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Reflections on Trans Arguments

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LimeFinch · 18/06/2025 16:17

I've noticed a lot of general discourse about trans people that is based on misinformation, some of it dangerous, most of it born out of ignorance, so here's a handy reference to counter some of the claims I've seen.

Trans People are extremist! That's wot I done heard!
Transgender extremism doesn't exist - it's just a right-wing talking point used to discredit legitimate healthcare and equality efforts.
https://www.amnesty.org.uk/press-releases/uk-un-view-trans-rights-much-needed-common-sense
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/apr/11/hilary-cass-trans-children-review
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2024/feb/02/gender-critical-beliefs-under-the-microscope

Puberty Blockers are Dangerous! My total lack of medical knowledge says so!
Puberty blockers are often lifesaving interventions. They're prescribed only after long assessments involving NHS gender clinics, parents, and specialists. They are fully reversible and shown to reduce the risk of suicide in young people with persistent gender dysphoria.
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/treatment
https://www.england.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/tonic-psh-consultation-analysis-report.pdf
https://www.bmj.com/content/386/bmj.q1638.short
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/resources/interim-service-specification-specialist-gender-dysphoria-services-consultation-response
https://www.rcpch.ac.uk/news-events/news/rcpch-responds-publication-final-report-cass-review

I Heard They're Changing Kids' Genitalia!
No people under 18 are getting genital surgery in the UK. NHS policy and private clinics alike restrict this to adults.
Indeed, more cisgender teens receive breast reduction surgery on the NHS than trans teens receive chest masculinisation surgery. The procedures follow similar approval processes, yet only one group is routinely scrutinised.
https://pure.johnshopkins.edu/en/publications/breast-surgery-in-adolescents-cisgender-breast-reduction-versus-t
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/02/10/revealed-thousands-of-trans-surgeries-carried-out-by-nhs/

They're in Women's Sports! I read it on teh internets!
There are only a small number of openly trans athletes competing at a professional level in the world, and none are dominating their fields.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/61346517
https://feeds.bbci.co.uk/sport/athletics/65051900

But, but, but, Women's Sports! No men!
Sex-segregated sports were historically introduced to exclude women, not because men were being beaten. The idea that it was about fairness is a myth.
https://www.theguardian.com/football/2022/jun/13/how-the-fa-banned-womens-football-in-1921-and-tried-to-justify-it
https://research.birmingham.ac.uk/en/publications/health-gender-and-inequality-in-sport-a-historical-perspective

Ok, but Trans-women are Stronger. That ain't Fair!
There is no consistent biological advantage for trans women in elite sport. Oestrogen therapy significantly reduces muscle mass, strength and performance over time. Regulations often require minimum hormone levels and transition periods before competing.
https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/55/15/865
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/olympics/59312313

Trans-Women are Men!!!!!! Any fule knowe that!
Identity is personal. “Man”, “woman”, “boy”, and “girl” are social roles - that’s gender. Not to be confused with biological sex - male and female. No trans woman claims to be biologically female, and no trans man claims to be biologically male. That’s another right-wing straw man argument.
https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/media-centre/interim-update-practical-implications-uk-supreme-court-judgment
https://www.stonewall.org.uk/resources/lgbtq-hubs/trans-hub/the-truth-about-trans

Trans History is Different to Women's History
The idea that trans women have a “separate history” to cis women echoes the same tactics once used to exclude Black women and disabled women from womanhood.
https://blog.bham.ac.uk/socialsciencesbirmingham/2024/03/08/international-womens-day-trans-women-cannot-be-left-behind/
https://www.disabilityrightsuk.org/news/trans-and-disability-justice-how-are-our-struggles-linked
Tall women, Black women, trans women - these are all adjectives describing different types of women. Every woman’s experience of womanhood is unique. If you exclude trans women from being women, what condition are you using to define womanhood? There isn’t one necessary condition. So trans women cannot be excluded from womanhood on this basis.

