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Gettingbysomehow · 27/08/2025 23:57

sportio · 27/08/2025 22:07

I saw that the shooter is a trans identified male on reddit. Already on reddit they are focusing there on how this will reflect badly on poor transwomen and not a whiff of sympathy for the children murdered and injured by this man.

Yes exactly this. Typical self obsessed males.

NotNatacha · 28/08/2025 00:04

Before I came to this thread I'd noticed that on the BBC's online coverage where they have posts over time it refers to 'him/he' in the earlier reports and 'they' in the later ones.

I'm more concerned about the children who were interviewed, shown on the BBC both on the 10pm news and online, especially the boy who speaks about hiding under a pew: he says his friend then lies on top of him to protect him and is shot.

The BBC TV footage also showed children being walked home by their families but their online footage doesn't show their faces.

Is the rule that they can be shown if their parents have agreed?

Enough4me · 28/08/2025 00:10

Just waiting for more photos of him in tiny skirts and this to be twisted as a story that he wasn't validated enough in his lie. After all he has a golden ticket to wave about.
It's the children and families who really should be the priority here.

ForestAtTheSea · 28/08/2025 00:29

@kiki777
usually the participants at FWS board are smart enough to not throw every prejudice together and stir.
I agree with you partially in that the connection between men and school shooters is often a sense of entitlement and feeling misunderstood (and probably not revered enough), but so is the connection between men and a subgroup of TW (entitlement: mansplaining femaleness to them, being "a better woman" than a woman...).

The fact that the trans-state is discussed is probably mostly as a reaction to the "we just want to live our lives" statements that are posted all the time, as this is the complete opposite: aggression and drama.

The other reason why it's discussed was mentioned by me and others, too: there could be psychological problems lurking behind body dysmorphia and feelings of the "wrong body", which could be part of the real reason. It is important that this is at least investigated and not swept under the carpet. There were several trans mass shooters in recent years and it is relevant for prevention to find out where the connections are.

The easiest way to disconnect the shooters from their trans status is to search and find an underlying (psychological / psychriatic reason that so far has been overlooked, not to close your eyes. I rather think so far we often only see the surface as it's so discouraged to look further.

ForestAtTheSea · 28/08/2025 00:30

FWR board, not FWS...

VoulezVouz · 28/08/2025 01:40

Firealarm1414 · 27/08/2025 23:08

The extreme end of trans activism, which this person perfectly represents, is out of control in America. This isn't the first trans crime spree in the name of their ideology and it certainly won't be the last. Like the Nashville shooter, young school children were the target. Evil.

The people on reddit would be better off getting to grips with the fact that they have allowed a large amount of mentally ill extremists to be their representatives in the public discourse, and do something about that, rather than whine about how they are the real victims of this horrific crime.

Edited

So out of all the mass shootings in the US in, say, the last 5 years, what percentage of the perpetrators were trans and what percentage white male? (Commonly Republican voters.)

You’ve taken propaganda bait.

VoulezVouz · 28/08/2025 01:47

kiki777 · 27/08/2025 23:57

I have strong criticisms of trans-identifying men, and I often find myself at odds with their presence in certain spaces. Yet, I also find the extreme reactions from some gender critical feminists of which I consider myself one to be overly performative and, at times, misdirected.

What stands out to me in the recent case of this shooter is not only his gender but also his race. It’s noteworthy how often discussions about male violence, especially in mass shootings, overlook the recurring factor of whiteness. Mainstream feminist discourse often fails to account for this. There’s a recurring pattern where the struggles of Black women are co-opted by white feminists to advance a broader agenda that doesn’t always benefit Black women themselves. Similarly, I’ve observed how white trans-identifying individuals often benefit disproportionately from the visibility and struggles of Black trans people, while the latter remain marginalized.

That said, I don’t believe this individual’s trans identity is inherently connected to the act of violence he committed. Historically, the majority of mass and school shooters in the U.S. have been cisgender, straight, white men. Framing this tragedy as a specifically “trans issue” feels disingenuous and ultimately distracts from more meaningful patterns. If we’re going to talk about gendered violence, focusing on maleness and whiteness as consistent factors is far more accurate than targeting the trans community as a whole.

