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Men are pushing women over in the street - as a trend

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IwantToRetire · 12/08/2025 16:56

Experts fear that new types of misogyny and harassment – including spitting and pushing women over – are taking hold in the UK as they move offline

This type of targeted shoulder barging has a name: butsukari otoko. The term, which originated on the streets of Japan in 2018, describes a type of violence against women that is done in a crowded public space, most commonly train stations.

It could at first appear accidental, but it is actually intentional; it is gendered (men doing it to women), and done for misogynistic reasons.

Researchers fear it is gaining traction in the UK, spreading from online videos to real-life encounters. “It’s come out of a subculture that existed years ago in Japan,” says Megan Hughes, a researcher at the Alan Turing Institute’s Centre for Emerging Technology and Security, which tracks online extremism. “It is something that’s been around for a long time, and people are now recognising it and are speaking out, but it’s a really difficult thing to track.

“They are sometimes subtle collisions, which are designed to appear accidental. They’re making victims second-guess intent or motive, and that then makes it really difficult for people wanting to report a crime. So it’s really hard for us to monitor.”

Street harassment isn’t new, but many believe it’s getting worse. A poll by Zencity, which surveyed 1600 women, found that 69 per cent said they had first or secondhand experience of women being ill-treated within the last 12 months; 75 per cent of women surveyed said violence and harassment was a serious problem and asked whether it had got worse in the last five years – 42 per cent agreed, and 30 per cent thought it was the same.

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Men are pushing over women in the street as a trend – it happened to me

Experts fear that new types of misogyny and harassment – including spitting and pushing women over – are taking hold in the UK as they move offline

https://inews.co.uk/inews-lifestyle/men-pushing-over-women-street-trend-3845874?srsltid=AfmBOoq29csw2CYnH2QwNMgW8lX9zoYcwXTwbx8cTQP2Fr1LzvR33aT5

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moto748e · 15/06/2026 21:16

That woman was so fortunate: inches away from death or brain-damage. Well done Mr Bus-driver!

IwantToRetire · 15/06/2026 21:08

I hadn't realised until I saw an item on the news that this despicable male, actually had the nerve to turn round and run back past the woman as she lay on the ground. She tried to get him to stop but he just ran past her.

The arrogance.

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TreesAtSea · 15/06/2026 20:47

IwantToRetire · 15/06/2026 17:38

I was going to add this, so glad someone found the thread!

Yes it good news. But do wonder whether someone, or more than one, knew all along it was him, and only because of some sort of falling out or whatever they have so much too late, reported him

Thank goodness the woman wasn't hurt. And thank goodness the bus driver reacted so quickly and was able to avoid her.

Every day there is a story that just makes me think men shouldn't be allowed out without supervision.

I'd be very surprised if one or more people didn't know. After all, the images were pretty clear and I imagine most early morning joggers have their preferred routes. Hard to believe that no-one twigged who it was. Closed ranks, I guess, to protect him.

TreesAtSea · 15/06/2026 20:37

W0tnow · 15/06/2026 10:42

Oh wow. I’ve never forgotten that incident, oddly I was thinking about it yesterday!

So was I. No idea why but it just popped into my head. How strange. Really hope they've got the right man this time.

IwantToRetire · 15/06/2026 17:38

I was going to add this, so glad someone found the thread!

Yes it good news. But do wonder whether someone, or more than one, knew all along it was him, and only because of some sort of falling out or whatever they have so much too late, reported him

Thank goodness the woman wasn't hurt. And thank goodness the bus driver reacted so quickly and was able to avoid her.

Every day there is a story that just makes me think men shouldn't be allowed out without supervision.

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Greyskybluesky · 15/06/2026 17:29

There's an interesting thread over on Chat, lots of speculation including about "changed loyalties".
I really hope they get this bastard, whoever he is.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/5542673-wealthy-banker-wis-arrested-in-hunt-for-notorious-putney-bridge-pusher

CompleteGinasaur · 15/06/2026 17:26

Greyskybluesky · 15/06/2026 17:21

"The suspect was detained today at his £1.4 million home in west London.
A director at a private bank, he is a decorated former British Army officer who served in several major conflicts."

That description should be fairly identifiable, surely...?

Iriseee · 15/06/2026 17:23

porridgecake · 12/08/2025 17:06

The jogger who tried to push a woman under a bus on Putney Bridge was never found. It is only a matter of time before a woman is killed by this.

I think of that case often. I can't believe he was never found.

Greyskybluesky · 15/06/2026 17:21

"The suspect was detained today at his £1.4 million home in west London.
A director at a private bank, he is a decorated former British Army officer who served in several major conflicts."

StrongPoison · 15/06/2026 17:09

9 years ago, it feels like just a few! I've no doubt he has been an abusive twat to other women in the meantime.

AgentPidge · 15/06/2026 13:51

They've arrested him for GBH! Not attempted murder... Will be interesting to see what happens.

MrsTerryPratchett · 15/06/2026 13:49

Good news that they’ve found him. Hope they throw the book at him (doubt it).

JenniferBooth · 15/06/2026 13:44

Great news About time

BettyFilous · 15/06/2026 13:22

Perhaps they can place him there from his Strava and mobile phone records.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 15/06/2026 13:02

That's excellent news about the Putney man. Presumably they've got clear evidence after all this time.

SapphireSeptember · 15/06/2026 12:57

@oldtiredcyclist Well he sounds charming and delightful. Hmm Horrible man! That poor woman could have been killed.

Inthezone5578 · 15/06/2026 11:22

I was pushed at a bar in a rather well-to-do hotel. There were people staying who were off on a Christmas do. I walked to the bar to wait for my turn and this bloke shoved me and said oi, dont fucking try and push in. I lost it. I said oh, you're a charming cunt aren't you. I was a regular at said hotel and was served immediately with apologies madam added. This was a big bloke. I'm 5 foot and small build. And was alone. If they will do it in a public safe space like that then there's no hope.

oldtiredcyclist · 15/06/2026 11:12

This is the guy who pushed the female cyclist off the sea wall on the Isle of Wight.

www.countypress.co.uk/news/26150108.isle-wight-man-shoved-cyclist-off-wall-court-shoplifting/

mrshoho · 15/06/2026 11:08

I get the impression back then they had much clearer cctv images than was shown to the public. Be very interesting to see the court case unfold.

ArabellaScott · 15/06/2026 11:08

Holy fuck. I hope that woman is okay, must have been terrified.

mrshoho · 15/06/2026 11:04

Finally! Thanks for sharing this news.

AClassicTrenchcoat · 15/06/2026 11:03

That’a amazing. If it is him I hope they go in hard on him. This could have been a tragedy. Would he have even stopped if she had been hit by the bus?

W0tnow · 15/06/2026 10:58

I wonder what the ‘new information’ was?

DontStopMe · 15/06/2026 10:51

Wow! Has someone given the Metropolitan police a long-needed kick up the arse? First the Wimbledon School driver, now the Putney Pusher.

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