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FenFairy · 05/11/2023 19:09

Every single person setting them in their gardens is an arsehole.

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SweetBirdsong · 05/11/2023 21:36

I hate the stupid loud ridiculous things ... I wouldn't care if they were consigned to the history books. They're so naff and outdated now and they don't belong in the 21st century. They are waaaaay bigger, louder, and more dangerous than the 20th century ones, and they go off (in some areas,) every night for weeks, (and also on New Year's Eve, and also at some weddings.) Not just November 5th like in the old days! If we must keep them, have them only at public displays. None should be on sale to the public. (And have as few public displays at possible, with several weeks warning.)

I am so glad I live far away from any town or city. I have only heard ONE set of fireworks. About a mile away (as the crow flies,) at a country inn where they had an organised display that they have had advertised on a signboard outside the inn for several weeks - so people could sedate their animals. (Or put white noise on their Alexa etc.)

Thankfully, in the area I live, no-one has fireworks in their gardens. It's only in certain areas that there's a lot of fireworks going off in peoples gardens. Thank goodness I don't live in one of those areas!

As you say @FenFairy some people don't give a stuff about animals, and how fireworks can upset them. Many dogs are scared of them, (yes, even the trained ones!) some cats are, many horses are, and lots of farm animals are too. (And very likely much of the wildlife.) As has been said, a number of hedgehogs lose their lives in the stupid bonfires!

At least we only have one organised display about a mile away here in my area, for 15 minutes, and that's it for the year. As I said, sadly, in some areas, it's not just November 5th now; it's up to 3 weeks before, and sometimes up to 2 weeks after, along with New Year's Eve, and also loads of bloody weddings.

I would sign a petition to ban them in a heartbeat! This thread is living proof that some people don't give a damn about people - and animals being upset by fireworks. Typical of the me me me fuck you attitude of some people today!

Don't get upset and wound up and angry fenfairy, it won't make any difference. People will do what they want because they can. Until fireworks are banned from public sale, nothing will change, because some people just don't care. As for the 'what about the poor children' type comments; most of them won't care if they're banned for public sale. It's not like you're wanting Christmas cancelled LOL. Also, more than half the posters on here agree with you, so you're clearly not the only one.

And most children I know don't care about firework night anyway. They're indifferent to them. So what if they're banned from public sale? Much less fireworks can only be a positive thing!

This is the only post I am putting on here by the way, because I'm not debating it. I will not change my views. For anyone. I would like to see fireworks banned for sale to the public - and also, bonfires banned altogether.

pictoosh · 05/11/2023 21:36

Ahh well, this has been good. Same time next year?

tpxqi · 05/11/2023 21:37

ElevenSeven · 05/11/2023 21:15

Rockets 🤣🤣🤣

Maybe the poster meant cruise missile. You know just to add a bit more drama.

CatamaranViper · 05/11/2023 21:38

Nelly91 · 05/11/2023 21:25

Hello why don't you watch your money burn up in the sky all in pretty patterns. What a beautiful idea 💡

Do you only ever spend money on core basics and essentials to survive?

tpxqi · 05/11/2023 21:39

FMLWTF · 05/11/2023 21:28

This thread is wonderful. I love it. Have a lovely selfish bullshit evening all you firework wankers! 😆 (brilliant)

Perhaps seek medical assistance for your irrational hysterical stance on this. It’s not normal.

PeggyPoggleshaw · 05/11/2023 21:40

SweetBirdsong · 05/11/2023 21:36

I hate the stupid loud ridiculous things ... I wouldn't care if they were consigned to the history books. They're so naff and outdated now and they don't belong in the 21st century. They are waaaaay bigger, louder, and more dangerous than the 20th century ones, and they go off (in some areas,) every night for weeks, (and also on New Year's Eve, and also at some weddings.) Not just November 5th like in the old days! If we must keep them, have them only at public displays. None should be on sale to the public. (And have as few public displays at possible, with several weeks warning.)

I am so glad I live far away from any town or city. I have only heard ONE set of fireworks. About a mile away (as the crow flies,) at a country inn where they had an organised display that they have had advertised on a signboard outside the inn for several weeks - so people could sedate their animals. (Or put white noise on their Alexa etc.)

Thankfully, in the area I live, no-one has fireworks in their gardens. It's only in certain areas that there's a lot of fireworks going off in peoples gardens. Thank goodness I don't live in one of those areas!

As you say @FenFairy some people don't give a stuff about animals, and how fireworks can upset them. Many dogs are scared of them, (yes, even the trained ones!) some cats are, many horses are, and lots of farm animals are too. (And very likely much of the wildlife.) As has been said, a number of hedgehogs lose their lives in the stupid bonfires!

