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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Women Against the Far Right - Open Letter

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ThisChicPinkRaven · 02/09/2025 07:08

A collection of prominent women have signed an open letter regarding the far right's consistent, and increasing, 'justification' for their vile behaviour that immigrants represent a sexual threat to women.

It's true that there are some instances of sexual violence committed by migrants, the overwhelming majority - to the surprise of absolutely nobody - is committed by men who are UK nationals and born here.

I'd be interested to hear your thoughts on this subject, specifically whether your personal politics regarding migrants are coloured by the degree of threat you feel.
I am aware that there are some people on this board who hold views not wholly compatible with the rest of us, so please remember to be kind, patient, and thoughtful in your responses.

Source Links
Guardian: https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/sep/02/women-stop-linking-asylum-seekers-sexual-abuse
Independent: https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/womens-safety-far-right-vawg-government-b2811674.html

Prominent UK women tell rightwingers: stop linking immigration to sexual abuse

Exclusive: Open letter says politicians are exploiting violence against women ‘to fuel hate and division’

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/sep/02/women-stop-linking-asylum-seekers-sexual-abuse

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RingoJuice · 13/09/2025 19:52

IwantToRetire · 13/09/2025 19:38

Now you are just being silly.

Where do you get the word priority.

I am saying those in authority need to have systems in place, whether for groups of men in an area, or individual men in the UK that makes sure the law is applied.

Groups of young men from schools are a menace in the area they are in, ditto groups of young men in colleges.

I would be more than happy to have a society where there is a curfew on men.

What I dislike is women who go out of their way to pretend that the real threat to women are not strangers, but those they know.

If you cared about women so would you be.

But you are just exploiting the issue of sexual violence to show you hostility to "outsiders".

Edited

You admit that it’s a problem. You believe in the government’s ability to manage that, which is just naive.

Violence from local men is baked in. It’s very hard to reduce due to the nature of domestic violence.

Refusing to allow unvetted males to settle in your country is so easy in comparison. Why not do it?

Timeforabitofpeace · 13/09/2025 20:20

deadpan · 02/09/2025 07:48

Id give more credence to Farage and Yaxley Lennon's claims if they were seeing their arses every time white UK national grooming gangs or individuals were exposed or charged in the UK, as often as they do if the men are brown.
They care no more about girls and women's safety than trans activists. They're just whipping up a frenzy for their personal.gain. Don't forget those years Farage spent in Russia - who were found to have interfered in the Brexit vote - and how he is backed by people like Steve Bannon. Farage is a very scary prospect as a prime minister (even typing those words gives me the shivers). He was an MEP for fisheries with one of the worst attendance records, and pushed hard for Brexit, while all the time shafting the fishing industry along with everyone else. But he won't refuse his European Parliamentary pension when the time comes.
Yaxley Lennon is basically a throwback to the 70's and 80's football hooligans. Thugs who hid behind a 'cause'.
Of course we need to "vet" and watch people who migrate here. But we need to realise that in work figures for migrants are (slightly) higher than UK nationals, they don't want to be here for benefits, they want to work and pay tax.

This.

Carla786 · 11/11/2025 17:09

RingoJuice · 03/09/2025 09:36

Of course English people exist. Firstly you have everyone who has English citizenship

First of all, I don’t think there is any such thing as English citizenship. It’s an ethnicity without a nation, isn’t it? (Not British so really don’t know)

They can be of any colour and be English

No you can’t. English refers to a specific people. You cannot become English any more than you can become ethnic Japanese.

In any case, you already have a nice category for people who permanently emigrate to your country: British.

And then you have people who are ethnically English because their ancestors have hailed from here for centuries. There are very few people like that because they'll at least be mixed with Scottish, Welsh or Irish if not French, German or Scandinavian. So thoroughbred English people?

The English genome has been remarkably stable since 1066. If you are not a distinct people, then who on earth is?

'Not British so don't really know' - no, you're American, I believe?

If you don't know much about Britain, as you admit, why do you feel so qualified to comment on who is and isn't English?

Carla786 · 11/11/2025 17:17

SionnachRuadh · 03/09/2025 10:05

This is entirely true. I sometimes wonder if our tribal left wingers ever go outside of Hackney or Haringey, because if they did, they'd find that normie white Brits - even Reform voters in Essex! - have more nuanced views than they might imagine.

