I checked your posting history and I will be honest, I am finding it very hard to believe you are the GC poster you claim to be. However, I am giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming you have name changed.
The reason I am finding it hard to believe is that anyone who has been following this from a GC position for any amount of time has seen this in the wild themselves.
It's not just a handful of cherry picked examples.
I'm pretty much classic woke. It's just this one thing where I'm a major outlier from my usual tribe, and most of the time I don't bring itup for obvious reasons. So I see what the nice, reasonable people on the Genderist side say.
I've been called a literal Nazi and told I do not deserve any consideration or respectful engagement with my position whatsoever simply for saying, in a hobby group I have been a member of for literally over a decade, that female people exist as well and that should be respected.
I've sat on the sidelines in a forum and watched reasonable, careful, considered posts being deleted wholesale and replaced with the narrative that "a bunch of hateful TERFS came and spread their poison but don't worry, we saw them off".
I mean - have you read JKR's statement and then compared it to how she gets described not just by the splintery rolling pin crowd but by everyday politically engaged left wing adults? They have absolutely no doubt that she literally wants to harm transpeople, that she has had some kind of middle aged breakdown.
It really, truly, 100% is not the same on both sides here.