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Women Against the Far Right - Open Letter

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ThisChicPinkRaven · 02/09/2025 07:08

A collection of prominent women have signed an open letter regarding the far right's consistent, and increasing, 'justification' for their vile behaviour that immigrants represent a sexual threat to women.

It's true that there are some instances of sexual violence committed by migrants, the overwhelming majority - to the surprise of absolutely nobody - is committed by men who are UK nationals and born here.

I'd be interested to hear your thoughts on this subject, specifically whether your personal politics regarding migrants are coloured by the degree of threat you feel.
I am aware that there are some people on this board who hold views not wholly compatible with the rest of us, so please remember to be kind, patient, and thoughtful in your responses.

Source Links
Guardian: https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/sep/02/women-stop-linking-asylum-seekers-sexual-abuse
Independent: https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/womens-safety-far-right-vawg-government-b2811674.html

Prominent UK women tell rightwingers: stop linking immigration to sexual abuse

Exclusive: Open letter says politicians are exploiting violence against women ‘to fuel hate and division’

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/sep/02/women-stop-linking-asylum-seekers-sexual-abuse

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TheCatsTongue · 02/09/2025 14:38

What does the "far-right" even mean now?

I can't believe people still use that term with a straight face now, because it is now the most overused term of the past year.

EmmaMaria · 02/09/2025 14:38

Ihavetoask · 02/09/2025 08:03

The issue is that a) non white men are more likely to be reported for crimes they do commit (and crimes they don't) and b) they're more likely to be convicted of crimes they did and did not commit.

So per capita is just a reflection of harsher policing on non-white communities. The scary thing is that if there are groups of white groomers like they had with the Asian gangs in Rochdale, they are being concealed by authorities and probably include notable figures with power. We will never know.

If you want an answer to that, Google Cyril Smith former MP for Rochdale - widely known locally that he was abusing boys along with his brother and friends, and that was in the 60's/70's. Even the far overdue investigation was a whitewash.

MermaidMartian · 02/09/2025 14:41

ThatZanyFatball · 02/09/2025 14:18

And here it is in all it's glory folks. A man calling young women who were subjected to the most horrific crimes thinkable racist bc she had no other choice but to be on guard from people who were coordinating together to commit and get away with these acts. These men cut off any and all supports or resources she could access so she would remain open to more and more and more attacks. But if while living in this reality, she thought twice about getting in a cab that was driven by a brown man by herself shes being racist - and being racist is far worse than protecting yourself from rape when you have no other resources or supports. So if rape is the price you have to pay for not being racist it's a price worth paying.

I suppose you tell young lesbians that if they don't suck your girl cock they're genital-obsessed transphobes. And you tell the 14 yo girl who doesn't want her bra measured by a grown man in a dress she's a nazi. And you tell parents who refuse to take children to events where men engage in sexually-charged behavior and expose themselves in public bigots.

This is far-left ideology in a nutshell people. Make people so afraid of being branded morally-reprehensible that you can get away with committing morally-reprehensible acts against them.

Yes, if I was a 14 you girl living Rotherham I would absolutely judge the people around me by the color of their skin. And if you're biggest concern about thay is that I'm being racist, then you're a morally-reprehensible gang rape-apologist.

Wow, lots of assumptions about me there that I'm not going to dignify with a response. Just a quiet giggle.
All I'm trying to say is that whatever is going on is no fault at all of the innocent hard working Brits who just happen to be born with not white skin. British people who are getting abuse and violence because people are making assumptions about them because of their skin. I don't think it's wrong to say remember what they are going through.

ThatZanyFatball · 02/09/2025 14:57

Let's settle this once and for all bc it is glaringly obvious that OP is a man and what he is trying to accomplish with his post.

I am a mother to a teen daughter. Since I am a woman, I have a real understanding of how to navigate the world from a woman's perspective due solely from lived experience. And here's what I tell my daughter.

