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Demonstration against Let Women Speak Oxford

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IwantToRetire · 19/10/2025 03:04

A demonstration organised by the campaign group Let Women Speak (LWS) took place today at Bonn Square. Around 100 counterprotestors also assembled, including members from the Oxford Green Party, Stand Up to Racism, and Oxford for Trans Rights (O4TR).
https://www.cherwell.org/2025/10/18/oxford-trans-counterprotest-women/

Event was https://www.letwomenspeak.org/event-details/let-women-speak-oxford-2

Counterprotesters turn out for trans-exclusionary feminism event - Cherwell

A demonstration organised by the campaign group Let Women Speak (LWS) is taking place at Bonn Square.

https://www.cherwell.org/2025/10/18/oxford-trans-counterprotest-women/

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Pollqueen · 19/10/2025 22:02

It's fucking exhausting

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 19/10/2025 22:03

cowleycyclist · 19/10/2025 21:39

Omg she is even a fan of Trump. The mind boggles.

I guess I shouldn’t be surprised, it meshes nicely with all her other views.

https://x.com/ThePosieParker/status/1975812947822989477

Good spot - you're quite right, Hitler was indeed a committed vegetarian.

Perhaps you should reconsider your position if it means that you have to voice support a mob of 100 people, mostly men, repeatedly shouting down lone women trying to express their opinions?

Maybe grown-up protesters could have only shouted down KJK and respectfully listened to the other women? I guess that option evaded them in their frenzy of self-righteousness

BundleBoogie · 19/10/2025 22:03

Namelessnelly · 19/10/2025 21:47

Do you mean the mayor of London who believes women don’t deserve rights? That mayor?

The one who summarily sacked his (free) advisor on violence against women because she stands up for women.

Nice chap. 🙄

BundleBoogie · 19/10/2025 22:10

OxN · 19/10/2025 21:51

As someone who is also cool and multicultural enough to have ‘chatted to Dr Ramzy outside Tesco on Cowley Road’ and was once part of the same activist circles as @cowleycyclist clearly is, I actually think it says a lot about the environment around gender debates that KJK and Dr Ramzy did have such an antagonistic interaction as both of them make a huge point of their I-talk-to-anyone stance. He’s no fundamentalist and is mostly a very active and committed force for good, though has said some things I doubt the gender ideologues would be happy with (here’s one online example - gayness not a ‘great sin’ but gay marriage a step too far - https://www.oxfordmail.co.uk/news/opinion/columns/10517473.faithfully-gay-not-sin-eyes-islam/). He shows up to every protest so I doubt he’s particularly informed about this particular topic tbh. As has been pointed out the counter protestors don’t seem to mind being heavily SWP rape-apologist branded so maybe they do tolerate more diversity of thought than it sometimes appears. As long as it’s men.

I wouldn’t go to a LWS rally these days, the organisers have become far too entrenched in far right circles and discussions, sadly. Doesn’t make the ‘counter protestors‘ look any better, or absolve the privileged navel gazing Green party ‘non binary’ councillors and their supporters of passing motions that attempt to remove single sex spaces and services in Oxford (like homeless shelters, rape support, etc). ETAH as they say on reddit.

I would imagine that in different circumstances, Kellie Jay and Ramzy might have had a calmer conversation. The fact that he decided to joined a raging mob of men trying to shut down her event and similar mobs have literally come very close to killing her as well as constantly threatening her life and family members, we can see why it might not have been the most measured and productive conversation.

The people on this thread constantly lying and smearing her are as bad as the mob of men trying to intimidate and silence ordinary women telling their stories. Their selective inhumanity is mind boggling.

Howseitgoin · 19/10/2025 22:20

MurkyWeather2 · 19/10/2025 21:56

Well according to Howse, it's an ethnicity. Yep, 2 billion people, one quarter of the world's population is one single ethnic group 🙄

"Racism is the belief that groups of humans possess different behavioral traits corresponding to inherited attributes and can be divided based on the superiority of one race or ethnicity over another.[1][2][3] It may also mean prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against other people because they are of a different ethnic background.[2]"

We get complexity doesn't come natural to GC's so here, go & learn something:

https://www.newarab.com/opinion/ethnicity-vs-religion-what-does-being-muslim-mean

Ethnicity - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ethnicity

MurkyWeather2 · 19/10/2025 22:21

Howseitgoin · 19/10/2025 22:20

"Racism is the belief that groups of humans possess different behavioral traits corresponding to inherited attributes and can be divided based on the superiority of one race or ethnicity over another.[1][2][3] It may also mean prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against other people because they are of a different ethnic background.[2]"

We get complexity doesn't come natural to GC's so here, go & learn something:

https://www.newarab.com/opinion/ethnicity-vs-religion-what-does-being-muslim-mean

No

Howseitgoin · 19/10/2025 22:26

MurkyWeather2 · 19/10/2025 22:21

No

Ohhhhh, facts hurt your fee feez?