I agree with this. This tragedy was committed by a psychologically-damaged white male. Conservative commentators are jumping on the ‘trans’ element for their own ends, and that is shameful.

LoudSnoringDog · 28/08/2025 02:04

Dominoodles · 27/08/2025 23:44

Reddit is literally complaining that the killer has been misgendered and that his 'dead name' has been dragged up in the media. They're also sick with worry about how this will affect them.

Not the dead or their families. Not the wounded. Not the children who will be traumatised for the rest of their lives. Themselves.

My god it's infuriating.

Edited

I’m not on Reddit- is anyone challenging them on this?

ManyShapesOfPasta · 28/08/2025 02:20

Minnesota think trans is great, they're a safe state for them.
Tampon Tim got that name because he wanted to put them in men's toilets, then he could get men in women's toilets and it's all equal and fair and rainbows.

Firealarm1414 · 28/08/2025 03:08

LoudSnoringDog · 28/08/2025 02:04

I’m not on Reddit- is anyone challenging them on this?

It's reddit. No challenging allowed on any sub really. Anyone who goes against the group think is banned and deleted pretty fast

ThatBlackCat · 28/08/2025 03:20

What a surprise....not.

LoudSnoringDog · 28/08/2025 03:28

Firealarm1414 · 28/08/2025 03:08

It's reddit. No challenging allowed on any sub really. Anyone who goes against the group think is banned and deleted pretty fast

Sounds shit.

I’ll continue to give it a wide berth

GripGetter · 28/08/2025 03:43

BiologicalRobot · 27/08/2025 22:19

Thanks for the Times share token.

WTF does this mean?

a 23-year-old with “no significant criminal history”

He might have misdemeanors on his record.

NotBadConsidering · 28/08/2025 03:45

”Targeting the trans community”? Ridiculous. How about pointing out that rather than the trans community being “the most oppressed” group in society, they are in fact a group dominated by angry, personality-disordered aggressive men who have been deliberate in announcing their intentions to get what they want through increasingly violent means?

Trans activists have made it abundantly clear they feel like they’re losing the cause, and are actively encouraging each other to escalate their actions, and when one of them does that in the most heinous way possible, we’re supposed to “not target the trans community” like the Mayor of Minneapolis wants us to do? The trans community can’t even acknowledge the problem of violence within its own ranks. Violent signs, gestures, threats, acts of male violence, all ignored, dismissed or minimised.

Here’s a thought, Mayor: why don’t you send a message to the trans community to sort itself out and stop pushing the idea of violence to get what you want?

EsmaCannonball · 28/08/2025 03:57

VoulezVouz · 28/08/2025 01:47

I agree with this. This tragedy was committed by a psychologically-damaged white male. Conservative commentators are jumping on the ‘trans’ element for their own ends, and that is shameful.

So you agree he was a man exhibiting male pattern violence then? Turns out Trans Women Aren't Women when they commit a hate crime that makes trans people look bad. You can bet the media would be respecting his pronouns if he wanted his place on a women's volleyball team or if he was just a regular old rapist wanting to be put in a women's prison.

Firealarm1414 · 28/08/2025 05:03

EsmaCannonball · 28/08/2025 03:57

So you agree he was a man exhibiting male pattern violence then? Turns out Trans Women Aren't Women when they commit a hate crime that makes trans people look bad. You can bet the media would be respecting his pronouns if he wanted his place on a women's volleyball team or if he was just a regular old rapist wanting to be put in a women's prison.

Im the in US , I havent seen any news reports referring to this person as 'she' , which was surprising, but they also didn't mention that he identified as a woman. That part is being glossed over as if its irrelevant

Filigreebetts798 · 28/08/2025 06:26

Those poor children and their parents.

The world has gone mad. The killer was unable to respect the lives and safety of children and yet we are expected to respect his pronouns?