If you're walking down the street and someone is walking near you, I don't care what they look like, what sex they are, what color they are, what "identity" they are etc. If your gut is telling you you might be in danger, cross the street. It doesn't matter what it makes the other person feel or if you come across this way or that. It doesn't matter if the reason is how they look or their color or size or sex etc. You know why? Because if you're wrong you can always apologize later. And if that person is a decent and kind person, they too will understand why you crossed the street and not judge you for it. But if your gut is right, and you don't cross the street bc you're more concerned about their feelings than your safety, you won't get the chance to apologize.

But see people like OP are part of the concerted effort to make women feel that the threat of being assaulted, raped, kidnapped, or murdered is a worse thing than the possibility of hurting someone else's feelings. So he comes here and posts things like this calling us all racists to try and get us to question what every woman understands to be trusted safety protocols to manipulate us into loosening them, leaving us more exposed to the very nefarious behavior he and his ilk wish to perpetrate against us.

So let's not even entertain this by defending ourselves against his manipulative accusations. Because if he were a real woman (or even a decent man for that matter) he would actually understand.

factor50fan · 02/09/2025 14:59

the overwhelming majority - to the surprise of absolutely nobody - is committed by men who are UK nationals and born here

When I hear such ridiculous arguments it makes me wonder if those making them have no actual data on their side so they have to resort to such nonsense. Of course in any country most crimes are committed by nationals, as most of the population are nationals of the country. Duh.

I don't know what the statistics are, but being as we do know that culture has a powerful influence on human behaviour, one would absolutely expect there to be some cultures from which men are more likely to offend against women, and cultures from which men are less likely to offend against women. If this is a controversial thing to say this is due to political reasons, rather than rational reasons.

It should also surprise no-one that moving large numbers of unemployed young men into a population is going to cause a range of problems. Again, it should not be controversial to say so.

If people have sound, coherent reasons to raise concerns, or if people have data to back their concerns, they should be heard out.

' Most sexual assaults are committed by UK nationals' is neither a sound, coherent argument nor a data based one. It is a piece of political, ideological propaganda.

MermaidMartian · 02/09/2025 15:07

I wouldn't argue with anything you just said. If I had a daughter I'd give them exactly the same advice. All I'm saying is that when British people, men and women, are getting openly told in their faces to go back where they came from on the nearest rubber dinghy, that it's got to factor into the conversation.

Definitelynotleft · 02/09/2025 15:27

Data data data
but the left call the data wracist

SionnachRuadh · 02/09/2025 15:39

Also, a detail from the Guardian article that may have been missed:

The letter, which has been coordinated by Stand up to Racism

These MPs and celebrities are more than happy to put their names to an appeal by a front organisation of the Socialist Workers Party, which has actively covered up the rape of its own young female members by party leaders. As I often say, it's a bit like celebrities endorsing, and unions funding, an "anti-racism" campaign led by PIE.

But hey, at least they aren't "right wing".

lechiffre55 · 02/09/2025 16:18

There seems to be a presumption that there's this nasty giant pool of extremely far right people looking for excuses to be mean to people. All hiding like monsters under the bed ready to pounce on oppressed minorities.
It seems inconcievable to some people that a population can be pushed from the centre, or even a non politcal position, towards the right because the concerns they have are being ignored or actively supressed. In these situations the emergence of a "right wing" is the result of constantly mistreating an otherwise not very political centrist society. Normal people who just want to live their lives in peace and be left alone. Not murdered or raped. If you call someone a facist enough times you will literally push them towards fascism because they are so pissed off with you calling them a fascist every two seconds to try and brow beat them.
The further a pendulum is pulled to one side the more it will swing back in the other direction when it is finally released. We are seeing this in the USA right now. Trump is not a secret doom weapon built by far right nazi rocket scientists working underground, he's the direct result of far left policies causing a population to want to push back against the problems they see in society caused by far left policies. Men in women's sports and changing rooms is a prime example. The left built Trump's support not the right. You created and breathed life into your own boogeyman, and now he's coming for you. Farage is exactly the same. He is a figurative monster of the left's own creation, built by virtue signalling idiots. Without the left being useful idiots we wouldn't know Farage's name.
In blaming the right for society's problems, you are putting the cart before the horse. The right grows when society's problems are not addressed because of the left. When there are no societal issues there is no right. Everyone is just getting on living their lives, effectively centrists. Keep pushing that pendulum further and further to the left and see what happens when it slips from your grip, things will get very interesting very quickly.

