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Memories of the last few years of madness

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SuperSleepyBaby · 20/04/2025 13:12

There have been so many issues over the last few years with trans rights clashing with women’s rights… its been fascinating, in a bad way.

some that come to mind:

A man photographed breastfeeding a newborn in a bus - and being used by the BBC to represent mothers for a story

A man running a rape crisis centre while saying he’s a women and telling women users of the service to ‘reframe their trauma’

a man saying he’s a women and being appointed to head a charity for endometriosis.

Male police officers who say they are women being allowed to strip search women.

What else…

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GirlsInGreen · 02/08/2025 11:55

RoyalCorgi · 02/08/2025 11:52

I wish there was an easy way to search a thread, because I or someone else has probably already mentioned this, but "Repent, motherfucker!" (uttered at some insane American demonstration outside the Netflix office, iirc) still makes me laugh. I often have the urge to say it in conversation but I don't know anyone in real life who would get the allusion.

She's a gif on twitter & one I use often😂

GirlsInGreen · 02/08/2025 11:54

The CPS providing PSHE guidance for schools in which it opined children steering clear of peers with a trans identity or refusing to play along may fall within the bounds of prosecutable criminality.
Until a brave girl took them to court & it was withdrawn.
The CROWN PROSECUTION SERVICE!
WTAF???

RoyalCorgi · 02/08/2025 11:52

I wish there was an easy way to search a thread, because I or someone else has probably already mentioned this, but "Repent, motherfucker!" (uttered at some insane American demonstration outside the Netflix office, iirc) still makes me laugh. I often have the urge to say it in conversation but I don't know anyone in real life who would get the allusion.

GirlsInGreen · 02/08/2025 11:50

Has anbody mentioned Dildo Rainbow Monkey yet?

GirlsInGreen · 02/08/2025 11:47

Margaret Atwood introducing "yeah but SEA SLUGS!" into the convo🫠.
Gave us a break from Clown Fish I s'pose.

Margaret Atwood though!😱

Sskka · 02/08/2025 11:42

mrshoho · 02/08/2025 11:30

Seeing and hearing the words "Her penis". Said by various academics, lawyers, police, journalists, with absolute conviction. Meanwhile I'm inwardly screaming what the fuck are you idiots saying!

Worse than that for me was the footage from the spa incident in LA, where passers-by were coming out with the ‘her penis’ line during the altercation. It’s one thing officials overthinking themselves into nonsense, but really chilling to see normal members of the public acting like drones impromptu.

DrBlackbird · 02/08/2025 11:41

Waitwhat23 · 20/04/2025 18:59

To be fair, the thread which came from that was very witty!

www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4967923-everyone-scarper-the-rozzers-are-coming

That thread was the best Christmas present.

GirlsInGreen · 02/08/2025 11:41

The bullying of Rachel Rooney by the whole industry for writing 'My body is me!'.

Still feel sick when I think about it, the hounding of one of the most gentle people I've ever met.

When Rachel reads 'My body is me!' for the CBBC bedtime story is when I believe the capture is over here.

mrshoho · 02/08/2025 11:30

Seeing and hearing the words "Her penis". Said by various academics, lawyers, police, journalists, with absolute conviction. Meanwhile I'm inwardly screaming what the fuck are you idiots saying!

GirlsInGreen · 02/08/2025 11:19

Lisa Nandy, Rebecca Long-Bailey, Angela Rayner, Dawn Butler signing the 12 point pledge card call8ng for expulsion of LP members with "transphobic views" & naming WPUK as "an exclusionary hate group".

Chilled to my bones.

We very nearly went full Tranada & I'm in awe of everywoman who raised a voice, stuck a sticker, got out on the street, had a conversation.

Quite tearful thinking of what we (women who said NO) have been through.
The day after Maya Forstaters first judgement, I watched my twitter count fall through the floor(I was/am lucky enough never to fear for my income/job) as women deleted profiles.

I sat & cried. I thought "we're fucked - we're fucked".
Looked at my then 13 year old girl & thought NO.
Phoned a terf friend, made plans, carried on.

But we came within inches.

Keenovay · 02/08/2025 11:18

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 21/04/2025 18:47

The Scottish Government appointing a man (Jason Grant) as their first Period Dignity Officer.

That was a really low point for me.

Edited

The appointment process was so dodgy, even aside from the inappropriateness of his sex.

"Our Freedom of Information (FOI) inquiries confirmed one of the four-person Period Dignity Working Group who made the controversial hire – understood to be Katie Baxter – headhunted the former tobacco salesman for numerous posts at the college."

https://www.thecourier.co.uk/fp/news/dundee/4631908/tayside-period-dignity-jason-grant-recap/

Three existing part time period officers who were pushed out of their jobs for this guy described how he was ushered into an internal post.

"We were all wondering who this guy was, he was in private meetings, next thing he is coming into the office to be involved in interview prep and endless coffees with Katie. Jason told us that he had been promised a new role. This was prior to the job advertisement and interview for the period dignity role. Meanwhile, my colleagues and I, who had been working for months on the period project, found it impossible to carry on working there as the environment was so toxic."

https://www.scottishdailyexpress.co.uk/news/scottish-news/male-period-tsar-pushed-out-27978908

I don't think any papers claimed he was having an affair with Katie Baxter but the repeated references to him being a "former personal trainer" seemed suggestive...but maybe she was just being stunning and brave in appointing a bloke.

