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Pointless office jobs

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Probablygreen · 10/11/2026 17:51

I returned to work today after a couple of weeks off, and I know it takes a few days to get back into the swing of things, but I’ve just thought, all day, that this is a completely pointless existence and I don’t know how I’m going to do it for the next 30 years.

I work in an office based role, and as part of the senior leadership team, earn around £80k per year. The role is not necessary. Without me, nobody would die, the world would carry on as it always has, even the organisation itself would be perfectly fine! I attend meetings where we talk about whether we should or shouldn’t do something. Nobody cares! Just do it or don’t, it makes no difference either way. I feel like I’m not the only one - 99% of office roles fit into this category.

But I’m stuck. I’d love to do something more meaningful, but I need the money. My husband is a carer for our son, and there are no jobs that I can think of that would scratch the itch for the same salary… so do I just suck it up for 30 years? It all seems so ridiculous, how did we as a civilisation end up here?

I’m not depressed or anything, I’m perfectly happy when I’m not at work, but does anyone else feel like this?

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Rocketpants50 · 10/11/2026 21:45

I did the opposite to you worked on a pointless office job then became a teacher. I would sometimes think oh to go back to my pointless job where I can drink tea and go for a wee! I did give up the school teaching job and now a very meaningful job but it doesn't pay 80k!

FinanceName · 10/11/2026 21:45

I see a few people have referred to bullshit jobs - I used to have one of these and was glad (if that’s the right word!) to find out that this is the official a name for them https://www.theguardian.com/books/2018/may/25/bullshit-jobs-a-theory-by-david-graeber-review

I work in a similar ish role nowadays but very part time and for a much smaller and friendlier company. So it doesn’t feel as bullshitish.

Bullshit Jobs: A Theory by David Graeber review – the myth of capitalist efficiency

Is your job one that makes the world a better place? If not, it is probably bullshit, part of a system that is keeping us under control

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2018/may/25/bullshit-jobs-a-theory-by-david-graeber-review

Whoops75 · 10/11/2026 21:49

Sending a much needed head wobble!
Find a hobby and invest in yourself and friendships.

I have a term time much sought after job and it’s not fulfilling but I do it well and get paid so I gave my head a wobble and am much happier.

Hadroncollideer · 10/11/2026 21:54

The thing is, there are plenty of jobs that are meaningful and a lot less well paid than £80k per year...

Without knowing what your job is its hard to say whether you're doing its worthwhileness down or not.

frozendaisy · 10/11/2026 21:56

@Probablygreen

Have you looked at the Excel spreadsheet olympics online?

It’s surprisingly incredible

Not saying this can make your job more worthwhile but you might be able to look at office computer packages in a different way.

You say no one would die if you didn’t do your job but is that true? Would your H and son be adequately housed with food and heat?

It’s just a job.

And a decently paid job at that.

Can you find a way to raise money or connect your company with a worthy local cause?

Many ways to spread tentacles to share the wealth. Gifts to kids in hospital over Christmas?
Raising money for a local defibrillator?

SmallandSpanish · 10/11/2026 21:56

I think this all the time. We all faking it and deluding/ enabling each other to do fake work in fake industries. Pathetic really. Late stage capitalism. It’s playing out in a quicker cycle in AI now too. A human uses AI to create content then runs that content through an AI editor to make it sound more human. The human posts the content then another human uses AI to summarise and create a response. None of it is real!!!

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 10/11/2026 22:00

I would love a job that paid £80k and also meant that no one would be harmed if I slipped up. In some ways you're very lucky.

Zebedee999 · 10/11/2026 22:03

Probablygreen · 10/11/2026 17:51

I returned to work today after a couple of weeks off, and I know it takes a few days to get back into the swing of things, but I’ve just thought, all day, that this is a completely pointless existence and I don’t know how I’m going to do it for the next 30 years.

I work in an office based role, and as part of the senior leadership team, earn around £80k per year. The role is not necessary. Without me, nobody would die, the world would carry on as it always has, even the organisation itself would be perfectly fine! I attend meetings where we talk about whether we should or shouldn’t do something. Nobody cares! Just do it or don’t, it makes no difference either way. I feel like I’m not the only one - 99% of office roles fit into this category.