Grammarnut · 02/09/2025 18:19

deadpan · 02/09/2025 07:48

Id give more credence to Farage and Yaxley Lennon's claims if they were seeing their arses every time white UK national grooming gangs or individuals were exposed or charged in the UK, as often as they do if the men are brown.
They care no more about girls and women's safety than trans activists. They're just whipping up a frenzy for their personal.gain. Don't forget those years Farage spent in Russia - who were found to have interfered in the Brexit vote - and how he is backed by people like Steve Bannon. Farage is a very scary prospect as a prime minister (even typing those words gives me the shivers). He was an MEP for fisheries with one of the worst attendance records, and pushed hard for Brexit, while all the time shafting the fishing industry along with everyone else. But he won't refuse his European Parliamentary pension when the time comes.
Yaxley Lennon is basically a throwback to the 70's and 80's football hooligans. Thugs who hid behind a 'cause'.
Of course we need to "vet" and watch people who migrate here. But we need to realise that in work figures for migrants are (slightly) higher than UK nationals, they don't want to be here for benefits, they want to work and pay tax.

Anyone who had done a proper survey of opinion re the EU, and done it anywhere outside London would have realised that an exit vote was highly probable. I live in the Midlands. Of my social circle and the circles attached to it, only 2 people voted to remain in the EU.
Blame Russia if you like. I'd rather blame the EU for being undemocratic and for not being simply a trade organisation.
Being grammarnut I would like to point out to you that if you hypenated 'in work' your sentence would make sense. 😃

ThatZanyFatball · 02/09/2025 18:30

MermaidMartian · 02/09/2025 14:41

Wow, lots of assumptions about me there that I'm not going to dignify with a response. Just a quiet giggle.
All I'm trying to say is that whatever is going on is no fault at all of the innocent hard working Brits who just happen to be born with not white skin. British people who are getting abuse and violence because people are making assumptions about them because of their skin. I don't think it's wrong to say remember what they are going through.

Well then blame the police force that stood by and did nothing while young girls were repeatedly and systematically being gang raped bc the police were too afraid of being branded - BY PEOPLE LIKE YOU - racist. You are literally increasing the problem, not us.

deadpan · 02/09/2025 18:39

Grammarnut · 02/09/2025 18:19

Anyone who had done a proper survey of opinion re the EU, and done it anywhere outside London would have realised that an exit vote was highly probable. I live in the Midlands. Of my social circle and the circles attached to it, only 2 people voted to remain in the EU.
Blame Russia if you like. I'd rather blame the EU for being undemocratic and for not being simply a trade organisation.
Being grammarnut I would like to point out to you that if you hypenated 'in work' your sentence would make sense. 😃

Edited

Don't you mean hyphenated?
None of my friends or family, apart from my in-laws, voted leave and I live in what was a Tory stronghold til last year, in the north of England. There was less than 4% difference in the result. We'd have had far more informed voting if Cameron hadn't had such a big ego. In Ireland for the peace process, there were leaflets printed with factual information sent out to all households. They'd vote on that subject then they'd have another leaflet and then another vote.... Not the shit show we had for such an important decision. And it isn't my opinion that Russia interfered in the vote, it was shown in a report commissioned by the Tories.
That's so funny you think the EU is undemocratic, what do you think First Past the Post is in the UK? We were a big player in the EU and had a lot of input in to the human rights policies amongst others. Now we're on the sidelines having our businesses drown in red tape and a lorry park in Kent. But hey ho it was worth it for black/blue passports (printed in France) wasn't it.

IwantToRetire · 02/09/2025 18:58

Sorry haven't read the thread so not sure this has been mentioned.

And not my business who other women want to associate with.

But this letter is organised by Stand Up to Racism, ie part of the SWP.

And given the SWP record on women's rights let alone not be subjected to sexual harrassment and worse, its hypercritical bullshit.