Sorry but as the perpetrator of this utterly vile attack, he has lost any rights around how he is remembered.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 28/08/2025 06:30

DramaQueenlady · 27/08/2025 21:47

It doesn't matter that he was trans. Its awful and the religion, colour or gender doesn't matter. So very sad and tragic ❤️. Usually the gun culture gets the blame!

Edited

It does matter as another heinous crime is being attributed to the wrong sex and as a women I am offended by that ( it also wildly fucks up stats and data going forward).

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 28/08/2025 06:32

VoulezVouz · 28/08/2025 01:47

I agree with this. This tragedy was committed by a psychologically-damaged white male. Conservative commentators are jumping on the ‘trans’ element for their own ends, and that is shameful.

Oh it’s been committed by a ‘white’ male. Interesting. We are using that determiner are we. Wow.

VoulezVouz · 28/08/2025 07:30

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 28/08/2025 06:32

Oh it’s been committed by a ‘white’ male. Interesting. We are using that determiner are we. Wow.

Edited

I’m sorry - what’s your point? This happened in the US. Like it or not, this is used in demographic statistics.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/08/2025 07:36

kiki777 · 27/08/2025 23:57

I have strong criticisms of trans-identifying men, and I often find myself at odds with their presence in certain spaces. Yet, I also find the extreme reactions from some gender critical feminists of which I consider myself one to be overly performative and, at times, misdirected.

What stands out to me in the recent case of this shooter is not only his gender but also his race. It’s noteworthy how often discussions about male violence, especially in mass shootings, overlook the recurring factor of whiteness. Mainstream feminist discourse often fails to account for this. There’s a recurring pattern where the struggles of Black women are co-opted by white feminists to advance a broader agenda that doesn’t always benefit Black women themselves. Similarly, I’ve observed how white trans-identifying individuals often benefit disproportionately from the visibility and struggles of Black trans people, while the latter remain marginalized.

That said, I don’t believe this individual’s trans identity is inherently connected to the act of violence he committed. Historically, the majority of mass and school shooters in the U.S. have been cisgender, straight, white men. Framing this tragedy as a specifically “trans issue” feels disingenuous and ultimately distracts from more meaningful patterns. If we’re going to talk about gendered violence, focusing on maleness and whiteness as consistent factors is far more accurate than targeting the trans community as a whole.

An interesting and chilling detail of school and mass shootings in the US is that of the tiny number committed by (actual) women, a significant proportion of those identified as “trans”. There is a problem here. Violent ideation is common in this community, you only have to look at the types of luridly violent threats many TRAs make online to women. If “incel” type young men are a concern (which obviously they are) so is this group. Many male trans people would essentially fall into that group anyway as motivated by misogyny.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/08/2025 07:37

EsmaCannonball · 28/08/2025 03:57

So you agree he was a man exhibiting male pattern violence then? Turns out Trans Women Aren't Women when they commit a hate crime that makes trans people look bad. You can bet the media would be respecting his pronouns if he wanted his place on a women's volleyball team or if he was just a regular old rapist wanting to be put in a women's prison.

Well said.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 28/08/2025 07:39

VoulezVouz · 28/08/2025 07:30

I’m sorry - what’s your point? This happened in the US. Like it or not, this is used in demographic statistics.

It’s the hypocrisy of it that’s galling. When a point is being made that ‘trans’ should not be the identifier to then pick race instead - as long as it’s white, is laughable.

BiologicalRobot · 28/08/2025 07:55

GripGetter · 28/08/2025 03:43

He might have misdemeanors on his record.

I understand that but there must be a hell of a lot of misdemeanours for them to mention it. Normally they don't mention criminal history at all until a lot later when they dive into backgrounds and talk to friends, relatives etc. Very strange to bring it up right now.

soupycustard · 28/08/2025 08:07

Why are some posters talking about 'trans' school shooters and 'white male' school shooters as if they are different species?
Most school shooters have been 'white males' as far as I recall from pictures in the news and some of those white males have been trans-identified. They're the same people. Male, a subsection of which is trans-identified.

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