H’s FB - what has he been up to?!

No it does not. I opened a new Facebook account and was bombarded with pirn videos and half naked women with links on the photos - before I had even done one search for any subject. And I'm a woman who was only interested in gardening!!!!!!

It’s a tricky one. Facebook seems to think I’m really interested in werewolf erotic fiction, I have no idea why. The algorithms don’t always make much sense.

So he's been looking at hetero porn/ sexy women on FB? That kind of scuppers the worries about the anonymous message surely.
Most men would look at a bit of stuff like that. Is it offensive if he just looks at pictures? If he was talking to these girls then that's obviously worse. Have you evidence he's doing so? You say he has no friends on there?

I think you need to stop worrying about his facebook and make good decisions going forwards. Have you had marriage counselling? It's not just about staying together, it can be really good about how to separate and whether that is the right decision. I never really understand trial separations, its like one of you are seeing if the grass is greener which just feels unfair, but that's just my opinion, based on my exh wanting a trial separation when what he really meant was he wanted to date his other woman guilt free and keep me there just in case! If you are trail separating you need to have parameters and what you hope to achieve - ie are you going to date, and it needs to be the same for both parties. Stay off his facebook and decide how you move forwards as it appears this has been dragging on for a long time which cant be good for either of you.

As a man in fb I am at least weekly getting requests to be friends with attractive young women I have never met, my feed and videos are full of young women in tight dresses and ridiculously low cut tops....I'm just trying to catch up with football gossip and the archers! My wife uses my Facebook and complains about it too

Are you wanting to know whether he may have been looking at other women because you’d be devastated if he was, or because if you knew for sure it would give you the reason you’re looking for to finally end the marriage? Because it sounds as though you’ve both all but officially agreed that your marriage is over. You’ve discussed several trial separations, and have decided that you won’t make a final decision purely because of other family members’ circumstances and because of not wanting to upset your children. It’s not going to be a surprise to either of you, surely, if the other is looking elsewhere or for a way out? Why do you not feel able to ask him to tell you honestly so that you can both put your cards on the table?

These are just spam accounts. They pay Facebook to be displayed to users in the hope people click the link and end up paying for fake pictures or download viruses. Just like getting emails from fake dating sites, or fake delivery services.

If he doesn't look at anything on Facebook there's no other profiles or things targeting him as an audience so he'll just have the spammy shit.

My mums Facebook was hacked, her newsfeed became like pornhub! Could be something like this?