CompleteGinasaur · 02/08/2025 10:45

naomisno1fan · 02/08/2025 10:40

This thread should be in classics @mnhq

Absolutely agree.

naomisno1fan · 02/08/2025 10:40

This thread should be in classics @mnhq

CompleteGinasaur · 02/08/2025 10:30

Hope I'm not crossposting (haven't read the full thread - saving it up to read properly when I'm not quite so busy!), have we had the delicate feminine beauty of the Piss Protest outside the EHRC yet? That act of compliant and sensitive grace got me over my silly Terf notions instantly, obviously - clearly the actions of a woman pushed to her limit by those nasty transphobes..

Well1mBack · 02/08/2025 10:03

SuperSleepyBaby · 20/04/2025 13:51

Or carefully worded articles about women’s health issues where there is no mention of women e.g ‘people’ experience menopause.

My work does this and it drives me totally mad. I will say something eventually. Sent out a request for people on maternity leave for a case study of their policies. The word women was omitted completely.

Also there's a menopause support group for all genders. Insane.

drhf · 02/08/2025 08:52

A few which I think didn’t get their due back in April:

  • Lesbian online magazine Autostraddle publishing a guide on how to fellate your partner (2018)
  • A British police officer telling Harry Miller that although Miller hadn’t committed a crime, “I need to check your thinking” because of a crude limerick on Twitter (2019)
  • Dawn Butler telling a TV interviewer “a child is born without [a] sex” (2020)
Toseland · 02/08/2025 08:08

Just to add Biden's White House lawn party, where an overexcited transactivist, Rose Montoya, exposed and played with his new boobs in front of everyone!

Memories of the last few years of madness
ClareBDimyon · 02/08/2025 07:20

for human rights & responsibilities of 'lesbian, gay, bisexual & transgender' people in fact. I am not against anyone but I am for myself and my own lesbian (& gay & bisexual) people. The BT got added, bisexuals were never excluded, transgender is a whole new value proposition but I was supportive of a transsexual* as early as 1980 (1st TV programme on the late Julia Grant) and a transman disclosed to me in 1991. Who has been supportive longer than I have? As I said in Brighton Crown Ct (24 July 2025).
The judge endorsed the decision of the trial that my actions were not in the least transphobic and the placing of the transphobic bigot before the crime horse...well she awarded costs AGAINST the police & CPS. 😎😎😎
£180 compo and not one but 2 days in court at the expense of the misogynist Brighton police & CPS? Wirth every single penny!

FOJN · 25/04/2025 10:03

Waitwhat23 · 20/04/2025 18:59

To be fair, the thread which came from that was very witty!

www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4967923-everyone-scarper-the-rozzers-are-coming

I missed that thread and I am only just learning I could have hidden out at Rocket Pandas place where I would have been kept company by an overly social donkey.

I'm not sure how long it will take me to recover from the disappointment.

twinklystar23 · 25/04/2025 07:27

Professor Winston (who engineeted the wirlds first tedt-tube baby) on question time stating something aling the lines of "I will likely receive a lot of hate (mail?) for this " before going on to say that people cant change sex, that EVERY cell of our bodies are part of our male or female DNA.

Namechangechanged · 25/04/2025 07:18

DworkinWasRight · 24/04/2025 22:27

Oh now this will be one for the history books, documentaries and films of the future. Says pretty much everything about the sheer arrogance, entitlement and stupidity (oh the irony of where this photo was taken) of gender wang.

SinnerBoy · 25/04/2025 03:40

Waitwhat23 · 20/04/2025 17:46

RMW popping onto a support thread to chastise us all about bundles.

And them's comment, "I'll leave you all to your cauldrons."

StellaAndCrow · 24/04/2025 21:20

popefully · 21/04/2025 09:07

Clare Dimyon. I came to this thread to post about her.

She has an MBE for LGB rights campaigning, is a rape survivor who asked for a female breast screening professional.

Brighton and Sussex University Hospitals NHS Trust published its new trans policy – and included the letter as an example of “highly discriminatory” correspondence from patients which should be referred to the hospital’s equality diversity and inclusion team.

https://archive.ph/ygX73

Edited

OMG that's so much more awful than I expected - the trust's response is horrific.
(in response to a rape survivor requesting a female to do her mammogram)
https://archive.ph/ygX73

On top of including her letter in their Trans Toolkit as an example of highly discriminatory transphobia, in their "apology" they say:

“However, it is not possible to guarantee to any patient that they will only be treated by a clinician assigned to a specific gender at birth and, as an organisation that prides itself on our commitment to diversity and inclusion, nor would we wish to do so.
It is also important that patients see the clinician most skilled to deal with their medical concern. We recognise our employees by the gender they identify as on a daily basis as it is essential that we respect the gender identity of all our staff".

JulesJules · 22/04/2025 07:03

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 21/04/2025 22:11

I wonder what happened to Venice Allan, Helen Steel (of McLibel fame), and Lisa Muggeridge? They were so key to waking me up back in 2018.

Obvs, don't actually tell me because they might be staying quiet for their safety. But they went quiet and I hope they are all OK.

Helen Steel is also on twitter https://x.com/helensteel12

My sister was at school with Helen, my Mum taught her at primary school and her Dad was my maths teacher!

https://x.com/helensteel12

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