I know I know I KNOW that we ALL know and see Dr Upton’s level of entitlement. But I still can’t get over what he (says he’s) like with patients. According to his OWN EVIDENCE, if a female patient comes in and asks for a female doctor, then he would still go and see that patient.
His concession was that IF she then objected, he’d get someone else to see her.
I mean, WTF?!?!
If a woman for whatever reason said that she was scared of someone with a Geordie accent for example, and I was the only woman with a Geordie accent in the department at the time, I wouldn’t insist on seeing her. I mean, yes, she might not notice that I’m Geordie, especially if she’s confused/scared/hard of hearing. And if she did notice she could ask me to leave.
But I WOULDN’T CONSIDER SEEING HER if there was any alternative. Because because I realise women may have any fears for any reason, because I don’t want them to feel they have to disclose past trauma, because I don’t want to control or dominate women, because I don’t need validation, because I care about not causing distress to others, because I’m (mostly!!) not going about thinking ME ME ME ME ME ME ME!
Yet Dr Upton says that he has empathy. I wonder how he demonstrates it, particularly to women.
Sorry for the rant, but FFS!!