Normie white Brits think that too many people are coming in, they worry that the wrong kinds of people are coming in, and they don't want migrant hotels in their communities. But they like their black friends. This is why overt racism is very unpopular, and outfits like the BNP have been defunct for years.

Normie white Brits don't like ethnic enclaves, but they're generally very well disposed towards minorities who integrate well.

Normie white Brits worry about radical Islam and are horrified by stories of grooming gangs, but they won't hear a word against Mr Iqbal next door.

Normie white Brits - even Millwall supporters! - are quite happy to support anti-racism campaigns in football, they just don't like importing American racial politics in the form of taking a knee for BLM.

Normie white Brits like to see themselves as moderate, and having the likes of Zarah Sultana or Leanne Wood or Charlotte Church call them "racist" or "far right" simply for not supporting the far left's view of immigration will just get their backs up.

Tommy Robinson has a following in the country, but polling shows he's extremely unpopular with the majority - his approval rating is similar to that of Meghan Markle or Keir Starmer. It seems to me that it's the British left that's working hard to persuade people that Tommy Robinson has a point.

I'm left-ish myself but happily sign up to all those views.

Re Robinson, I still dislike him strongly due to the string of criminal offences, especially the harassment of the Syrian refugee boy, critical journalist & the mixed raced family (the latter was just this year). Not to mention the shadiness around his trips to Tenerife and Ayia Napa.

I read recently about the roots of the EDL though and it seems he tried to make it a racially inclusive group United by opposition to Islam? So I wondered for a while whether he is racist (obviously he still seems dodgy for other reasons). Otoh he used to be in the BNP & some of the above actions seem to at least possibly be racist in intent.

Either way, I'm not a huge fan of either Farage or Melanie Phillips but I've always been glad that they've urged followers not to get sucked into Tommy-worship.

Carla786 · 11/11/2025 17:26

RingoJuice · 03/09/2025 10:41

I’m just pushing back on the idea that English ethnicity is fake or not real. It’s about as real as any other ethnicity.

You are better off just saying that you don’t value it. Many prefer thinking of themselves as British, which is fine.

No, I value thinking of myself as English, though I support the Union. I know almost nothing about Wales, Scotland or Ireland and have never been to any of them yet, though I'd like to know more.

If you believe that a non-ethnically English person can only ever call themselves British, how can they differentiate whether they're from England, Scotland, Wales etc ?

Carla786 · 11/11/2025 17:40

RingoJuice · 03/09/2025 09:57

What do you mean by that? It doesn’t seem likely that most English people have an immigrant parent or grandparent??

Hmm...well, as the granddaughter of a Polish refugee, I think it could well be more than you might think. It's certainly not unusual in my area to have one or more Polish grandparents.

There was the 1880s wave of Eastern European Jewish immigration which basically created the modern British Jewish community (there was already one ofc but most UK Jews trace their ancestry to this wave). There have been waves of Irish migration fairly recently. There were the children who came on the Kindertransport. Waves of immigrants from over Europe post-WW2. Small numbers by themselves, but it all adds up.

Consulting Grok, which is somewhat dodgy but sometimes useful, estimates around 10% of English people could have a European grandparent or great-grandpparent. Higher numbers if you include Scottish, Welsh and Irish as well.

Carla786 · 11/11/2025 17:42

SouthWamses · 03/09/2025 08:31

No British ethnic group is non-white. You have been watching too much BBC. That does not mean there was not a population of a few tens of thousands of other ethnicities living in the UK before the 1950s but it was a very tiny minority.

British is a nationality not an ethnicity so surely there are? Thus you get groups like British Asians.

Otoh English is an ethnicity, though I'd argue it's also a cultural identity.

Carla786 · 11/11/2025 17:47

RingoJuice · 03/09/2025 09:57

What do you mean by that? It doesn’t seem likely that most English people have an immigrant parent or grandparent??

By 1911, there were over 1000 Chinese people in Britain who often intermarried with locals. So it's possible that some Brits might have fairly recent Chinese ancestry they're not aware of.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/British_Chinese

Wikipedia I know,,but it does cite a book as source.

TempestTost · 11/11/2025 17:54

It's all three obviously, isn't it?

You can be English ethnically.

You can be English in terms of, not citizenship, but where you reside.

You can be English culturally.