At least we only have one organised display about a mile away here in my area, for 15 minutes, and that's it for the year. As I said, sadly, in some areas, it's not just November 5th now; it's up to 3 weeks before, and sometimes up to 2 weeks after, along with New Year's Eve, and also loads of bloody weddings.

I would sign a petition to ban them in a heartbeat! This thread is living proof that some people don't give a damn about people - and animals being upset by fireworks. Typical of the me me me fuck you attitude of some people today!

Don't get upset and wound up and angry fenfairy, it won't make any difference. People will do what they want because they can. Until fireworks are banned from public sale, nothing will change, because some people just don't care. As for the 'what about the poor children' type comments; most of them won't care if they're banned for public sale. It's not like you're wanting Christmas cancelled LOL. Also, more than half the posters on here agree with you, so you're clearly not the only one.

And most children I know don't care about firework night anyway. They're indifferent to them. So what if they're banned from public sale? Much less fireworks can only be a positive thing!

This is the only post I am putting on here by the way, because I'm not debating it. I will not change my views. For anyone. I would like to see fireworks banned for sale to the public - and also, bonfires banned altogether.

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👏👏👏👏

CatamaranViper · 05/11/2023 21:40

SweetBirdsong · 05/11/2023 21:36

I hate the stupid loud ridiculous things ... I wouldn't care if they were consigned to the history books. They're so naff and outdated now and they don't belong in the 21st century. They are waaaaay bigger, louder, and more dangerous than the 20th century ones, and they go off (in some areas,) every night for weeks, (and also on New Year's Eve, and also at some weddings.) Not just November 5th like in the old days! If we must keep them, have them only at public displays. None should be on sale to the public. (And have as few public displays at possible, with several weeks warning.)

I am so glad I live far away from any town or city. I have only heard ONE set of fireworks. About a mile away (as the crow flies,) at a country inn where they had an organised display that they have had advertised on a signboard outside the inn for several weeks - so people could sedate their animals. (Or put white noise on their Alexa etc.)

Thankfully, in the area I live, no-one has fireworks in their gardens. It's only in certain areas that there's a lot of fireworks going off in peoples gardens. Thank goodness I don't live in one of those areas!

As you say @FenFairy some people don't give a stuff about animals, and how fireworks can upset them. Many dogs are scared of them, (yes, even the trained ones!) some cats are, many horses are, and lots of farm animals are too. (And very likely much of the wildlife.) As has been said, a number of hedgehogs lose their lives in the stupid bonfires!

At least we only have one organised display about a mile away here in my area, for 15 minutes, and that's it for the year. As I said, sadly, in some areas, it's not just November 5th now; it's up to 3 weeks before, and sometimes up to 2 weeks after, along with New Year's Eve, and also loads of bloody weddings.

I would sign a petition to ban them in a heartbeat! This thread is living proof that some people don't give a damn about people - and animals being upset by fireworks. Typical of the me me me fuck you attitude of some people today!

Don't get upset and wound up and angry fenfairy, it won't make any difference. People will do what they want because they can. Until fireworks are banned from public sale, nothing will change, because some people just don't care. As for the 'what about the poor children' type comments; most of them won't care if they're banned for public sale. It's not like you're wanting Christmas cancelled LOL. Also, more than half the posters on here agree with you, so you're clearly not the only one.

And most children I know don't care about firework night anyway. They're indifferent to them. So what if they're banned from public sale? Much less fireworks can only be a positive thing!

This is the only post I am putting on here by the way, because I'm not debating it. I will not change my views. For anyone. I would like to see fireworks banned for sale to the public - and also, bonfires banned altogether.

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Giveuprobot · 05/11/2023 21:41

This thread is absolute chaos.

Never did I think I'd see having been on a range as some kind of fireworks insight top trump.

What a time to be alive.

LittleMooli · 05/11/2023 21:41

tpxqi · 05/11/2023 21:37

Maybe the poster meant cruise missile. You know just to add a bit more drama.

No I didn't, don't be so ridiculous. I meant rockets - the fireworks not the armaments

knowthescore · 05/11/2023 21:42

FourChimneys · 05/11/2023 21:08

All those concerned about veterans might like to note that the biggest public display here is hosted by the army camp. It is oversubscribed each year, tickets sell out very fast.

Current serving personnel aren't veterans. The kind of PTSD that has someone wetting himself or diving for the ground shielding his DD with his body because someone let a firework off tends to result in the service person being medically discharged, so not at the army camp to be bothered by the display.

But hey, what would Combat Stress and Helo For Heroes and the actual veterans they represent and consulted with know about combat-induced PTSD?