And a shame that many women with "names" are so easy to get to make pronouncements I am sure with sincerety but all too often means a lot of people just turn off.

https://actionnetwork.org/petitions/e8071ba8ff4cd376d0b94b0246ff83acb7b117df

Sign the open letter: Women against the far right

The far right is using women's safety as a weapon to spread racism and division. They are not defenders of women—they exploit violence against women and children to push hate. Together we can stand with all survivors and victims of abuse, unite agains...

https://actionnetwork.org/petitions/e8071ba8ff4cd376d0b94b0246ff83acb7b117df

IwantToRetire · 02/09/2025 19:06

Equally disappointing is the fact that women service providers groups (ie VAW groups) had not been able to act together autonomously and make a statement about the anti asylum message of "protecting our girls" tagged themselve along with the usual group of left male organisastions.

In NI when there were similar mis labelling of male sexual violence only being something men from other countries did, but as women groups they maintained their autonomy and built on spreading the word about their services.

ie they created independent statements referencing sexual violence against women and how most women will experience this from men in their own families, or who they work with. So not only did they put out a strong message about male violence, but reached out to the women who are caught up in this message about the outsider being the threat, which lets the majority male population able to as usual not be challenged about their behaviour.

Basically neither the right or the left are really concerned about women's right to live free of the fear of male violence, for them it is just a platform to prate from. And virtue signal each other.

SionnachRuadh · 02/09/2025 19:09

Even if the letter hadn't been organised by literal rape enablers, these things rarely have any effect.

I mean if there were a hotel full of young Afghan men just down the street from your daughter's school, and you're worried about her safety, you're not going to stop being worried about her safety because Charlotte Church or Maxine Peake tells you that your worries are sinful.

Some bits of the left have a very feudal idea that we'll all be morally improved by our social betters telling us what to think.

TheCatsTongue · 02/09/2025 19:25

I find it strange that whenever there is a case of sexual assault (the cases that get reported) by someone living in the migrant hotel there is a chorus of "but white British men do it too", but when discussing Jimmy Savile et al we don't get people saying "but migrant men do it too".

The crimes committed from residents of the migrant hotels are downplayed. It also downplays the responsibility of the home office and Serco who should be keeping close tabs on the residents and making sure that they are going out committing crime.

If those protesters heard about a white British paedophile living near a school (legally that shouldn't happen) they wouldn't go round there with gifts.

GiraffesAtThePark · 02/09/2025 19:29

Ihavetoask · 02/09/2025 08:03

The issue is that a) non white men are more likely to be reported for crimes they do commit (and crimes they don't) and b) they're more likely to be convicted of crimes they did and did not commit.

So per capita is just a reflection of harsher policing on non-white communities. The scary thing is that if there are groups of white groomers like they had with the Asian gangs in Rochdale, they are being concealed by authorities and probably include notable figures with power. We will never know.

It’s a bit bizarre to bring up the gangs in Rochdale like they weren’t being concealed and ignored by authorities for years.

DiaAssolellat · 02/09/2025 19:37

SionnachRuadh · 02/09/2025 19:09

Even if the letter hadn't been organised by literal rape enablers, these things rarely have any effect.

I mean if there were a hotel full of young Afghan men just down the street from your daughter's school, and you're worried about her safety, you're not going to stop being worried about her safety because Charlotte Church or Maxine Peake tells you that your worries are sinful.

Some bits of the left have a very feudal idea that we'll all be morally improved by our social betters telling us what to think.

I find your phrase literal rape enablers abhorrent. The women signing the letter have not enabled rapists, and you’re saying immigrants are rapists. Just…..wow.

This thread has really allowed the racists amongst the MN community to show their true colours. Pun absolutely intended.

SionnachRuadh · 02/09/2025 19:44

DiaAssolellat · 02/09/2025 19:37

I find your phrase literal rape enablers abhorrent. The women signing the letter have not enabled rapists, and you’re saying immigrants are rapists. Just…..wow.

This thread has really allowed the racists amongst the MN community to show their true colours. Pun absolutely intended.

It was organised by the Socialist Workers Party, wearing their "Stand Up To Racism" hat. So yes, the letter was organised by literal rape enablers.