Many people also have mixed ethnicity. At some point, mixed ethnicity becomes one thing. A Celt/Saxon/Norman might be just "English" now, arguably you might include Caribbean or African these days too, and in 100 years that could certainly be the case.

People who argue that only one of these can be valid ways of using a term like English, or Scottish, or even Indian, are just silly.

IwantToRetire · 11/11/2025 17:58

There was a post on another thread about how often dead threads were suddenly revied and nearly always at a tangent to the orginal purpose.

But having been alerted to this thread being brough back from the thread, seriously if anyone really thinks that English is an ethnicity please do quote a source that says this.

The inhabitants of England (which is not the same as the Celtic Nations) is mongrel.

Although cross breed sounds more posh.

Birthdaysocks · 11/11/2025 18:44

White English ethnicity

This is the Government source used in the census, by all public sector organisations and many private for mandatory ethnicity monitoring.

The definitions have been used and refined since 1991. The last census was 2021.

www.ethnicity-facts-figures.service.gov.uk/style-guide/ethnic-groups/

There's currently a consultation on reporting on ethnicity pay gaps which will use this.

https://www.cipd.org/uk/knowledge/guides/ethnicity-pay-reporting-guide/#:~:text=While%20ethnicity%20pay%20reporting%20has,to%20publish%20data%20by%20ethnicity.

We do exist. You may well have ticked the white English box yourself!

CIPD | Ethnicity pay reporting: a guide for UK employers

Guidance on navigating voluntary ethnicity pay reporting

https://www.cipd.org/uk/knowledge/guides/ethnicity-pay-reporting-guide#:~:text=While%20ethnicity%20pay%20reporting%20has,to%20publish%20data%20by%20ethnicity.

SionnachRuadh · 11/11/2025 18:48

Why do you keep reanimating zombie threads? What are you getting out of it?

TempestTost · 11/11/2025 18:49

IwantToRetire · 11/11/2025 17:58

There was a post on another thread about how often dead threads were suddenly revied and nearly always at a tangent to the orginal purpose.

But having been alerted to this thread being brough back from the thread, seriously if anyone really thinks that English is an ethnicity please do quote a source that says this.

The inhabitants of England (which is not the same as the Celtic Nations) is mongrel.

Although cross breed sounds more posh.

That approach destroys the idea of ethnicity altogether. There are no "pure" peoples.

Carla786 · 11/11/2025 18:59

IwantToRetire · 11/11/2025 17:58

There was a post on another thread about how often dead threads were suddenly revied and nearly always at a tangent to the orginal purpose.

But having been alerted to this thread being brough back from the thread, seriously if anyone really thinks that English is an ethnicity please do quote a source that says this.

The inhabitants of England (which is not the same as the Celtic Nations) is mongrel.

Although cross breed sounds more posh.

Ofc English is an ethnicity.

What I don't understand are people who say it's only an ethnicity, and that someone like say, Rishi Sunak can say he's British but can't say he's English.

I think it's reasonable for an ethnically non-English person to say that they're English in a cultural sense. If they can only say they're British, how can they differentiate whether they're from Wales, Scotland etc?

Carla786 · 11/11/2025 18:59

TempestTost · 11/11/2025 18:49

That approach destroys the idea of ethnicity altogether. There are no "pure" peoples.

Exactly.

Carla786 · 11/11/2025 19:00

TempestTost · 11/11/2025 17:54

It's all three obviously, isn't it?

You can be English ethnically.

You can be English in terms of, not citizenship, but where you reside.

You can be English culturally.

Many people also have mixed ethnicity. At some point, mixed ethnicity becomes one thing. A Celt/Saxon/Norman might be just "English" now, arguably you might include Caribbean or African these days too, and in 100 years that could certainly be the case.

People who argue that only one of these can be valid ways of using a term like English, or Scottish, or even Indian, are just silly.

Great post. I wish people would stop ignoring that English can be a cultural as well as ethnic identity. Equally it's annoying and counterproductive to say that there's no such thing as English ethnicity.

Carla786 · 11/11/2025 19:02

SionnachRuadh · 11/11/2025 18:48

Why do you keep reanimating zombie threads? What are you getting out of it?

I'm sorry, I thought the nationality vs ethnicity thing was an interesting discussion. It's only from mid-September so I thought it wouldn't count so much as a zombie thread. I apologise, I won't do so again.