VeronicasCloset · 05/11/2023 21:42

As I have to put up with one neighbours dog barking incessantly every day and the other neighbours catting shitting on my lawn every other day; they can deal with 15 minutes of sparkly fizzing lights one night a year.

FMLWTF · 05/11/2023 21:42

FMLWTF · Today 21:28

This thread is wonderful. I love it. Have a lovely selfish bullshit evening all you firework wankers! 😆 (brilliant)

Perhaps seek medical assistance for your irrational hysterical stance on this. It’s not normal

I was being sarcastic ✈️ 👩 and quoting phrases used earlier in the thread which tickled me.

Sirzy · 05/11/2023 21:43

The people still setting them off now are selfish though IMO. I know legally they can be set off until 11 but I think after 9 you know it will cause disruption.

TreadLight · 05/11/2023 21:43

It's the modern puritans; see someone having a bit of fun and want to ban it.

JoannaStayton · 05/11/2023 21:43

100% with you OP. Fireworks are for inconsiderate knuckledraggers. Should be banned from general sale.

Beetlebumz · 05/11/2023 21:44

God it’s not the end of the world hearing a few fireworks once a year. Get a grip.

Mothership4two · 05/11/2023 21:44

flufferknutter · 05/11/2023 20:57

People have been scaring the sheep with them round here 😢 and a neighbour's dog died when it went into shock last year due to the firework noise. She was upset and posting on the village FB page about it and people were taking the piss out of her.

I can't believe how callous some people can be towards other people and pets and wildlife etc.

No it's really not a good look. Some posters on both sides of the argument are being unnecessarily rude and intolerant though.

Many years ago our cat had a stroke on Bonfire Night and had to be put down the next day. It was very upsetting obviously. She was old and it may have been a coincidence but I don't think so. When we lived in a very rural area she used to freak out and panic everytime she heard a shotgun go off.

crochetmonkey74 · 05/11/2023 21:44

knowthescore · 05/11/2023 21:42

Current serving personnel aren't veterans. The kind of PTSD that has someone wetting himself or diving for the ground shielding his DD with his body because someone let a firework off tends to result in the service person being medically discharged, so not at the army camp to be bothered by the display.

But hey, what would Combat Stress and Helo For Heroes and the actual veterans they represent and consulted with know about combat-induced PTSD?

However sad and terrible this is, and I agree it is, this is a very small percentage of the population. Should rollerskating be banned as some people don't have feet?

crochetmonkey74 · 05/11/2023 21:46

Mothership4two · 05/11/2023 21:44

No it's really not a good look. Some posters on both sides of the argument are being unnecessarily rude and intolerant though.

Many years ago our cat had a stroke on Bonfire Night and had to be put down the next day. It was very upsetting obviously. She was old and it may have been a coincidence but I don't think so. When we lived in a very rural area she used to freak out and panic everytime she heard a shotgun go off.

So, did you move out of the rural area? Or ask for shotguns to be banned?

Giveuprobot · 05/11/2023 21:46

Current serving personnel aren't veterans

They're both potentially, aren't they? My husband is a veteran of a number of wars whilst also being a currently serving soldier.

He also has the standard dose of PTSD and famously hurled himself for cover at balloons popping at a birthday party. He hardly loves this week but is aware that this is a 'him' problem and not a society problem.

AutumnCrow · 05/11/2023 21:47

Stupid fucking bomb rockets still going off here.

Days of it on end, we've had. Buy some bloody sparklers and roman candles.

PrincessHoneysuckle · 05/11/2023 21:47

I agree.My dog doesn't give a shit thankfully but it should be licenced displays only imo.

Stressedafff · 05/11/2023 21:49

Shame these dog owners don’t invest all this energy in picking up their dogs shit and letting them run riot all over the place

tpxqi · 05/11/2023 21:50

FMLWTF · 05/11/2023 21:42

FMLWTF · Today 21:28

This thread is wonderful. I love it. Have a lovely selfish bullshit evening all you firework wankers! 😆 (brilliant)

Perhaps seek medical assistance for your irrational hysterical stance on this. It’s not normal

I was being sarcastic ✈️ 👩 and quoting phrases used earlier in the thread which tickled me.

Fair enough. There has just been so much hysterical nonsense insults thrown around in this thread, it’s hard to keep track.

Eleganz · 05/11/2023 21:50

It is the same argument every year, largely one set of people who have made a lifestyle choice (to own a cat or dog or other pet) Vs another set of people who have made a lifestyle choice (to celebrate a traditional festival with fireworks). Cue a few people raising the ante with PTSD largely of a type not suffered by the women who post on this forum and you get the shit show that is this thread every year. It's pretty dull now.