But I’m stuck. I’d love to do something more meaningful, but I need the money. My husband is a carer for our son, and there are no jobs that I can think of that would scratch the itch for the same salary… so do I just suck it up for 30 years? It all seems so ridiculous, how did we as a civilisation end up here?

I’m not depressed or anything, I’m perfectly happy when I’m not at work, but does anyone else feel like this?

Yeah a huge number of jobs add no value today.

A fellow in the civil service recently had 5 jobs.... no one noticed so clearly none needed doing as he wasn't doing them.

Grammarnut · 10/11/2026 22:09

Not to worry, OP, AI will be taking your job soon and then you will have a real problem.

Nonimity · 10/11/2026 22:10

It is better to be in a dead end job earning 80k , than a dead end job earning 30k. That said give yourself a deadline - say 2 years - and save as much as you can to that point. Also put your partner on notice that you are looking to change your life. Apply for different jobs from today - something more rewarding may come along. In two years time use the savings to change your life. Whether it buys you time whilst you retrain or allows you to set up your lives differently. Maybe just pack up and move somewhere else. I would start to look at developing hobbies into side hustles as well. Use the next two years to upskill- can you get your employer to invest in some training for you?

Spiderx · 10/11/2026 22:12

Sunnydaydreams · 10/11/2026 21:40

My job is pointless but I’m on peanuts. I do emphathise - it is soul-destroying not to feel like you have a purpose. I have so little to do it’s mind-numbing. I’ve haven’t been in this job for long. I left a role that was so hectic it gave me palpitations but I was needed. I don’t think I can stick this job because my sense of worth is on the floor. It’s all very well people telling you to suck it up for the money and find a purpose outside of work, but you spend a large part of your life at your desk. I’m older and I feel like I’m watching my life tick away while I pretend to be productive. There’s no point asking for more work as my colleagues clearly also have little to do but are more adept at pretending they are doing something important.

This !! So true .

AllRighterrrr · 10/11/2026 22:13

Hummingbird233 · 10/11/2026 20:09

But we’re not here to have fantastic fulfilled lives, we’re here to survive and keep our loved ones fed and watered.

I think through the generations our expectations on life has increased as our lifestyles have allowed, but it’s a bit of a gilded cage. The more you have, the more you want. We all now want great relationships with healthy children in lovely homes with nice cars and access to everything we want or need. I’m the same.

But it’s unrealistic. You have a child who needs care and a husband who’s able to do that. So your role isn’t to find your ideal job now. It’s the provide finances and stability. Which you’re doing.

Lower your expectations and you may feel happier.

Also be careful, if you know your job is essentially pointless, so will your organisation eventually. AI is coming fast and redundancies will happen. Save your decent salary as long as possible for a rainy day.

But I think we are though! The IQ bell curve says there are people whose IQ is below, average, above. Realistically to be doing an £80k job well, even knew which the OP identifies as pointless, means she has an above average IQ. Isn't it a waste of your talents, skills and potential to have lots of career options open to you and you make choices that don't lead to a fantastic fulfilled life? How many below and average IQ people would swap places in a heartbeat to have those options open to them.

Just because the OP doesn't know what a fantastic fulfilled life means for her doesn't mean she should stop looking for meaning.

@Probablygreen do you have an employee assistance programme that gives you access to counselling or similar? Get yourself talking to someone about how you feel and help guide what else you can do with your life.

Life is precious and way too short to waste 30+ years on a pointless job.

FridayPieday · 10/11/2026 22:13

Maybe you need to change perspective. Don't look for meaning in the work itself. The meaning is in what it provides for your family.. And find every chance to try and enjoy what there is to enjoy - coffee with a colleague, charity efforts organised by works, meeting new people, conference here or there, helping other people. Be the person who starts a choir/theatre group/book club at lunchtime.

potenial · 10/11/2026 22:21

Probablygreen · 10/11/2026 20:12

Very true!
But that then leads on to the question of what is the purpose of life at all, if all we’re doing is working to survive. I think maybe I just think too much 🤣

If you're feeling unfulfilled, can you find some volunteering outside of work in an area you'd like to be in, where you'll definitely be making a difference, but won't loose your salary or lifestyle?
Loads of organisations would love to have someone who felt passionate about helping kids and those with additional needs!
Some huge ones that are everywhere (Girlguiding, Scouting, school ptas, library programmes) plus loads of local smaller ones! Have a Google of what's in your area!

