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Genevieva · 11/09/2025 17:20

I think a lot of people have forgotten that Charlie Kirk's primary mission was to model polite and civil debate and give young people an opportunity to participate in it. He used the socratic method to teach teenagers how to think critically, but also how to behave when confronted with opinions they disagree with. That has never been more important. I don't think anyone needs to caveat their sadness at his murder by telling us whether they agreed or disagreed with his opinions. Agreement or not wasn't the point. Courteous engagement was.

MoltenLasagne · 11/09/2025 17:20

MalagaNights · 11/09/2025 15:55

No one should feel the need to preface the condemning of his murder with 'I disagreed with him on most things but...'

It doesn't matter whether you agreed with him or not, no one should be murdered for their opinions. Ever. It's horrific.

Most of his opinions were pretty mainstream conservative views that religious Americans might hold. It doesn't matter if you are not a conservative American or not, his murder for holding opinions and discussing them is shocking disturbing and evil.

It doesn't need qualifying with a personal distancing from the victim.

It's really pissing me off. Condemn the grotesque evil without the little statement of self protection.

No one should be murdered for expressing an opinion.

I'm pointing out I disagreed with his opinions, not to make myself look better, but to point out the regardless of my opinion of him, it is abhorrent.

When, as a society, did we move away from "I disagree with what you say, but I defend to the death your right to say it" to "words are violence"?

Floisme · 11/09/2025 17:20

I had never heard of Charlie Kirk before this morning but I have to say, 'Prove me wrong' sounds like an unusual slogan for a bigot.

My condolences to his family.

I think I'll leave it at that for today.

Butchyrestingface · 11/09/2025 17:20

I don't think he was a great loss but equally I don't celebrate his death and would not have wished him ill. The murder was a heinous crime regardless of how abhorrent you do or don't find the victim.

TheUnusuallyQuerulentMxLauraBrown · 11/09/2025 17:20

Lifelover16 · 11/09/2025 16:54

It’s horrific, his poor family.
How can opinions be challenged or debated if people are not allowed to voice them ?

Well, quite.

Just had a phone chat with my young adult son about it who was keen to stress that Kirk was ‘not a good person’ and also that he didn’t do particularly well when he brought his campus debates to the UK - to which I pointed out that the arena for defeating bad ideas IS the debate space and what happened to Kirk yesterday is not very different to what happened to Salman Rushdie (to whom we have a bit of a family connection) and that neither man deserved physical violence as a response to their opinions, ideas and words, no matter how egregious those ideas are to their opponents, to which thankfully my son agreed.

Nonetheless I am concerned at how social media seems to be normalising violence (or at the very least, normalising gleefulness in the violence of others) as a reaction to differences of political opinion (because not everyone is going to have a sensible parent to talk them back down).

Strider55 · 11/09/2025 17:20

I feel so astounded and depressed at humanity right now. People celebrating the death of someone because he didn't hold the same political beliefs as them, people saying "live by the sword die by the sword"etc. Then there's the vitriol thrown at people like JK Rowling for standing up for women, the protests and hate towards immigrants, the "them versus us" attitude of UK politics.

I've come off Facebook, Instagram and twitter because I've just lost faith in humanity, it's too depressing. Seeing so many people blaming the left for Charlie Kirk's murder, when the truth is we don't know much information about who did it and why, just straight away moving to blaming and attacking each other. It feels like it's a ticking time bomb about to go off.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 11/09/2025 17:20

vegetarianlouise · 11/09/2025 17:19

Why are we not outraged at the 3 innocent students dead at a Colorado school shooting yesterday but we seem to be outraged at the death of a man promoting gun violence and labelling said kids as "necessary collateral damage"?

Not one thread on the Colorado school shooting yesterday.

Why haven’t you created one?

lifeturnsonadime · 11/09/2025 17:20

No one should be assassinated for their political beliefs.

Anyone who believes that this is OK whatever side of the political divide needs to give their head a massive wobble.

TwinklySquid · 11/09/2025 17:21

Shooting anyone for any reason is awful. I don’t believe in his stance on guns but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have a right to talk
about them .

However, this is an irony in that he had no problem with other people being killed with guns rather than banning them.

Genevieva · 11/09/2025 17:22

Floisme · 11/09/2025 17:20

I had never heard of Charlie Kirk before this morning but I have to say, 'Prove me wrong' sounds like an unusual slogan for a bigot.

