I just want to lob something else in here. I had a light bulb moment regarding DU and his behaviours his grandstanding, lying and controlling behaviours.
I recognised these because i have worked with and been trained about personality disorders.
I reckon he has a borderline personality disorder.
I checked this out on research.
There is a lot of papers suggesting that up to 80% of “transexuals” in treatment have this condition.
Naz Hakeem concurs.
It seems that his bosses were so keen to support his trans identity they have not noticed, or it masked the real problem.
This cohort are very difficult to work with, over or under react, lie, and believe lies and most of all
CAUSE CHAOS WHEREVER THEY GO.