Trans-Women are Men in Dresses! I read it in the Daily Mail!
Crossdressing is not the same as being trans. Many cis men crossdress and are not trans.
https://fiorry.co/glossary/crossdresser/

But Anybody can be Trans in an Instant! I'm scared!
The risk of coming out as trans due to internalised homophobia and sexism is a real thing but is not as common as many would have you believe. That’s why the NHS has a structured care pathway with long waiting times and assessments. No one can simply walk in and access hormones or surgery. Many people are left in limbo for years unless they are in crisis or suicidal.
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/
https://transactual.org.uk/trans-lives-21/

Organisations are Convincing Kids They're Trans! Think of the Children!
No one is trying to “convince” people they’re trans. If you feel deep discomfort with the sex you were assigned at birth, you might be trans - but that’s for you to explore, not for anyone else to decide. The queer community is generally very good at spotting people who are dealing with internalised issues - no one wants anyone to transition unless it’s truly needed. This whole “kids being convinced” thing is another empty scare story.
https://transactual.org.uk/healthcare-professionals/inclusive-healthcare/
https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/referral-pathway-for-children-and-young-peoples-gender-services-community-and-hospital-paediatric-services/

Now, I'm very aware of the MN reputation for shutting down the threads - and removing the accounts - of anyone who doesn't go along with the anti-trans-hate-cult, but for the short time this thread remains up it's worth taking some time to actually look at the links, to think about the status of trans-women in the current society, and consider how this judgement - and the subsequent interpretation of the same by those who are a little hard of thinking - might reflect on us as self-assumed rational, reasonable human beings.

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StandFirm · 21/06/2025 13:28

Shedmistress · 21/06/2025 13:21

The 3 that opposed the Supreme Court judgement were all put into their positions by Obama who was put into his position by the Prizkers who are extreme TRAs what with one being a man who says he is a woman.

So I'll take people that oppose them any day thanks.

You of course would be free to write to the Supreme Court explaining what 'Trans' is to assist them. If you think you know better than the brightest and best of the USA Trans Activists and Lawyers who were unable to even explain the basics.

So I'll take people that oppose them any day thanks.

That is deeply fucked up I'm afraid. I will fight the MAGA extremists and their cheapo UK avatars as long as I breathe.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 21/06/2025 13:28

Until one of the many posters I have politely asked to explain, not even exactly what "trans" is, but simply why it should be assumed to override physical sex in language and provisions that only ever existed because of physical sex, I am forced to conclude that what "Trans" means in practice is "whatever I need it to mean to get what I want"

Shedmistress · 21/06/2025 13:21

StandFirm · 21/06/2025 13:16

I seriously wouldn't take the Republican-controlled US Supreme Court as the moral benchmark here. Trump and his useful idiots are in bed with misogynistic fundamentalists who are keen to reinforce the patriarchy, not redress wrongs against women. Sometimes the 'enemy of my enemy is my friend' doctrine really doesn't work.

The 3 that opposed the Supreme Court judgement were all put into their positions by Obama who was put into his position by the Prizkers who are extreme TRAs what with one being a man who says he is a woman.

So I'll take people that oppose them any day thanks.

You of course would be free to write to the Supreme Court explaining what 'Trans' is to assist them. If you think you know better than the brightest and best of the USA Trans Activists and Lawyers who were unable to even explain the basics.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 21/06/2025 13:16

I'm pretty sure the rape crisis sector said trans women weren't a problem too, and in a shocking turn of events that turned out not to be true.

StandFirm · 21/06/2025 13:16

Shedmistress · 21/06/2025 09:40

Didn't the USA Supreme Court say just days ago that there is no such thing as 'trans'? So if people are arguing for this thing they think exists, they really need to define their terms. As they all seem very confused about it all.

I seriously wouldn't take the Republican-controlled US Supreme Court as the moral benchmark here. Trump and his useful idiots are in bed with misogynistic fundamentalists who are keen to reinforce the patriarchy, not redress wrongs against women. Sometimes the 'enemy of my enemy is my friend' doctrine really doesn't work.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 21/06/2025 13:10

Datun · 21/06/2025 12:56

“Personally I trust the refuge workers who say that genuine trans women are never the problem but I'd love to see any data.”

it rather begs the question as to why a philanthropist had to set up a woman only rape refuge, using the law in order to exclude men.

This s nagging away at the back of my mind but I’m sure I remember one of the researchers who’d been commissioned to look at this issue saying they’d been told not to include any dissenting voices in
The published report 🤔 it was a few years ago which is why im not 100%

Datun · 21/06/2025 12:56

“Personally I trust the refuge workers who say that genuine trans women are never the problem but I'd love to see any data.”

it rather begs the question as to why a philanthropist had to set up a woman only rape refuge, using the law in order to exclude men.