IwantToRetire · 11/11/2025 19:10

White english is just one of the sub categories. It recongnises that not all "english" people are white.

If it wasn't so offensive its laughable the efforts that go into pushing this false narrative.

Which isn't about reality but a set of beliefs.

Maybe the census should expand the how do you indentify question to any number of identifies.

So I may give my real age but identify as a teenager.

Birthdaysocks · 11/11/2025 19:33

The government is being offensive?

By setting out ethnicity monitoring definitions in conjunction with ethic minorities themselves they are all being offensive?

Every company I've worked in HR for 25 years has used these definitions, it's certainly never been seen as offensive.

It's all a false narrative?

White english is just one of the sub categories. It recongnises that not all "english" people are white.

The categories are the exact opposite of your claim.

White is the one of five main categories and English is one of the white groups.

There is nowhere in the categories at all that the English can be anything other than white, as that's what we are!

The motivation to claim otherwise is not clear.
Why the big drama about the English being white?

Notaflippinclue · 11/11/2025 20:35

Ancestry say I’m 97% NW England and 3% Welsh and our line goes back to 1066 so very very very English and I’m proud but over the last 20 years have become so disillusioned and so sad - I suppose that makes me a bigot and a racist.

Birthdaysocks · 11/11/2025 21:16

An example of an ethnicity pay monitoring policy based on the standard government groups.

Barclays conducts extensive ethnicity monitoring by collecting ethnicity data from its employees on a voluntary basis and using this data to publicly report on its progress toward specific diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) goals.
Key aspects of Barclays' ethnicity monitoring:
Data Collection: Barclays asks its employees to voluntarily disclose their ethnicity. In the UK, around 81-87% of employees have shared their ethnicity data, which allows for robust analysis.
Data Usage: The collected data is used to:
Identify and understand ethnic minority representation at all levels of the organisation, particularly in senior roles.
Publish an annual ethnicity pay gap report, detailing differences in average pay and bonuses between various ethnic groups (e.g., Black, Asian, Multiracial, White employees).
Measure progress against specific Race at Work ambitions and other DEI targets.
Inform and evaluate the effectiveness of the bank's policies and action plans aimed at supporting ethnic minority career progression and fostering an inclusive culture.
Transparency and Reporting: As a signatory of the Race at Work Charter, Barclays is committed to capturing ethnicity data and publicising its progress. The bank publishes annual Diversity, Equity and Inclusion reports and UK Pay Gap disclosures that provide detailed data and action plans.
Target Setting: Barclays has set measurable targets, such as increasing the number of employees from underrepresented ethnicities at all levels and specifically at the Managing Director level.
Confidentiality: The bank aims to build trust to encourage self-identification, recognising that a high response rate is critical for meaningful data analysis.
Barclays uses this monitoring process to hold itself accountable and drive sustainable change in ethnic diversity and inclusion within the organisation.

RingoJuice · 12/11/2025 04:57

Birthdaysocks · 11/11/2025 19:33

The government is being offensive?

By setting out ethnicity monitoring definitions in conjunction with ethic minorities themselves they are all being offensive?

Every company I've worked in HR for 25 years has used these definitions, it's certainly never been seen as offensive.

It's all a false narrative?

White english is just one of the sub categories. It recongnises that not all "english" people are white.

The categories are the exact opposite of your claim.

White is the one of five main categories and English is one of the white groups.

There is nowhere in the categories at all that the English can be anything other than white, as that's what we are!

The motivation to claim otherwise is not clear.
Why the big drama about the English being white?

It’s very strange people arguing essentially that English don’t exist, saying they are a mix of this and that.

Tbh you could do this with pretty much any ethnicity—for instance Japanese are partially Korean rice farmer immigrants mixed with aboriginal Jomon (you can see the heavier Jomon ancestry in Okinawans for instance) and some later inputs from proto Mongolian sources. The current genetic structure of ordinary Japanese iirc has remained quite stable since 400-500AD. (Genetic studies of ancient families and of the royal family would be FASCINATING but not allowed or anyways published for political reasons … )

But nobody says that Japanese aren’t an ethnicity, and that obviously black or white people can become ethnic Japanese! Incidentally I know someone that naturalized and carries a Japanese passport so technically is a ‘Japanese’ but socially nobody would think he’s Japanese LOL

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