MurkyWeather2 · 19/10/2025 22:26

Howseitgoin · 19/10/2025 22:26

Ohhhhh, facts hurt your fee feez?

No

Imnobody4 · 19/10/2025 22:37

Quite henestly I don't know why he was there. Presumably he turns up at any demo to give out Korans and literature.
Can't see why KJK needs to humour him.

JanesLittleGirl · 19/10/2025 23:13

@Howseitgoin I'm struggling to get my head around the idea that Indonesian muslims share any ethnic characteristics with Nigerian Muslims.

SionnachRuadh · 19/10/2025 23:30

Of course there are religions that are also ethnicities, and UK law recognises that. Sikhism is one. Judaism is another.

(I think the same thing might apply to other ethnically based and highly endogamous religious communities like Nestorians, Zoroastrians and Armenian Apostolic Christians, but that's a guess based on case law around Sikh and Jewish cases.)

That doesn't apply to explicitly universalist religions like Islam or Catholicism or Anglicanism.

But it's quite funny to be having that conversation in a week when Birmingham has decided that Jews can't watch football there, and this is very largely down to the emergence of Muslim sectarian politics as a powerful factor in Birmingham.

QBTheRoundestOfBees · 19/10/2025 23:56

cowleycyclist · 19/10/2025 18:05

Well I don't need to do anything re Dr Ramzy, because he's not a fundamentalist, full stop.

Trans-exclusionary seems fair enough to me... because you exclude trans women from the category of women, right? The term gender critical strikes me as a misnomer, because feminists have been critical of the notion of gender for many decades. I'm personally extremely critical of the notion of gender. But being critical of the notion of gender doesn't mean dismissing it, nor does it mean insisting on a binary opposition between gender and sex.

Who argues there is a binary opposition between gender and sex, though? I don’t understand what you mean or what the argument would be. A binary opposite is related concepts that are opposite in meaning - on-off; light-dark and so on. So we talk about the opposite sex to mean the sex different from ourselves.
Gender and sex are different categories. Female (sex, biological) is not the same as feminine (gender, socially constructed) and male (sex, biological) is not the same as masculine (gender, socially constructed). But I have never heard anyone argue that sex and gender are binary opposites, just that one is biological and the other is socially constructed, in fact, I would probably say that socially constructed gender stereotypes have their roots in historical understandings of being female or male so they are relational (whether you agree with them or not) rather than opposites.

Howseitgoin · 20/10/2025 01:14

JanesLittleGirl · 19/10/2025 23:13

@Howseitgoin I'm struggling to get my head around the idea that Indonesian muslims share any ethnic characteristics with Nigerian Muslims.

Read the link up thread from New Arab then.

Easytoconfuse · 20/10/2025 05:49

SionnachRuadh · 19/10/2025 21:59

I'm sure I bore people by mentioning the SWP, but they're heavily embedded in these activist circles, and people who turn up to scold us about being "adjacent" to bad people always go very quiet when they're mentioned. It's as if there's a tacit agreement not to hold that rape stuff against them.

And what came out in the Martin Smith scandal was only the tip of the iceberg.

I'll allow that a random person who sees a "rally against Tommy Robinson" poster might not know who they are, but the union officials who fund their campaigns do, and so do the Labour MPs who speak on their platforms, and so do the dimwit celebrities who sign their open letters.

You don't bore me, and it wouldn't matter if you did, because you have a right to your views, and we have a right to snigger and/or ignore you. You've made a good argument and I don't mean that in a patronising way but as a stark contrast to a poster who appears to lecture at Oxford and has decided to give us a lecture too!

Easytoconfuse · 20/10/2025 05:56

Howseitgoin · 19/10/2025 22:20

"Racism is the belief that groups of humans possess different behavioral traits corresponding to inherited attributes and can be divided based on the superiority of one race or ethnicity over another.[1][2][3] It may also mean prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against other people because they are of a different ethnic background.[2]"

We get complexity doesn't come natural to GC's so here, go & learn something:

https://www.newarab.com/opinion/ethnicity-vs-religion-what-does-being-muslim-mean

Who are 'we' please? And how do you decide that complexity doesn't come naturally to anyone?