Supima · 21/06/2025 12:07

Ugh. The naked racism in this post makes me sick. How many times have we read TRAs parroting ‘if Black women can be a subset of women then so can men’? And the blokes who say this imagine they are making a liberal/progressive argument rather than being grotesquely racist.

PractisingMyTelekenipsis · 21/06/2025 11:58

I tried telling my GP I identify as a TW so that I could access laser hair removal on the NHS (PCOS beard) apparently I can't be a TW. Even though TWA (apparently) W .
So if TWAW then why aren't women transwomen? Hmm

Helleofabore · 21/06/2025 11:55

Mochudubh · 21/06/2025 11:50

The raging hypocrisy of the majority of posters on this thread is off the scale.

You bleat about fairness in one breath and in the next you are using reason and logic to engage in a battle of wits against an unarmed man.

Shame on you all.

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Helleofabore · 21/06/2025 11:54

“Personally I trust the refuge workers who say that genuine trans women are never the problem but I'd love to see any data.”

And yet a few years ago there were a series of posts from women recounting the negative impacts in refuges because male people were there. And they were scared to speak out because some still had need of the services so did so anonymously.

Stories such as how much inappropriate behaviour there was, intimidation too, sexual abuse. There was one woman who reported sharing a room with one who masturbated in the room when she was there.

And then came the stories of how when women complained, they were told that if they had an issue they should leave.

So I would not be trusting any person stating that male people are never the problem in refuges. But each to their own.

Mochudubh · 21/06/2025 11:50

The raging hypocrisy of the majority of posters on this thread is off the scale.

You bleat about fairness in one breath and in the next you are using reason and logic to engage in a battle of wits against an unarmed man.

Shame on you all.

lechiffre55 · 21/06/2025 11:36

TemporarilyChangedToday · 21/06/2025 09:21

Data please. Show me evidence that women are being attacked by trans men, particularly in toilets or other single sex spaces. I can't find any but it may exist. And then compare this with the number of women attacked by other men. Personally I trust the refuge workers who say that genuine trans women are never the problem but I'd love to see any data.

If you're genuinely curious about the intersection of sex, biology and gender roles you could also compare this with the number of women attacked by other women (very high in lesbian groups), and attacked by gay men (almost non existent).

You ask for data from the opposing point of view
Data please. Show me evidence that...
and then follow it with anecdote to support your point of view
Personally I trust the refuge workers who say that...
and finish by asking for data from the opposing point of view again
but I'd love to see any data.

Do you not see how poor that makes your argument look? You are literally undermining yourself. Your argument is based on double standards. You've destroyed your own credibility. When I was talking about bad faith this is erxactly what I meant. Not that your point of view is opposed to mine, that's fine, but that your argument is based on double standards. And you call my argument a parody, you should take a look in a mirror.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 21/06/2025 11:14

FlirtsWithRhinos · 21/06/2025 10:48

So given that you obviously know biologically female people exist and are different to male, and presumably would not claim that being biologically female has not historically and still today lead to significant social constraints and risks that are specific to being biologically female, why is it so important to the TWAW crowd that women (in the original sense of female people) should not be allowed their own sex-specific rights, spaces and protections, not even allowed the language to speak of hiw being female impacts their lives for good or bad?

Why is it that they will only accept trans women being respected and protected if it also takes rights, protections and language away from women?

Why do they hate women so much?

They hate us 'cos they ain't us.

SternJoyousBee · 21/06/2025 11:12

Helleofabore · 21/06/2025 10:54

I do. It was hilarious. And they were young women too, which really puts the entire 'wait for the old women to die, there will be more acceptance' theory in the bin.

Young and pretty. The ‘pretty’ was probably the most rage inducing part.

Helleofabore · 21/06/2025 10:54

Shedmistress · 21/06/2025 10:40

Remember those two women who were on Only Fans who put bananas down their pants and pretended to be men who say they are women?

The drama! They sold out of smelling salts that day I believe.

I do. It was hilarious. And they were young women too, which really puts the entire 'wait for the old women to die, there will be more acceptance' theory in the bin.

Helleofabore · 21/06/2025 10:52

TemporarilyChangedToday · 21/06/2025 09:21

Data please. Show me evidence that women are being attacked by trans men, particularly in toilets or other single sex spaces. I can't find any but it may exist. And then compare this with the number of women attacked by other men. Personally I trust the refuge workers who say that genuine trans women are never the problem but I'd love to see any data.

