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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Why don't trans women care if women feel unsafe?

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ItsCoolForCats · 11/05/2025 19:49

I listened to the Stephen Nolan show earlier on BBC Sounds. They were discussing the FA ban on male players in the female category. A lady from SEEN in Sport was on and was great.

Then there were two transwomen on (one who is involved with Mermaids). There was lots of talk about their feelings and some quite infuriating twisting of scientific fact (women come in all shapes and sizes, so transwomen have no advantage). But one thing that came up several times was how they didn't feel safe using male facilities. Stephen Nolan did the faux naive thing quite effectively and tried to turn it around to get them to consider other people's viewpoints, unsuccessfully. It was back to their feelings again. The levels of entitlement was quite astonishing.

Why don't they ever consider women who feel unsafe sharing spaces with males? Is it because these women are just bigots that need to be re-educated and reframe their trauma?

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BaseDrops · 12/05/2025 20:16

MAFSsaddict · 12/05/2025 19:17

They are not males, they are transgender women. How many reports do you have of transgender women attacking women in restrooms? Most are gender neutral now anyway!

Try harder. Wrong continent. Different laws. Different toilets. Typical response of no answer to the question followed by a demand to produce evidence of why men should not be in women’s spaces.

Do your own research, it won’t take long to find the answer. All transgender women are male. Every single one. Or they wouldn’t be TRANS.

illinivich · 12/05/2025 20:19

If most toilets are gender neutral, the scenarios on r/transgenderUK are bemusing. Lots of chit chat about being welcomed and refused entry into single sex toilets.

Helleofabore · 12/05/2025 20:49

MAFSsaddict · 12/05/2025 19:17

They are not males, they are transgender women. How many reports do you have of transgender women attacking women in restrooms? Most are gender neutral now anyway!

Excellent, maybe you can answer this question that no one seems to be able to answer?

What is the difference between a male person who has had their penis and testicles removed because of injury and disease and one who has had extreme body modification to fit their own personal philosophical belief about themselves?

Why is one to be accepted into female single sex spaces and the other not?

And here is another question:

What makes a 'transgender woman' not a male person?

Because you seem to be spreading misinformation with that statement. So, please clarify exactly how they are not a male person.

Helleofabore · 12/05/2025 20:54

MAFSsaddict · 12/05/2025 19:17

They are not males, they are transgender women. How many reports do you have of transgender women attacking women in restrooms? Most are gender neutral now anyway!

Here is another question:

How many female people being harmed in any way in a female single sex space is acceptable to you before you, personally, would support female single sex spaces remaining single sex? 1? Well, that has already well and truly past. 5? That too. 50? 100? We had someone answer 100 female people per year are acceptable to be come to harm before female single sex spaces should exclude all male people, of any gender identity, again. What do you think?

Mine is zero by the way. That is my number. Even one additional female person harmed by allowing male people over the age of about 8 years old access to any female single sex space is too many.

SidewaysOtter · 12/05/2025 21:48

Shortshriftandlethal · 12/05/2025 14:55

Do you know, I think most people,have not thought it all through at all. They have just accepted what they have been told.

Most people are social creatures, who like to belong and to feel part of a group. Having friends and being liked is more important to them than almost any other need. Furthermore, most people are not naturally political creatures and so don't understand the political implications of things. They don't have that instinct. They vote with their feelings. The trans lobby is all about feelings, and is is quite happy to manipulate them too.

Edited

A podcast I was listening to recently described people as "fleeing back to the comfort of obedience".

I think that rather suits the situation here too.

Milmoe · 12/05/2025 22:09

@MAFSsaddict It doesn't matter if not every trans identified male is planning to harm women, they are all for the most part immediately identifiable as men regardless as how they present and for more women than I care to admit that would be traumatising and would drive them out of their own spaces.