On second thoughts, maybe we are simple people. We believe that a DNA test shows biological sex while 'gender' is based on unprovable beliefs. We also believe that we have a right to single sex toilets and changing areas and to our beliefs. That's why we don't need to complicate things or threaten other people.

Howseitgoin · 20/10/2025 06:34

Easytoconfuse · 20/10/2025 05:56

Who are 'we' please? And how do you decide that complexity doesn't come naturally to anyone?

On second thoughts, maybe we are simple people. We believe that a DNA test shows biological sex while 'gender' is based on unprovable beliefs. We also believe that we have a right to single sex toilets and changing areas and to our beliefs. That's why we don't need to complicate things or threaten other people.

"And how do you decide that complexity doesn't come naturally to anyone?"

By the pattern in reasoning. The reduction of a human to body parts or chromosomes without taking into account the sophistication of the human brain & its impact on society means we aren't exactly dealing with multi faceted thinking…

Easytoconfuse · 20/10/2025 06:48

Howseitgoin · 20/10/2025 06:34

"And how do you decide that complexity doesn't come naturally to anyone?"

By the pattern in reasoning. The reduction of a human to body parts or chromosomes without taking into account the sophistication of the human brain & its impact on society means we aren't exactly dealing with multi faceted thinking…

I'm eager and willing to be educated by my self-appointed better, so please can you explain how the human brain impacts on society and how the sophistication of the human brain overrides DNA?

What I'm seeing is that a small group of people have stealthily removed rights from another group who were also protected by the Equality Act and who have now had those rights confirmed by the Supreme Court. Is that what you meant by the human brain impacting on society?

Namelessnelly · 20/10/2025 06:58

Howseitgoin · 20/10/2025 06:34

"And how do you decide that complexity doesn't come naturally to anyone?"

By the pattern in reasoning. The reduction of a human to body parts or chromosomes without taking into account the sophistication of the human brain & its impact on society means we aren't exactly dealing with multi faceted thinking…

Yeah mate. But still men will never be women and aren’t allowed in female spaces. Shame innit. Those pesky women staying no.

deadpan · 20/10/2025 07:09

BundleBoogie · 19/10/2025 21:37

I looked at the footage, there was an older lady with a flag.

Are you now smearing every man at an LWS as a ‘flag shagger’

I’ll ask my question again as you haven’t answered it

Have you got any evidence for this sweeping generalisation about a group of men you don’t know? Or are you just trying to smear KJK and women’s rights supporters?

Im referring to YL's followers (and himself) at his protest event in London. I'm not referring to a lone old lady with a flag. I also said in my original post "it seems" implying that if that's the case it isn't very useful for other supporters of women's rights to be associated, however loosely with people perceived as far right. I clearly referenced kjk's appearance at his event in London, which is well documented.
If you don't think YL is far right that's up to you. And if you think he or his followers are genuinely supportive of women's rights and not jumping on a discriminatory bandwagon - as they see it - then that's also up to you.

Howseitgoin · 20/10/2025 07:23

Easytoconfuse · 20/10/2025 06:48

I'm eager and willing to be educated by my self-appointed better, so please can you explain how the human brain impacts on society and how the sophistication of the human brain overrides DNA?

What I'm seeing is that a small group of people have stealthily removed rights from another group who were also protected by the Equality Act and who have now had those rights confirmed by the Supreme Court. Is that what you meant by the human brain impacting on society?

"I'm eager and willing to be educated by my self-appointed better, so please can you explain how the human brain impacts on society and how the sophistication of the human brain overrides DNA?"

How does one begin to explain the concept that it's just not the body but also the mind that evolved for the purposes of facilitating reproduction when the world view of gender criticals depends on that it doesn't?

An ideology that believes gendered behaviours are purely the result of patriarchal influences & not survival mechanisms can't process how our gendered actions influence societal sex categorisations let alone the biological variation that makes a minority exceptions to the rule.

"What I'm seeing is that a small group of people have stealthily removed rights from another group who were also protected by the Equality Act and who have now had those rights confirmed by the Supreme Court. Is that what you meant by the human brain impacting on society?"

Of course that's all you can 'see'….