If you're genuinely curious about the intersection of sex, biology and gender roles you could also compare this with the number of women attacked by other women (very high in lesbian groups), and attacked by gay men (almost non existent).

There is so much confusion in this post.

And it also seems that there is confusion as to what is considered legitimate discrimination and illegitimate discrimination for the purpose of 'rights'.

It is legitimate to separate spaces based on sex based on male patterns of criminality which can be measured, plus the fact that male people are more powerful than female people on average. In fact, we know from the studies that in regards to power, iirc, the lower quartile of male people are still more powerful than the top decile of female people.

Hence it is not just pattern of behaviour, it is also the impact of that behaviour.

This has been forgotten when people start to discuss the 'rights' of some male people which end up being additional privileges. Because when looking at what is a reasonable accommodation for society to make for people in regards to their 'human rights', both those factors, behaviour patterns and impact need to be considered.

So your pivot to looking at female on female attacks is actually not something tends to be considered in the separation of spaces. It would be unworkable for one. But also there is no expectation that anyone has the right to be in a separate space to the rest of their sex in the provision of publicly accessed single sex spaces.

However, I am actually feeling like whatever you post, we have to clarify just who you are referring to. This is where precise and accurate language is needed.

When posters get mixed up with transwomen and transmen the way you have, it then makes discussion very difficult. Confusion reigns.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 21/06/2025 10:48

TemporarilyChangedToday · 21/06/2025 08:04

If you mean no-one believes that trans women have different DNA to other women, then yes, that is correct. No-one does.

To think otherwise would be ridiculous. To think others think otherwise would be ridiculous

So given that you obviously know biologically female people exist and are different to male, and presumably would not claim that being biologically female has not historically and still today lead to significant social constraints and risks that are specific to being biologically female, why is it so important to the TWAW crowd that women (in the original sense of female people) should not be allowed their own sex-specific rights, spaces and protections, not even allowed the language to speak of hiw being female impacts their lives for good or bad?

Why is it that they will only accept trans women being respected and protected if it also takes rights, protections and language away from women?

Why do they hate women so much?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 21/06/2025 10:47

Shedmistress · 21/06/2025 10:40

Remember those two women who were on Only Fans who put bananas down their pants and pretended to be men who say they are women?

The drama! They sold out of smelling salts that day I believe.

What, so they can pretend to be us but we can't pretend to be them?

Waitwhat23 · 21/06/2025 10:46

I think the most hilariously lack of self aware reaction was from transwomen who said 'my gender is not your costume'.

SternJoyousBee · 21/06/2025 10:41

Shedmistress · 21/06/2025 10:40

Remember those two women who were on Only Fans who put bananas down their pants and pretended to be men who say they are women?

The drama! They sold out of smelling salts that day I believe.

The reactions were priceless

Talk of appropriation. How these women couldn’t possibly know what it was like to be a transwoman. All said with zero self awareness.

Shedmistress · 21/06/2025 10:41

Ereshkigalangcleg · 21/06/2025 10:30

I must say I’m looking forward to finally finding out why I’m wrong. Because I’m certain there’s a really good, coherent argument as to why I should consider a self selecting group of men women about to be posted.

I'm here, with pencil, waiting to take notes! I may get RSI doing this all day...

Bored Julia Louis Dreyfus GIF
Shedmistress · 21/06/2025 10:40

Helleofabore · 21/06/2025 10:02

There has been several times before actually when female people
have identified as transwomen. It causes an absolute meltdown.

It does highlight the issue with the mantra though.

Remember those two women who were on Only Fans who put bananas down their pants and pretended to be men who say they are women?

The drama! They sold out of smelling salts that day I believe.

Datun · 21/06/2025 10:34

Ereshkigalangcleg · 21/06/2025 10:16

Exactly. “Trans women” are simply men. You are the one making the extraordinary claim. The burden of proof is on you @TemporarilyChangedToday

Exactly.

We don't want to rape you really isn't the gotcha these people think it is.

Well, I don't want you in here.

Now what?

Because there's absolutely no answer to that that doesn't constitute a threat!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 21/06/2025 10:30

I must say I’m looking forward to finally finding out why I’m wrong. Because I’m certain there’s a really good, coherent argument as to why I should consider a self selecting group of men women about to be posted.