Let's settle this once and for all bc it is glaringly obvious that OP is a man and what he is trying to accomplish with his post.
I am a mother to a teen daughter. Since I am a woman, I have a real understanding of how to navigate the world from a woman's perspective due solely from lived experience. And here's what I tell my daughter.
If you're walking down the street and someone is walking near you, I don't care what they look like, what sex they are, what color they are, what "identity" they are etc. If your gut is telling you you might be in danger, cross the street. It doesn't matter what it makes the other person feel or if you come across this way or that. It doesn't matter if the reason is how they look or their color or size or sex etc. You know why? Because if you're wrong you can always apologize later. And if that person is a decent and kind person, they too will understand why you crossed the street and not judge you for it. But if your gut is right, and you don't cross the street bc you're more concerned about their feelings than your safety, you won't get the chance to apologize.
But see people like OP are part of the concerted effort to make women feel that the threat of being assaulted, raped, kidnapped, or murdered is a worse thing than the possibility of hurting someone else's feelings. So he comes here and posts things like this calling us all racists to try and get us to question what every woman understands to be trusted safety protocols to manipulate us into loosening them, leaving us more exposed to the very nefarious behavior he and his ilk wish to perpetrate against us.
So let's not even entertain this by defending ourselves against his manipulative accusations. Because if he were a real woman (or even a decent man for that matter) he would actually understand.