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Flute56 · 19/05/2023 11:29

7 months ago I had covid. I lost half a stone. Before covid I weighed 10 stone . I went down to 9 stone 7. Movng forward I decided to cut out eating sugar for 4 weeks and when I weighed myself at the end of the period, I had dropped some weighted and weighed in at 9 stone 4. All good or so I thought.

I had a text from my GP surgery to have my blood pressure done. Whilst I was there, the nurse said would you like me to check your height and weight and I said yes please. She checked my height and I was 5 foot 6 and asked me to get on the scales. She said the weight was in kg which I could not understand so she converted it to stones and told me I was 10 stone 2. I said that is impossible because I weighed myself this morning first thing with no clothes and no food and I weighed 9 stone 3 and I have definately lost weight since I had coved etc and my arms and face definately look thinner and my clothes are lose. She said oh these are not digital scales so she said come with me and we went to another room and I got on the digital scales and it was a difference of 2 pounds so she said I was 1 was 10 stone.

I said no I weighed myself this morning and I was half a stone lighter. She said how old are your scales and I said about 7 years old so she said they are probably too old to be accurate so buy some new scales.

Sorry but pre covid I was 10 stone and I have most definately dropped weight so I think her scales are not accurate. I weigh myself on a hard surface the same surface as the nurse weighed me in the surgery.

After I left I went to Argos and bought some new scales. They cost me £12 which I was reluctant to pay because I did not see how my ones could be so inaccurate. I will weigh myself in the morning as I did this morning, first thing, no clothes no food and with an empty bladder and if I reach the same weight as I did today then I wm taking the new scales back to Argos and getting a refund because that will prove that I do not need to buy new scales and that there is nothing wrong with the ones I have been using up to now.

ok I was wearing clothes at the surgery and had some breakfast but the nurse said it should not be too much different because I was wearing a very thin dress but it was difference of 71b

Any advce. There is NO WAY I am 10 stone

OP posts:
gamerchick · 19/05/2023 15:09

As much as I love an indignant post in the afternoon. Throw the scales out OP and use a tape measure. Scales are a stupid idea and can easily get obsessed by them.

Prettylittleroses · 19/05/2023 15:09

Why are you not weighing yourself now? Why do you want to wait till the morning? Is it so you can see a lower number?

do you have a history of eating disorders?

Barrysmintybiscuits · 19/05/2023 15:08

Oh OP. You sounds like my mum. Obsessed with her weight, always talking about how she has gained or lost and her whole day ruined if the scale says something different than yesterday 😞

BarbaraofSeville · 19/05/2023 15:04

MistressE · 19/05/2023 15:00

Op started a thread about her scales in March! 😂

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Flute56 · 25/03/2023 10:26
They say weigh yourself on a hard floor not carpet first thing in the morning. The issue I have is differet areas of my kitchen floor give me diifferent results. By th door I am one weight By th window I am another and by the washing maching another. Wich one i the most accurate so I know which spot to use each time

you fruitcake op!

Is that the same 'they' that tell you to weigh yourself once a week, never more?

If they did know anything about weighing anything, they'd know that is rubbish for a start.

justme2022 · 19/05/2023 15:04

TabithaTitanium · 19/05/2023 15:00

This is the reason I always weigh myself first thing in the morning, butt naked, after having been to the loo 🤣😂😆

So glad I'm not the only one 😂

MistressE · 19/05/2023 15:00

Op started a thread about her scales in March! 😂

weighing yoursel 6 replies
Flute56 · 25/03/2023 10:26
They say weigh yourself on a hard floor not carpet first thing in the morning. The issue I have is differet areas of my kitchen floor give me diifferent results. By th door I am one weight By th window I am another and by the washing maching another. Wich one i the most accurate so I know which spot to use each time

you fruitcake op!

TabithaTitanium · 19/05/2023 15:00

This is the reason I always weigh myself first thing in the morning, butt naked, after having been to the loo 🤣😂😆

Mercurial123 · 19/05/2023 14:59

OP Why can't you accept your scales may not be accurate?

AllGussiedUp · 19/05/2023 14:58

This reminds me of the Michael McIntyre sketch about his wife being happy if she’s a size 8 in one shop but then the day is ruined if she’s a size 12 in the next shop.