Its an insult to women to think that if men "read as femme" they should be taken as women or its bigotry. A man in a dress, in a wig, in make up, in heels, a man who has had surgery and cross sex hormones is still a man. Allowing delusional men into women's spaces degrades women's privacy, dignity and rights. It isn't our problem they trans themselves, we don't exist to protect these men from other men or to validate them.

Women don't require single sex spaces because of some cultural notion of "womanhood" we don't need them due to the fact we may be pretty or have long hair or wear a skirt or tights. We need them because as biological females we have certain vulnerabilities and capabilities that trans identified males do not share in at all, nor do they have any concept of them.

Transwomen as men need to start using their own male spaces and leave real women in peace. They should expand what it means to be male and find self acceptance as the men they are and will always be instead of constantly invading where they are not wanted and trying to be what they can never be. If they refuse to accept this and insist on ignoring women's demand and they law then they are clearly not decent people and they are displaying predatory behaviour.

TisILeClair · 12/05/2025 22:15

Transwomen don’t care if women feel safe because transwomen are not women - and deep down they know it.

Helleofabore · 12/05/2025 22:15

Helleofabore · 11/05/2025 22:03

Since we are in the mood to swap data, I will start.

For anyone who wants to know what should be considered for evaluating risk of this sub group of males to show that they have a risk level not less than any other male in the UK of committing sex crime, have a read through the statistics for males who have transgender identities who commit sex crimes in the UK
Firstly, This was a question answered earlier this year:

https://questions-statements.parliament.uk/written-questions/detail/2024-12-16/20298.

Question from Rebecca Paul (MP Reigate): To ask the Secretary of State for Justice, with reference to the HMPPS Offender Equalities Annual Report 2023-2024, published on 28 November 2024, how many of the 50 transgender prisoners who reported their legal gender as female were convicted of a sexual offence.

Answer from Sir Richard Dakin (MP Scunthorpe): 23 December 2024
Of the 245 transgender prisoners who reported their legal gender as male (i.e. those who now identify as women, non-binary or gender-fluid) on 31 March 2024, 151 were convicted of a sexual offence. This includes both contact and non-contact sexual offences. Offence data was not available for 1 individual.

Of the 50 transgender prisoners who reported their legal gender as female on 31 March 2024, the number convicted of a sexual offence is five or fewer. We do not provide exact data for such small sample sizes as it risks identification of individuals. This approach is in line with our standards on data disclosure.

To put this into perspective with what we already knew from FOI information

Here is data from the MoJ

Here is an FOI request from 30 April 2024

https://www.whatdotheyknow.com/request/populationoftransgenderoffend/response/2641337/attach/html/7/FOI%20240322022%20Annex%20A.xlsx.html

Up to the 31st March 2023, the MoJ stated that of the 88 male transgender prisoners with one or more sexual offences.

The breakdown was

48 rapes,
0 attempted rapes,
10 Sexual assault or attempted sexual assault,
13 causing or inciting a child under 16 to engage in sexual activity,
0 indecent assault or gross indecency
6 sexual activity with a child under 16
0 other

77 listed here.... BUT there is a total of 88 in the total so there is 11 crimes not noted.

Possessing or making indecent photographs or pseudo photographs of child has not been recorded in this FOI.

However, there is are further discrepancies in the data of the following when you look at TOTAL NUMBER OF TRANSGENDER PRISONERS SENTENCED FOR A PRINCIPAL SEXUAL OFFENCE.

1 causing or inciting a child under 16 to engage in sexual activity
3 rapes
2 sexual activity with a child under 16
3 Sexual assault or attempted sexual assault,

This equals 9 additional... however the sum for TOTAL NUMBER OF TRANSGENDER PRISONERS SENTENCED FOR A PRINCIPAL SEXUAL OFFENCE is 99.

Therefore 2 more sex crimes have been hidden from this data.

There were 203 males who were declared as transgender in the prison at the time.

There were 24 NB who were not segregated into male and female. What is key here, is that THIS IS NON-GRC HOLDERS. And we all know that males holding GRCs have increased and they are excluded from this data. NO female people with transgender identities were sentenced to a principal sexual offence. There were 41 female people with transgender identities in UK prisons at that time.

