My parents were incredibly sexist when I was a child. And as I've said before I think that this contributed to issues with my brother. They said things like they needed to do more things with a strong male role model around.
I don't think anyone can deny that Musk is like this.
My parents ended up supporting and trashing me in the process of doing that. Because despite their prejudices they loved my brother.
I can see genuine hurt on the part of Musk. He's lashing out in a way that only comes from pain. It's directed at those who harmed his son as well as his son. But it's a reaction that still shows he deeply cares about his son in some way.
Yes it's laced with narcissism. But it's still someone who cares.
I suspect that Musk is involved with his younger kids and does make effort with them. Precisely because of what has gone before. Musk is unlikely to take full responsibility just like other parents who have transitioned their kids. But he has acknowledged it was wrong which is something more than many.
It's clearly a dysfunctional relationship. And transition is linked directly to dysfunctional family dynamics as a form of trauma.
I would be more surprised if Musk had been fully involved.
My point is, that I think Musk does care and probably is a better father to the younger kids and is trying to learn from his mistakes.
The fact both men have been betrayed by gender idealogs shouldn't be lost in this blame game. I suspect that there would be a rift in the family regardless but gender has exploited this crack in the relationship and feed upon it like a parasite.
We know that cults target vulnerable people who do not feel they fit in and are struggling.
You can argue all day about Musk as a man, but this point still holds up all day long, and we should be safeguarding kids from dysfunctional families of all kinds from this ideology. It doesn't matter that Musk is a megalomaniac - society still should have protected his son from exploitation in this way.
The fact that people are happy to over look this, whilst simultaneously doing a character assassination of Musk and how they would disown him as a parent for homophobia without comment on the homophobic and sexist nature this ideology pushes and entrenches gets me.
Musk's son, has decided to embrace those values. The ones he criticises his father for. He's framing them in a different way, but he supports affirmation only and he lives life in a way that is entirely based on sexism. He is supportive of the authoritarianism of the movement.
He is the mirror of his father. And they are probably far more alike than either will admit. And that's almost certainly part of the problem.
It's funny how theres not the same calls to go none contact with family members who actively participate in the erasure of lesbians. The double standards need to be highlighted.
The Trojan horsing of gay rights by trans activists and using homophobia as a shield whilst participating in homophobia isn't cool. Or inclusive. Or healthy.