My condolences to his family.

I think I'll leave it at that for today.

It is a catch phrase designed to engage young people. It is intended as an invitation to say that he is open to debating with anyone.

Talkinpeace · 11/09/2025 17:23

Political rhetoric in the USA is awful

RedToothBrush · 11/09/2025 17:24

vegetarianlouise · 11/09/2025 17:19

Why are we not outraged at the 3 innocent students dead at a Colorado school shooting yesterday but we seem to be outraged at the death of a man promoting gun violence and labelling said kids as "necessary collateral damage"?

Not one thread on the Colorado school shooting yesterday.

Does the Colorado school have political ramifications for the UK and echo political issues in the UK? Does it have significant implications for the direction and stability of the entire USA?

It's tragic and awful, but Kirk's death matters in a way that has far greater implications than a school shooting regardless of how you want to frame others of 'not caring'.

Please don't try to draw false equivalence. Anyone with half an ounce of political understanding knows why one is getting more attention on MN than the other. Suggesting otherwise is just dishonesty.

FuckOffWithYourEllipses · 11/09/2025 17:25

Shortshriftandlethal · 11/09/2025 16:52

In what way was he a racist and a bigot. Could you give some examples of what he has said that cause you to label him in that way?

He said that the passing of the civil rights act was a mistake.

He subscribed to the “great replacement theory”

He accused a Supreme Court judge of only being appointed because she was a black woman.

He said he would automatically question the credentials of a black pilot.

You may, of course, still not feel that this is enough evidence that he was a racist 🤷‍♀️

MrsBlobby64 · 11/09/2025 17:25

Political violence is abhorrent but this is the USA I guess. He was pretty much a vile racist, homophobic, misogynistic person. Thought keeping guns was worth losing people to gun crime, and raped girls should be forced to give birth. I feel sorry for his poor children, but it's a very dark karma taking place here.

TheUnusuallyQuerulentMxLauraBrown · 11/09/2025 17:25

vegetarianlouise · 11/09/2025 17:19

Why are we not outraged at the 3 innocent students dead at a Colorado school shooting yesterday but we seem to be outraged at the death of a man promoting gun violence and labelling said kids as "necessary collateral damage"?

Not one thread on the Colorado school shooting yesterday.

I keep reading this, it’s like a copy and paste meme.

The only death in yesterdays school shooting was the shooter, who successfully took their own life.

The other two students shot are thankfully still
alive.

https://coloradosun.com/2025/09/11/everygreen-high-school-shooting-teen-critical-condition/

Perhaps do a bit of fact checking before blindly repeating lies you read on social media?

Evergreen High School shooting: One teen remains in critical condition, another victim stable

The school is closed Thursday and Friday to allow students and families to connect with mental health resources.

https://coloradosun.com/2025/09/11/everygreen-high-school-shooting-teen-critical-condition/

RedToothBrush · 11/09/2025 17:26

It feels like it's a ticking time bomb about to go off.

Nail being hit on head.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/09/2025 17:27

Dannydevitoiloveyourart · 11/09/2025 17:13

There is a paradox here. We can acknowledge that his assassination is abhorrent and he did not deserve to be killed for his views, whilst simultaneously recognising the undeniable irony that he died by the very sword he forcefully advocated for. A bit like how when Trump supporters who cheered on ICE, found themselves the target of deportations - only this time the consequences were far more extreme.

We can also point out that the whole “good guy with a gun” idea didn’t stop a bad guy with a gun from killing him, and that the right to bear arms takes more lives than it saves.

These observations can all be made while still condemning the assassination and extending empathy to his family — even if he refused to extend such empathy to others.

no, it’s completely transparent the smug gesturing to the “irony” of his brutal murder which is, as I said, a projection on your part. He believed there would have to be collateral damage because guns would inevitably be misused. He personally felt that the second amendment was extremely important to America. You are assuming he wasn’t prepared to die for this strongly held principle. It’s likely he considered that it was at least a possibility that he would.

I am a European woman who is anti violence in all circumstances and completely against guns. It’s not me who is polarising this issue, it’s the unhelpful them and us gloating and lack of human decency about the violent death by murder of a young man with a young family by people on the left. It’s inhuman. You think you’re better than men like Kirk. Try to be worthy of taking the moral high ground. Otherwise you don’t occupy it.

