have no idea what the implications are.

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