As a comparison, I have stats that say as of April 2019 that the general male MoJ data for male sex offenders was just 16.8% of the male prison population.
And there were 3.3% of female people in UK prisons were sex offenders.

I will leave you to do your own sums. But... even using the figure of 88/203 is 43.3%. (And that doesn't include making or possessing indecent photographs of a child remember.)

By the way this exercise was done in 2021. And I checked this data myself from the data source and it was correct at the time. So, it will give some back ground to the above.

The ones that say that in the March/April 2021 data collection period, the MoJ stated that of the 97 transgender prisoners with one or more sexual offences.

The breakdown was
40 rapes,
8 attempted rapes,
31 possessing or making indecent photographs or pseudo photographs of child,
32 Sexual assault or attempted sexual assault,
20 causing or inciting a child under 16 to engage in sexual activity,
10 indecent assault or gross indecency
9 sexual activity with a child under 16
27 other

The 97 sex offender transgender prisons collected 177 sentences between them.

And that according to that FOI 197 prisoners are transgender.
This is why NO SUB GROUP OF MALE PEOPLE SHOULD BE EXEMPT FROM RISK ASSESSMENT. This group of male people still retain the same male pattern of committing sex and violent crime, at ANY STAGE OF TRANSITION.

But I am looking forward to seeing the data that shows us all exactly why a male at any stage of transition should be treated as if they are exempt from being included in safeguarding risk assessment for their sex, that should be the basis for policy decisions about who should access what spaces.

Just reposting this in case people want to understand that male people at any stage of transition do not lose their male pattern of committing crime.

Just In case anyone is interested in facts rather than emotionally manipulative denial.

RedToothBrush · 12/05/2025 22:51

MAFSsaddict · 12/05/2025 19:17

They are not males, they are transgender women. How many reports do you have of transgender women attacking women in restrooms? Most are gender neutral now anyway!

It's funny just how many of the scolders have the same tell.

The response is still bog off.

Oh wait. Do you know what a bog is?

RedToothBrush · 12/05/2025 23:15

Maybe we should have a separate thread for toilet jokes so we can trot them all out every time we get one of these?

FlakyCritic · 13/05/2025 01:21

Nsky62 · 12/05/2025 08:59

She wishes to identify as female, I’m sure lots do already, without being noticed, or at least turn a blind eye, that’s kindness, and empathy.
i’m sure no one goes through this process without really needing to

Irrelevant what he selfishly 'wishes', it's not all about him - he is a male. It is not kindness or empathy to actual females to have a MALE in our spaces. It's selfish, narcissistic, Male Entitlement and cruel.

And the vast overwhelming majority go through no process at all. Only around 8% of transwomen even have any surgery. It is, for all intents and purposes, a male with penis and testicles in a dress. It's self ID. And we say no to any male being in our spaces.

FlakyCritic · 13/05/2025 01:26

Nsky62 · 12/05/2025 09:16

she chooses to have hormones and may have surgery, she’s in Europe, young too her body, her choice.
Much happier now, I’m very happy for her, why wouldn’t I be?

It's not all about him and your 'happiness'. It's about females happiness, OUR safety, OUR privacy, OUR dignity.

FlakyCritic · 13/05/2025 01:36

pippy1958 · 12/05/2025 13:06

I’m a woman, with a grown up daughter, living in London, and I have never heard anyone being made to feel afraid in a women’s toilet by a trans woman. It seems much more likely for a transwoman to feel uncomfortable and in fear using a men’s bathroom?

Do you even know what a transwoman is? It's a male. A male with penis and testicles. In a dress. Of course women are afraid of males in our spaces. Whether they be in a dress, or in a suit and tie. There are transwomen in jail right now for raping women in these spaces.

And no, a fully intact male in a dress is NOT more likely to feel afraid of other males, than women are likely to feel afraid of that fully intact male.

