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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

It will never happen - resource thread.

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MipMipMip · 27/08/2018 18:24

I'm hoping Rowantrees will be a contributor on here! This is basically a thread to keep together stories of all the things that we have been told will never happen. Please put what the item is about as well as a link for clarity.

Thanks.

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Helleofabore · 05/01/2026 15:56

This incident happened in May 2025 but really only was picked up 7 months later by Tish Hyman who reposted it.

The first post is of the woman discovering the male gym user masturbating in the changing room / toilet areas by seeing his shadow. She explains in the second link which is from January 2026 more about the incident.

It was in Planet Fitness and she was shocked by seeing that so left the changing room and went and talked to her boyfriend. Then she went back inside and the masturbater was still going so she FaceTimed her boyfriend to discuss what to do. She ended up going out to the front desk and the staff came back with her. They knocked on the door, the masturbating male gym user said he was a woman and that Planet Fitness allowed him to be in that space.

No one called the police. And there was no follow up.

https://x.com/libsoftiktok/status/2007990639397679375?s=20

https://x.com/libsoftiktok/status/2008060989414203890?s=20

Libs of TikTok (@libsoftiktok) on X

⚠️GRAPHIC⚠️ Man pretending to be a woman caught m*sturbating in the women’s bathroom with women present “I’m allowed to be in here… I’m a transgender.”

https://x.com/libsoftiktok/status/2007990639397679375?s=20

Helleofabore · 04/12/2025 17:14

https://x.com/Serena_Partrick/status/1996153684019835296?s=20

Jonathan de Jesus Robaina Santana is serving 38 years in prison for bludgeoning his cousin with a hammer, asphyxiating her until she died, then defiling her corpse. After developing a case of Prison Onset Gender Dysphoria, the press now refer to him as a "young woman".

Serena (@Serena_Partrick) on X

Jonathan de Jesus Robaina Santana is serving 38 years in prison for bludgeoning his cousin with a hammer, asphyxiating her until she died, then defiling her corpse. After developing a case of Prison Onset Gender Dysphoria, the press now refer to him a...

https://x.com/Serena_Partrick/status/1996153684019835296?s=20

Lalgarh · 24/11/2025 14:05

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Chersfrozenface · 21/11/2025 11:29

Another one. Samuel Wimbridge, self-styled Kizzy Lavender Lee-Wimbridge.

Formerly active with, and an office holder of, the local Pride organisation.

Here's the Reddux article:
https://reduxx.info/exclusive-scottish-trans-activist-in-court-on-child-sexual-abuse-charges/

A snippet
"Reduxx has discovered a disturbing digital footprint belonging to Wimbridge, including a social media profile within an online fetish community where he claimed to be a “trans lesbian” with a sexual interest in “age play.”

Wimbridge maintained a profile on the internet’s leading fetish community, FetLife, where he expressed a sexual interest in humiliation, BDSM, schoolgirl fetishes, redheads, polyamory, age play, and public sexual acts."

And the stories about hearings at Reading Crown Court in the local press:
https://www.newburytoday.co.uk/news/former-newbury-pride-committee-member-charged-with-child-sex-9435332/

https://www.newburytoday.co.uk/news/child-sex-allegations-against-gay-and-trans-rights-campaigne-9441283/

To complete the bingo card, he claims an ethnicity (Romani) which is evidently not his.

We'll see what happens at the Crown Court on 10 December.

FranticFrankie · 09/11/2025 16:27

Drag queen nursery teacher? Words i never thought I'd see put together!
Indecent messages? Gross

FranticFrankie · 09/11/2025 16:25

The guy interviewing Tish!!! Why should she have to justify herself? She was clearly getting upset. Disgusting behaviour from the gym

Lalgarh · 05/11/2025 17:55

More unthinkable ness.

Claims to own the place. Trigger ⚠️ etc

nitter.net/babybeginner/status/1985878088048394421#m

lcakethereforeIam · 05/11/2025 16:12

I think California is full on gender woo. The gym probably has no choice. Even if they provide a mixed sex or private changing rooms they can't force him to use them or deny him membership for this behaviour. They probably kicked Tish out to stop a lawsuit from him.

If anyone knows better, I'd love to be wrong.