Some of the women who signed won't be aware of their record and just want to express a pro-migrant position; some, I know for certain, know exactly who was asking them to sign the letter. I'm not interested in publicly shaming them.

But the phrase was aimed at the organisers. Do you have a problem with me mentioning the SWP protecting the rapist Martin Smith, who ran SUTR and still has influence in that world? Do you think this might be relevant to the credibility of this open letter?

NigelFaragesFakeRoarofLaughter · 02/09/2025 21:38

Correction to my own post above, re:
(Though Maxwell did state that members of Trump's current cabinet had associated with Epstein for the purpose of sexual encounters.)

Sorry, I misread the article and got that bit wrong.

Maxwell was asked about whether men associated with Epstein for the purposes of sexual encounters.

I've now found what purports to be the redacted transcript of the interview, and she doesn't claim men were associating with Epstein for sex.

She's very evasive and deflecting about it: "A man wants sexual favors, he will find that. They didn't have to come to Epstein for that. Now did some … Okay, I don't know. I wasn't there. I didn't see it."

And she describes "very substantial people" and mentions something about "some [inaudible 01:52:15] in your cabinet who you value as your co-workers"
https://www.rev.com/transcripts/doj-interview-with-ghislaine-maxwell-day-2

DOJ Interview With Ghislaine Maxwell Day 2

Deputy Attorney General Todd Blanche of the DOJ interviews Ghislaine Maxwell day 2. Read the transcript here.

https://www.rev.com/transcripts/doj-interview-with-ghislaine-maxwell-day-2

ScribblingPixie · 02/09/2025 21:52

Ihavetoask · 02/09/2025 08:14

I literally live in Finsbury Park..it isnt like that at all. I live next to the mosque and shop on Blackstock road every day for the last 25 years plus. My butcher is at the top end, blue sign. Lovely green eyes. He's been there since early 2000s. I lived there when hook hand used to preach in the streets. Went to a local school and everything. No, Blackstock road isn't like that at all. There was a wave of people inappropriately gathering in covid but that's it.

It certainly was like that a few years ago. Men in groups hissing and calling out - I stopped walking down there. I heard the police clamped down on them?

Pharazon · 02/09/2025 22:19

Out of interest how do you tell the difference between immigrant men and British-born men?

Pharazon · 02/09/2025 22:19

Ugh, quote fail.

SouthWamses · 03/09/2025 01:00

Pharazon · 02/09/2025 22:19

Out of interest how do you tell the difference between immigrant men and British-born men?

Oh look, another racist looking to deny the existence of a whole indigenous ethnic group. The BBC would be proud.

RogueFemale · 03/09/2025 01:08

ThisChicPinkRaven · 02/09/2025 07:08

A collection of prominent women have signed an open letter regarding the far right's consistent, and increasing, 'justification' for their vile behaviour that immigrants represent a sexual threat to women.

It's true that there are some instances of sexual violence committed by migrants, the overwhelming majority - to the surprise of absolutely nobody - is committed by men who are UK nationals and born here.

I'd be interested to hear your thoughts on this subject, specifically whether your personal politics regarding migrants are coloured by the degree of threat you feel.
I am aware that there are some people on this board who hold views not wholly compatible with the rest of us, so please remember to be kind, patient, and thoughtful in your responses.

Source Links
Guardian: https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/sep/02/women-stop-linking-asylum-seekers-sexual-abuse
Independent: https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/womens-safety-far-right-vawg-government-b2811674.html

@ThisChicPinkRaven

Background: I question anything The Guardian says because of its pro-trans stance (like the BBC).

I used to be an old-school Tory. I ceased to be a Tory after Brexit and when the moderates got sacked by the cunt Boris. Farage can go fuck himself, also, obviously.

I'm not impressed with Starmer/Labour. I don't like any of them, really.

Greens are captured by trans

My local council is Labour and is awful, useless, and corrupt.

So - immigrants and what do I think?

Well, I know that some stats say immigrants benefit the economy. I can see that could be true, especially when the birthrate is decreasing.

In truth, I don't want lots of uneducated (not doctors etc) male immigrants who come with a culture of misogyny.