FlakyCritic · 13/05/2025 01:50

Nsky62 · 12/05/2025 14:32

They may feel a need, quite honestly very annoyed by all the negative comments.
Fully aware lots of men abuse, a disabled/ trans toilet would be a compromise.

trans toilet would be a compromise.

It would be. We've advocated for this for YEARS!! They say no. They say it 'others' them. They say it's female toilets or nothing. So it's a stalemate. So what do we do? A trans toilet they say 'outs' them. And it doesn't validate them as women. It's the women in that female only facility that validate their identity. If there is no women there, what's the point? They want women around them. It's the women in the female facility, not the facility itself.

Don't you think we haven't tried advocating for third/trans spaces??? They say no compromise, and no debate. This is on them. Not on us.

FlakyCritic · 13/05/2025 02:03

MAFSsaddict · 12/05/2025 19:17

They are not males, they are transgender women. How many reports do you have of transgender women attacking women in restrooms? Most are gender neutral now anyway!

Several. Several reports. Many are in jail for rape or assault.

HOW MANY attacks do you need, to validate females having our human rights to spaces?

And sorry, but they remain male. Their biological sex is male. They have male DNA and male chromosomes. A de-nutted male dog is still a male dog. I can't believe you are this biologically illiterate @MAFSsaddict , that you actually think a person born male can change their DNA and chromosomes.

Why don't trans women care if women feel unsafe?
BigHeadBertha · 13/05/2025 02:06

Why does it makes some fools feel so smug and superior to have a tiny, vulnerable population to demonize and pick on?

Fraaances · 13/05/2025 02:07

What about the rapists who begin publically identifying as female to “justify” their behaviour and have a safer life in a female prison with free access to vulnerable prey? The women in there have no safe spaces.

FlakyCritic · 13/05/2025 02:09

BigHeadBertha · 13/05/2025 02:06

Why does it makes some fools feel so smug and superior to have a tiny, vulnerable population to demonize and pick on?

Why do you feel MALES are a 'tiny vulnerable population'? They are the foxes, the oppressor sex class. The danger. That doesn't change if that fox is in a dress or in a suit and tie. And that it's nice to be so smug and superior to have vulnerable women and girls, the oppressed sex class, put in danger?

Why don't trans women care if women feel unsafe?
FlakyCritic · 13/05/2025 02:12

@BigHeadBertha

Why don't trans women care if women feel unsafe?
FlakyCritic · 13/05/2025 02:14

@BigHeadBertha , @MAFSsaddict

Why don't trans women care if women feel unsafe?
FlakyCritic · 13/05/2025 02:18

@BigHeadBertha , @MAFSsaddict

Why don't trans women care if women feel unsafe?
akkakk · 13/05/2025 06:05

FlakyCritic · 13/05/2025 02:12

@BigHeadBertha

And let’s be clear - there is no evidence that the fox is being picked on by other foxes.

There is plenty of evidence that foxes destroy chickens

This ‘excluded’ fox is looking for excuses to be put in with the chickens for his own nefarious purposes - not as the only safe place away from other foxes… being with other foxes is not and has never been an issue…

mrshoho · 13/05/2025 06:54

BigHeadBertha · 13/05/2025 02:06

Why does it makes some fools feel so smug and superior to have a tiny, vulnerable population to demonize and pick on?

That statement may have worked 20 years ago but not now. Trans ideology has exposed to the world how misogynistic and harmful this movement is towards women and girls. We fight to protect women and children's rights.

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 13/05/2025 06:57

BigHeadBertha · 13/05/2025 02:06

Why does it makes some fools feel so smug and superior to have a tiny, vulnerable population to demonize and pick on?

And you’re fine and dandy with men in women’s prisons, are you??

RobinEllacotStrike · 13/05/2025 07:09

It always come back to language and the c*lt mantra “trans women are women”

We must reject this idea entirely & robustly - of course transwomen are men!

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