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CarefullyCuratedFurniture · 12/10/2025 20:50

Also, we don't blame victims. Even if we're all rolling our eyes and thinking it's pretty bloody obvious this one's a wrong un man, we don't blame victims. The suggestion upthread that he might have been vulnerable himself sounds spot on to me.

GiraffesAtThePark · 12/10/2025 19:33

I did find it difficult to believe he didn’t know he was with a man but like PP said the judge pointed out that the victim had been ridiculed online for not knowing he was a man but only because the most obvious pics had been chosen. I’ve seen others where a naive 18 year old could definitely think he was a woman. Plus being younger and meeting at night most likely with low lighting etc

JamesWebbSpaceTelescope · 12/10/2025 08:30

PaterPower · 12/10/2025 06:18

Dark, drunk, inexperienced…

I’ll admit, it does seem a stretch though.

And go back a few years and a few lbs, some 18 year olds can still look prepubescent - not starting shaving or only needing to once a fortnight, very clear skin etc….

The photos from today have been specifically chosen to not pass, I suspect the defendant didn’t shave to have stubble on purpose. The judge made it clear there were photos from the time where it wasn’t as obvious.

eatfigs · 12/10/2025 08:23

GoldBalonz · 12/10/2025 03:08

I actually feel a bit sorry for this one. I mean, he's gone to prison because he 'deceived' someone into letting him give them oral sex.

I mean come on now...the man that let Ciara give him a BJ is a big fibbing fibber and we all know it 😂 He KNEW it was a bloke, how could anyone believe for a second he was really deceived?!

The guilty verdict seems more than a little unfair in this specific instance.

There's no evidence that his victim was lying.

I wouldn't be surprised if his victim is a bit mentally slow, and more vulnerable to manipulation as a consequence, which would make this even worse if true.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/10/2025 08:15

He told this guy he was “on his period” - why do these men do this?

IDontHateRainbows · 12/10/2025 08:12

NellieElephantine · 12/10/2025 08:10

But why then go to this extreme and let the world know?

It may be the fear some straight men have even in 2025 as being perceived gay? And that fear turned to anger and a need for retribution?

NellieElephantine · 12/10/2025 08:10

PaterPower · 12/10/2025 06:18

Dark, drunk, inexperienced…

I’ll admit, it does seem a stretch though.

But why then go to this extreme and let the world know?

PaterPower · 12/10/2025 06:18

GoldBalonz · 12/10/2025 03:08

I actually feel a bit sorry for this one. I mean, he's gone to prison because he 'deceived' someone into letting him give them oral sex.

I mean come on now...the man that let Ciara give him a BJ is a big fibbing fibber and we all know it 😂 He KNEW it was a bloke, how could anyone believe for a second he was really deceived?!

The guilty verdict seems more than a little unfair in this specific instance.

Dark, drunk, inexperienced…

I’ll admit, it does seem a stretch though.

GoldBalonz · 12/10/2025 03:08

I actually feel a bit sorry for this one. I mean, he's gone to prison because he 'deceived' someone into letting him give them oral sex.

I mean come on now...the man that let Ciara give him a BJ is a big fibbing fibber and we all know it 😂 He KNEW it was a bloke, how could anyone believe for a second he was really deceived?!

The guilty verdict seems more than a little unfair in this specific instance.

SammyScrounge · 12/10/2025 02:36

TheCatsTongue · 10/10/2025 13:32

Another passable trans woman. It's true you can never tell!

😁😁😁

GiraffesAtThePark · 11/10/2025 21:28

One of the top comments in the reddit thread is revealing. It basically says: what’s to stop someone sleeping with a trans woman and then claiming they were never told to get them arrested. But that’s just similar to men talking about women calling in sexual assault because they’re spiteful. I mean anyone could accuse anyone of sexual assault so I don’t see why trans people are special in that regard. And if you’re worried about being accused of not revealing you’re trans it’d be easy to have evidence of a text etc

LooseCanyon · 11/10/2025 20:51

Greyskybluesky · 11/10/2025 17:22

I'm sure Zack Polanski can help you with that

No wonder they all like him so much 😂

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BiologicalRobot · 11/10/2025 18:18

Greyskybluesky · 11/10/2025 17:22

I'm sure Zack Polanski can help you with that

< snorts >

< then gets the brain bleach out > ewwwww!

GallantKumquat · 11/10/2025 17:32

Greyskybluesky · 11/10/2025 17:22

I'm sure Zack Polanski can help you with that

🤣😂😅😳

Greyskybluesky · 11/10/2025 17:22

BiologicalRobot · 10/10/2025 14:01

Watkin, who was born male, had used the name Ciara since childhood but had not undergone any medical treatment or surgery.

Okay, either I'm a total luddite or something isn't right... how did he get those boobs in the first picture, and can i have some?

I'm sure Zack Polanski can help you with that

PrivateMusic · 11/10/2025 15:53

How on earth can anyone call that monster a “she”?! That is one ugly ass bloke.

FortheloveofPetethePlumber · 11/10/2025 15:51

Soontobe60 · 11/10/2025 13:14

Ashleeeeeeeee’s not happy is he?

Unless it's ok for men to deceive and abuse women they can't have sex!

Only nasty people would think there was an issue with this!

Hoppinggreen · 11/10/2025 13:16

Even with no below the waist action how did that man pass as a woman?