Your body hasn’t changed from when you weighed yourself in the bathroom to when you were weighed at the doctors. The numbers are irrelevant.

MistressE · 19/05/2023 14:56

I bet the GP is going to have a giggle with her partner tonight about this

herbaceous · 19/05/2023 14:50

This reminds me of when I nearly made a mortifying scale-based error.

There was a time when I went to the gym three times a week, and didn't eat much in the evenings I didn't exercise. I weighed myself at the gym, and was about 10.5 stone.

I then left my job, met current DP, stopped going to the gym and started going out on the piss with DP, and having a great time. Had no scales at home.

Bought some scales, got on them and they said I was 11.5 stone. WHAT NONSENSE, I thought, and packed them back up to return them to the shop and be outraged. Just before I stormed up to the counter at Boots, thought I'd check how 'inaccurate' they were by getting on their big in-store scales. Oddly, they too said I was 11.5 stone. This would also explain why all my clothes were too small.

Denial was strong.

BarbaraofSeville · 19/05/2023 14:49

I never realised that people cared so much.

I understand looking in the mirror and thinking 'I look fat, so want to lose weight' or being concerned about being overweight due for health reasons, but I didn't realise that people fixated on the number, for numbers sake.

OP you haven't said anything about whether you are happy about your appearance, or concerned about your health, quite the opposite, you say you know you look slimmer, and you sound healthy.

So why the obsession with your weight being below a certain number? Is this some weird 'women tend to weigh 8 or 9 stone' notion, that's not true anyway? Just look around you. You can tell by looking at people that a good amount of them weigh over 10 stone.

CatchYouOnTheFlippetyFlop · 19/05/2023 14:48

SundaeLove · 19/05/2023 14:45

Me too! 😂

I think it's because the OP is absolutely FEWMIN' 😂

ItsAFact · 19/05/2023 14:48

Just face it, you’re 10 stone. Deal with it.

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 19/05/2023 14:47

Just here for the update...

SundaeLove · 19/05/2023 14:45

Dazedandbemused0 · 19/05/2023 13:44

😂 I don’t know why but this really tickled me

Me too! 😂

CC4712 · 19/05/2023 14:43

I was telling everyone oh I am now 9 stone 4 WHY??? I can guarantee that these people you tell couldn't care less!

You do realise that medical equipment needs to be calibrated often, to ensure it is accurate?

MrsDoylesDoily · 19/05/2023 14:38

MrFlobby · 19/05/2023 14:34

Don’t see the point in weighing yourself in the morning just weigh now. Either you’ll be under 10 stone or you won’t be 🤷🏼‍♀️

I've never understood this either.

No-one's going to pass me on my way to work in the morning and think, "Oh look, Mrs Doyle looks about 2lbs lighter. She must've just had a shit" Confused

AllGussiedUp · 19/05/2023 14:37

Why does it matter?

MrFlobby · 19/05/2023 14:34

Don’t see the point in weighing yourself in the morning just weigh now. Either you’ll be under 10 stone or you won’t be 🤷🏼‍♀️

Iwantmyoldnameback · 19/05/2023 14:32

You'd better go and tell everyone you have unwittingly misled them, they will be absolutely fascinated.

IncompleteSenten · 19/05/2023 14:31

Tbh it's more likely that 7 year old scales are wrong than it is that two sets of scales at a doctor's surgery are but you've got the new scales now so you can see in the morning.
Maybe do one wearing what you were wearing today just to see.

It's not a massive deal really though. It's a few pounds. Don't upset yourself about it

CatchYouOnTheFlippetyFlop · 19/05/2023 14:27

Chill out OP. Jeez!

It is entirely possible to weigh heavier with clothes on, empty bladder and empty stomach with your last meal prior to breakfast being around 12 hours or more.

After drinks also.

If you drink a litre of water, you will be the equivalent of a litre heavier on the scales, but it doesn't mean you have put weight on.

Booklover40 · 19/05/2023 14:24

If your scales are wrong then you wouldn’t have been 10 stone before you were ill but more like 10.7. Surely that’s obvious?

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