Cornishclio · 11/09/2025 17:27

Apollo441 · 11/09/2025 17:17

No you give some examples. I saw claims today that he was calling for gay people to be murdered. This was made up but was being taken as gospel on bluesky. Questioning wahibist Islam does not mean hatred of Muslims. The guy seemed to be going around colleges debating students. What's wrong with that? It seems laudable. You don't have to agree with him.

He said black women like Michelle Obama and other successful black women lack brain processing power and steal “white peoples slots” He implied he didn’t trust black pilots. He was anti the Civil rights act and hated Martin Luther King. It isn’t on me to convince you he was racist though. I don’t care what you think.

TheCatsTongue · 11/09/2025 17:28

And still with the "murder is wrong, but he has these opinions" justifications.

Anyone with half a brain can see that argument being used by the other side, and that is why is a very obvious that killing someone because of their opinions is never justified.

Signalbox · 11/09/2025 17:28

‘Trans messages’ on ammo come amid fears over transgender mass shootings
The pro-trans, pro-antifa messages reportedly written on ammunition used to kill Charlie Kirk come amid a heated debate about an apparent rise in transgender violence.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/us/news/2025/09/10/charlie-kirk-shots-fired-latest/

Coconutter24 · 11/09/2025 17:29

Cornishclio · 11/09/2025 17:05

Just Google examples. They are all over the internet especially today. His Turning point organisation and The Charlie Kirk show is full of his hatred for Islam, LGBTQ and anyone who isn’t a white supremacist. His anti abortion rants are vile. It cannot be a surprise that a far right outspoken Trump supporter like Kirk is a racist, bigot and transphobic?

So you think he was racist because Google says so?

OuterSpaceCadet · 11/09/2025 17:30

vegetarianlouise · 11/09/2025 17:19

Why are we not outraged at the 3 innocent students dead at a Colorado school shooting yesterday but we seem to be outraged at the death of a man promoting gun violence and labelling said kids as "necessary collateral damage"?

Not one thread on the Colorado school shooting yesterday.

This is a UK forum and I think a lot of people here can't really engage with the US on shootings whilst the US doesn't acknowledge that widespread gun ownership is problematic.

Much of the time there's very little to say. US seems like yet another fucked up place.

Personally I question whether the motives of any murderers ought to be given quite so much media attention. But I guess when motives are shown to be linked to extremist ideology there is a wider public interest because the nature of extremist ideology is to recruit.

NotAtMyAge · 11/09/2025 17:31

vegetarianlouise · 11/09/2025 17:19

Why are we not outraged at the 3 innocent students dead at a Colorado school shooting yesterday but we seem to be outraged at the death of a man promoting gun violence and labelling said kids as "necessary collateral damage"?

Not one thread on the Colorado school shooting yesterday.

Probably because the only person to have died was the 16 year-old male who did the shooting and he shot himself. Two students were wounded, of whom one is still in hospital in critical condition. Very sad, but not the stuff of international news.

https://www.cpr.org/2025/09/10/evergreen-high-school-shooting/

Evergreen High School shooter dead from self-inflicted gunshot wound, one student remains in critical condition

One victim remains in critical condition.

https://www.cpr.org/2025/09/10/evergreen-high-school-shooting/

Ereshkigalangcleg · 11/09/2025 17:32

TwinklySquid · 11/09/2025 17:21

Shooting anyone for any reason is awful. I don’t believe in his stance on guns but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have a right to talk
about them .

However, this is an irony in that he had no problem with other people being killed with guns rather than banning them.

Again, people plopping on to Have Their Say and repeat the same unoriginal, dull talking points they got from some unoriginal commentator on social media. It’s not helping anyone that this issue can be painted that people on the left don’t give a fuck about the violent murder of people they don’t like and continue to act superior and gloat about it. And it won’t help when the people on the right take their “revenge” as they may do. Have some personal responsibility fgs.

Rosscameasdoody · 11/09/2025 17:33

RayonSunrise · 11/09/2025 16:56

Thanks. I was a bit afraid of that - all I’m seeing from the FBI on Sky is that they have the gun and are looking for a male of college age.

I heard a news report on BBC radio 4 late this afternoon saying they had found the gun abandoned in woodland and that it was engraved with trans ‘messages’. The report also said that they had information leading them to believe the shooter was of college age.

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