YorkshirePuddingsGreatestFan · 05/11/2025 15:35

I noted how he confirms he has male genitals but he can't understand why women are uncomfortable with him being in the male changing room. He believes he's a woman so that's final.

Except he hasn't grown up as a woman. Like most women, he hasn't been the victim of unwanted male behaviour because of his sex. I'm not talking of the obvious rape and other such serious crimes. I mean the low level male violence that women are subjected to on a daily basis - being stared at, lewd comments, cat calling, unwanted advances, a man sat behind my daughter on the bus last week and stroked her hair. When you grow up with this sort of behaviour happening on a regular basis, you are naturally wary of all men due to the number of men who show disrespectful behaviour.

It doesn't matter how many hormones a man takes, how much surgery he has, how he wears feminine clothing and so on, he will never understand the lived in experience women have of dealing with men and why we are wary of men such as him. It's not transphobic, it's a natural female instinct as we see men as a potential predator and we still see him as a man, regardless of what he feels like.

ScrimshawTheSecond · 05/11/2025 10:57

Note that when a transwoman exposes his penis, papers are sometimes denying his gender identity:

https://www.lancs.live/news/lancashire-news/dad-tracked-down-dangerous-pervert-32406386

'A serial sex offender, who has been sentenced to 28 months in jail, admitted "I was unable to control my urges" after flashing a ten-year-old girl near a children's play area.
Laura Ashleigh Mart, who was born male but now identifies as female, had been banned from loitering near play areas and schools under a sexual harm prevention order imposed for previous offences, Lancs Live reports.
But on July 18, 2025, a 10-year-old girl who was playing in Williamson Park, Lancaster, saw "a man with long hair and a green jumper" looking at her. The man exposed his penis and wiggled it at her, before putting it away, Preston Crown Court heard.'

And sometimes still describing 'her penis':

https://www.lancashiretelegraph.co.uk/news/25438325.great-harwoods-laura-mart-jailed-exposure-lancaster/

'A woman who exposed herself to a group of children in a Lancaster park has been jailed.
Laura Mart, 35, who is a transgender woman, appeared before Preston Sessions House, charged with one count of indecent exposure and breaching a sexual harm prevention order.
The incident occurred on July 18, when the defendant, of Game Street, Great Harwood, was walking in Williamson Park, in Wyresdale Road.
A child who was playing on the monkey bars in the park saw Mart holding her penis and wiggling it at her, and she immediately told her friends and father.'

defrazzled · 05/11/2025 02:55

When you look at George's posting it is so offensive and utterly incoherent that it only makes sense as part of a masochistic fetish

Lalgarh · 04/11/2025 23:06

Boy George attempts to joke about it being a fuss over nothing then gets called out by other allies for assuming the penis person is a man 🙄

nitter.net/BoyGeorge/status/1985460074576290244#m

Lalgarh · 04/11/2025 22:46

Urgh look at him waltzing off thinking he's a diva

lcakethereforeIam · 04/11/2025 14:56

Wow, over 4m views!

Helleofabore · 29/10/2025 10:14

https://reduxx.info/exclusive-transgender-tiktoker-convicted-of-rape-domestic-violence/

“A trans-identified male who made TikTok content has appeared in court charged with rape and domestic violence. On October 20, Manchester Crown Court heard how Jordan O’Brien, who also goes by Jennifer Nieve, exerted coercive control over his partner and sexually abused her.”

and

“On Friday, October 20, O’Brien was found guilty of four out of the six counts for domestic abuse and sexual assault during a hearing at Manchester Crown Court.
O’Brien had amassed over 60,000 followers on social media for videos he made about identifying as transgender, and, judging by comments made on TikTok, had been receiving gifts from his fans. “

”One respondent stated that they had come to regret spending over £100 on O’Brien after learning about the charges against him.”

EXCLUSIVE: Transgender TikToker Convicted of Rape, Domestic Violence - Reduxx

A trans-identified male who made TikTok content has appeared in court charged with rape and domestic violence. On October 20, Manchester Crown Court heard how Jordan O’Brien, who also goes by Jennifer Nieve, exerted coercive control over his partner an...

https://reduxx.info/exclusive-transgender-tiktoker-convicted-of-rape-domestic-violence/

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