Soontobe60 · 11/10/2025 13:14

LooseCanyon · 11/10/2025 00:08

Much much sad


Ashleeee 🎃🪭
‪@reactiveashley.bsky.social‬
1/🧵 Is there any information on whether Ciara Watkin plans to appeal the bristling miscarriage of justice that effectively criminalises the sex lives of all trans people in England? Recorder Peter Makepeace KC‘s misogynistic remarks shocks me.
10 October 2025 at 15:33
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‪Ashleeee 🎃🪭‬ ‪@reactiveashley.bsky.social‬
· 8h
2/ Recorder Makepeace somehow thought it appropriate to say there were many other “convincing” images of Watkin and that the press deliberately chose photos where she wasn’t passing in order to mock the so-called victim. A male judge commenting on a woman’s appearance in open court is insane.


‪Ashleeee 🎃🪭‬ ‪@reactiveashley.bsky.social‬
· 8h
3/ And of course, the offensive, religious, patriarchal notion of “biological sex” has been reintroduced into criminal law by sheer authoritarianism. This is wrong and must be rectified.


‪Ashleeee 🎃🪭‬ ‪@reactiveashley.bsky.social‬
· 8h
4/ The evil deed of Hodge, Simler, Reed, et al have resulted in a then-18-year-old woman being jailed for 20 months simply for giving a blowjob. They must be held accountable.


‪Ashleeee 🎃🪭‬ ‪@reactiveashley.bsky.social‬
· 8h
5/ Recorder Makepeace is not just complicit in this injustice. He made it clear that he views trans identities and sexual orientations as forms of deception and indicators of repeat offending. Despite knowing how vulnerable the true victim is, he chose to punch down on her. A truly nasty judge.


‪Ashleeee 🎃🪭‬ ‪@reactiveashley.bsky.social‬
· 8h
6/ Following the Supreme Court’s decision, bigots are enjoying their mask-off moment. There’s no point pretending you can’t critique judges personally, only their judgments. The judges are already taking their masks off; you don’t need to strip them further, just point out that they have no mask.


‪Ashleeee 🎃🪭‬ ‪@reactiveashley.bsky.social‬
· 7h
7/ I should note that this is essentially a case of retroactive criminalisation caused by Brexit. Bigots are only able to pull this trick because the spillover effect of EU law into criminal law no longer exists.


‪Ashleeee 🎃🪭‬ ‪@reactiveashley.bsky.social‬
· 7h
8/ Trans people “by definition” must be imprisoned, and “by definition” cannot be changed by non-custodial sentences. This is what the judge had in mind: state-sanctioned conversion and torture.

‪darkhorsedan.bsky.social‬ ‪@darkhorsedan.bsky.social‬
· 8h
So much gross bigotry, transphobia in this story, it's disgusting. I hate this country so much right now. This comment from the judge stuck out, not just for being transphobic but i would also argue homophobic as well, suggesting that a man can't be straight if he's attracted to a trans woman.

ALT


‪Ashleeee 🎃🪭‬ ‪@reactiveashley.bsky.social‬
· 7h
9/ It’s puzzling that we continue to honour Alan Turing on our banknotes, yet it’s so clear that the lesson remains unlearned.


‪Ashleeee 🎃🪭‬ ‪@reactiveashley.bsky.social‬
· 6h
10/ Finally the fash should also be named Martin Scotson of Cleveland Police.

Ashleeeeeeeee’s not happy is he?

DeanElderberry · 11/10/2025 09:31

There was an image in the last few days of a bloke wearing a kind of plastic breastplate, like a backless, but definitely not frontless, t shirt.

Made of silicone, you can but them off etsy. It will be interesting to see what that search does to the ads I see for the next few weeks.

IDontHateRainbows · 11/10/2025 08:58

Ever heard of moobs? Moobs plus push up bra'll do it ( yuk)

BundleBoogie · 11/10/2025 08:55

BiologicalRobot · 10/10/2025 14:01

Watkin, who was born male, had used the name Ciara since childhood but had not undergone any medical treatment or surgery.

Okay, either I'm a total luddite or something isn't right... how did he get those boobs in the first picture, and can i have some?

Amazon probably.

Helleofabore · 11/10/2025 08:23

Datun · 11/10/2025 08:15

If I remember correctly he would encourage them to only deceive people who were unlikely to report them.

Using TRA language, like, don't go stealth with transphobes.

edited to add that I'm not seeing the term 'go stealth' much in those Reddit and Bluesky responses.

Maybe TRAs have finally realised that the jig is up and people can see through their deceptive language.

'

Edited

He absolutely used to advise that. And was proud of the way he did it. He would also refuse to consider that those words were, in fact, advising predatory behaviour.

Datun · 11/10/2025 08:15

FortheloveofPetethePlumber · 10/10/2025 14:03

I can remember another some time further back with a poster not only vigorously insisting that it was necessary that men were able to gain sex by deception without consequence, but claimed to be encouraging and teaching teens in ways to do it. It was not pretty reading.

If I remember correctly he would encourage them to only deceive people who were unlikely to report them.

Using TRA language, like, don't go stealth with transphobes.

edited to add that I'm not seeing the term 'go stealth' much in those Reddit and Bluesky responses.

Maybe TRAs have finally realised that the jig is up and people can see through their deceptive language.

'

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/10/2025 07:57

Yes, this has always been the law, I don’t know why these fools think it’s somehow a new thing. It has zero to do with the Equality Act.

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