BiggerIsAlwaysBetter · 10/11/2026 22:21

Let's say you're right.

You can either accept your fate and laugh at the machine and spend the moneynin a way that makes you happy, or you can rage and burn out.

As you've identified, the machine doesn't care either way.

So you don't have to care.

Just show up, do what needs doing and park it when you're logged off. Easy as pie.

GreatFart · 10/11/2026 22:21

Don't most people actually do things in their job?

Boredofprivateschoolbashing · 10/11/2026 22:22

Probablygreen · 10/11/2026 17:51

I returned to work today after a couple of weeks off, and I know it takes a few days to get back into the swing of things, but I’ve just thought, all day, that this is a completely pointless existence and I don’t know how I’m going to do it for the next 30 years.

I work in an office based role, and as part of the senior leadership team, earn around £80k per year. The role is not necessary. Without me, nobody would die, the world would carry on as it always has, even the organisation itself would be perfectly fine! I attend meetings where we talk about whether we should or shouldn’t do something. Nobody cares! Just do it or don’t, it makes no difference either way. I feel like I’m not the only one - 99% of office roles fit into this category.

But I’m stuck. I’d love to do something more meaningful, but I need the money. My husband is a carer for our son, and there are no jobs that I can think of that would scratch the itch for the same salary… so do I just suck it up for 30 years? It all seems so ridiculous, how did we as a civilisation end up here?

I’m not depressed or anything, I’m perfectly happy when I’m not at work, but does anyone else feel like this?

My heart bleeds. Wanna swap with me and my pointless office job that pays less than 40k??

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 10/11/2026 22:23

It's wonderful to have fantastic well paid, albeit pointless job, OP. I do agree with you about corporate office jobs being fairly pointless up to a point (!😬😳🤣), but believe me, even though I've been in fairly ok editorial publishing roles when younger- around £25k - they weren't brilliant but better paid than now.

After terrible health problems a decade ago including an awful head injury and post concussion syndrome before being injured permanently by an off label antipsychotic that gave me a movement disorder, I'm now in a part time job that pays less than £10k pa.(!!)

I'm very grateful to be employed, and i know it's freelance so it isn't great in terms of holidays, sick pay etc, but at least it's a job.

And yes, health truly is wealth to me. If you told me to choose between full life and rude health vs a better paid job, I'd always choose my health.

Can you do a similar role of sorts, or a sideways move/take on a more meaningful role in your industry?

Hatetagsinclothes · 10/11/2026 22:24

How do I get a job like that please dm me. I’m bored in childcare

HeBeaverandSheBeaver · 10/11/2026 22:24

Bloody hell with AI taking everyone’s jobs be careful what you wish for

BiggerIsAlwaysBetter · 10/11/2026 22:25

FridayPieday · 10/11/2026 22:13

Maybe you need to change perspective. Don't look for meaning in the work itself. The meaning is in what it provides for your family.. And find every chance to try and enjoy what there is to enjoy - coffee with a colleague, charity efforts organised by works, meeting new people, conference here or there, helping other people. Be the person who starts a choir/theatre group/book club at lunchtime.

Yeah, this is basically what i did. I decided one day what I actually cared about and it was the people.

So now I make myself the team player. I volunteer for a shit job to save a colleague doing it, I speak to the angry stakeholder, I mentor, I organise extras.

Not for the business or culture, but because I like these people and I can. So I do.

throwaway3749574 · 10/11/2026 22:27

probably because I’m public sector where we’ve either been cut to the bone or having to constantly defend our existence and jobs but I’m surprised to hear this, if you’re are genuinely dispensable to the business. Am surely all businesses want to cut costs?

Booboobagins · 10/11/2026 22:32

I dont know what firld youre in @Probablygreen

My job can be 100% office, 100% site-based or anything in between. I love it. Even if I'm office bound, with my colleagues, we make a difference every day.

Environment, sustainability, health and well being, social value, community value all of these jobs give a sense of making a difference through work and are areas you could look at...

PS if you want to earn bigger ££££ health and safety is where it's at.

Nyshift · 10/11/2026 22:35

Sorry your job is pointless OP. I work in NHS admin and it is far from pointless, it is crucial work to support our medical teams. 99% of office work is not pointless but maybe if you got a job that pays minimum wage and actually means something you would be happier!!

Dumbledora8 · 10/11/2026 22:37

What is it? I'll do it for 80k