Namelessnelly · 20/10/2025 07:33

Howseitgoin · 20/10/2025 07:23

"I'm eager and willing to be educated by my self-appointed better, so please can you explain how the human brain impacts on society and how the sophistication of the human brain overrides DNA?"

How does one begin to explain the concept that it's just not the body but also the mind that evolved for the purposes of facilitating reproduction when the world view of gender criticals depends on that it doesn't?

An ideology that believes gendered behaviours are purely the result of patriarchal influences & not survival mechanisms can't process how our gendered actions influence societal sex categorisations let alone the biological variation that makes a minority exceptions to the rule.

"What I'm seeing is that a small group of people have stealthily removed rights from another group who were also protected by the Equality Act and who have now had those rights confirmed by the Supreme Court. Is that what you meant by the human brain impacting on society?"

Of course that's all you can 'see'….

Edited

Thankyou for this info. Of course it doesn’t change the fact men cannot be women and aren’t allowed not allowed in female spaces. This may make them sad. Might I suggest they “reframe their trauma”. I hear that’s a good solution.

TheaBrandt1 · 20/10/2025 07:48

Sorry I read that twice and it still makes absolutely no sense. And “gender critical” are not a movement they are the majority who are realists. It’s why we don’t have “round earthers”

SinnerBoy · 20/10/2025 07:56

How does one begin to explain the concept that it's just not the body but also the mind that evolved for the purposes of facilitating reproduction when the world view of gender criticals depends on that it doesn't?

So if a man thinks hard enough, he can get pregnant? That's what your bullshit boils down to.

As for Islam being a race, are you really claiming that Bosnians are the same race as Senegalese Muslims? Again, if you claim that Islam is a race, that's what it boils down to.

Howseitgoin · 20/10/2025 08:05

SinnerBoy · 20/10/2025 07:56

How does one begin to explain the concept that it's just not the body but also the mind that evolved for the purposes of facilitating reproduction when the world view of gender criticals depends on that it doesn't?

So if a man thinks hard enough, he can get pregnant? That's what your bullshit boils down to.

As for Islam being a race, are you really claiming that Bosnians are the same race as Senegalese Muslims? Again, if you claim that Islam is a race, that's what it boils down to.

"So if a man thinks hard enough, he can get pregnant? That's what your bullshit boils down to."

I rest my case…

"As for Islam being a race, are you really claiming that Bosnians are the same race as Senegalese Muslims? Again, if you claim that Islam is a race, that's what it boils down to."

Err, I never said they were a race. Might be time to step away from the Prosecco…

BundleBoogie · 20/10/2025 08:07

deadpan · 20/10/2025 07:09

Im referring to YL's followers (and himself) at his protest event in London. I'm not referring to a lone old lady with a flag. I also said in my original post "it seems" implying that if that's the case it isn't very useful for other supporters of women's rights to be associated, however loosely with people perceived as far right. I clearly referenced kjk's appearance at his event in London, which is well documented.
If you don't think YL is far right that's up to you. And if you think he or his followers are genuinely supportive of women's rights and not jumping on a discriminatory bandwagon - as they see it - then that's also up to you.

You said, in the post I was responding to:

Not sure what confuses you. She attended, very publicly, Yaxley Lennons march in London with a union jack around her shoulders. Now the flag shaggers are attending her LWS events.

So because KJ went to a march on immigration attended by many people and was in the same location as TR (possibly for security reasons as the trans activist lunatics actively threaten her life) for a while, you have now deemed all attendees (presumably including KJ) as ‘flag shaggers’ to be shunned at all possible opportunity.

You then decide, with no apparent evidence that these so called ‘flag shaggers’ went to LWS and start smearing KJ on that basis.

You didn’t say ‘it seems’ here, you just made a direct accusation.

That’s rather a desperate reach isn’t it?

Do you also have an issue with her wearing the Union flag around her shoulders?

If you don't think YL is far right that's up to you. And if you think he or his followers are genuinely supportive of women's rights and not jumping on a discriminatory bandwagon - as they see it - then that's also up to you.

You started talking about ‘flag shaggers’ being at LWS. You have provided no evidence that any such man (whatever ‘flag shaggers’ means to you) was actually there. You are now making up stuff I haven’t said about TR and ‘his followers’ - I haven’t even mentioned him. It all just looks like a desperate attempt to justify your dislike of KJK. You are entitled not to like her as I am entitled to think the opposite. But your dishonesty undermines your argument.

Such sweeping and tenuous attempts to show ‘guilt by association’ are obvious.