Hi all,
unfortunately my last post was removed.
Anyway, a bit of background, H and I are close but have no sex life at all and have for a long time. He has never been that “into it” and I’ve lost interest in it with him now sadly. We don’t even kiss, just hug. We have discussed a possible trial separation period unfortunately. I’m so sad but it feels like
the right decision.
Anyway, last year I received an anonymous text message, as below:-
“Why are you staying with xxxxx. You know he is gay right? You need to get out of that situation you’re both fooling yourselves. The marriage is finished and has been for a long time”
Both H and I never got to be bottom of it and he absolutely denied knowing who it could be from and that he’s not gay. We couldn’t think who would send it/have my phone number. He leads a quiet, quite sheltered life, not sociable and no friendship group - just work colleagues. I have a small group of close friends. I grew close to someone else but nothing ever happened, just talking and the odd supportive hug.
Anyway, without going into it too much, I unintentionally logged onto his Facebook.
He doesn’t really use social media, he has no profile pic and no friends on there. I know he looks at my fb posts on there!
Well, the feed on there which is served up is absolutely full of photos of half naked women, all really curvy/busty to say the least and a few naked from waist up breastfeeding/sexy pics. With links to videos or WhatsApp links. What on earth? Am I overthinking? I was just really surprised. I know random posts are served up, but thinking about what he’s maybe looked at, clicked into, algorithm etc…? I don’t know.
I have nothing like that on my page, to that extreme.
Am I overreacting/overthinking. I was just a bit surprised.