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KJK Live streams being sacked from her GPs surgery - trans staff member

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HootyMcBooby · 19/07/2024 17:15

Forward to 19.15 for the actual phone call.

KJK confrontation with trans staff member at her GPs surgery.

This ideology has no place in the NHS.
As someone whose Mother, aged 72, had a stroke and waited in an NHS corridor on a trolley for 16 hours only to be asked as the doctors FIRST question....... "how do you identify?", I feel the NHS is captured beyond hope,

I've had to leave my GP surgery due to an activist working there. #LWS #LetWomenSpeak #LWSLocals

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SummerScarf · 22/07/2024 08:47

I also find it slightly amusing that on this thread those of us who are gender critical but do not support KJK’s American far-right tactics of trying to bully trans people out of their jobs, homes and families, are being accused of being woolly or indeed not gender critical at all.

Those who support her, on the other hand, have argued that she is showing “masculine energy” or behaving like a “mama bear”. Both of which are massive gender stereotypes of the kind that the gender critical perspective disavows. Shows what this is really about - the perpetuation of gender roles beloved of the highly conservative right from where KJK gets her ideology as well as her tactics.

It’s often said that KJK doesn’t claim to be a feminist; I suggest that those who support her differentiate themselves from actual gender critical feminists, who do not believe in gender stereotypes.

HPFA · 22/07/2024 08:49

This whole "worrying about medical data" is a complete red herring.

Quite apart from the offensiveness of suggesting that a trans person would be more likely to do this than anyone else, presumably if you're a well-known person the outside chance that anyone could do this is there anyway.

If anything, I'd imagine the badge wearer was less likely to do this than the others, as they might worry they'd be the first to be suspected.

Alwaystired94 · 22/07/2024 08:52

Myalternate · 22/07/2024 08:33

😆
I’ve not accused anyone. I’ve suggested KJK might not choose to use that particular surgery for perfectly legitimate reasons.

Perhaps you need to get over your very obvious TRA’s can do no wrong attitude.

i don’t have that attitude - you are stating that the receptionist is a TRA because they are trans… she has no legitimate reasons.

Alwaystired94 · 22/07/2024 08:55

SummerScarf · 22/07/2024 08:47

I also find it slightly amusing that on this thread those of us who are gender critical but do not support KJK’s American far-right tactics of trying to bully trans people out of their jobs, homes and families, are being accused of being woolly or indeed not gender critical at all.

Those who support her, on the other hand, have argued that she is showing “masculine energy” or behaving like a “mama bear”. Both of which are massive gender stereotypes of the kind that the gender critical perspective disavows. Shows what this is really about - the perpetuation of gender roles beloved of the highly conservative right from where KJK gets her ideology as well as her tactics.

It’s often said that KJK doesn’t claim to be a feminist; I suggest that those who support her differentiate themselves from actual gender critical feminists, who do not believe in gender stereotypes.

this.

i think more people need to remember that GC does not mean feminist, as is the case with KJK. maybe leave discussions about women’s issues out if you’re going to repeat gender stereotypes? cos feminism isn’t about crap like ‘mama bear’ (actually shuddered)

and the idea that you’re not GC enough because you don’t want to harass and hound trans people out of their jobs just for existing.

illinivich · 22/07/2024 08:58

RichardMarxisinnocent · 22/07/2024 08:43

Point taken, though I was specifically talking about the reasoning behind rainbow badges, not pronoun ones. They very much cover LG and B as well as T, so don't necessarily indicate a person's views on gender identity.

But when the NHS expect nurses to use the same changing rooms as men with gender identity, how confident can i be?

Alltheprettyseahorses · 22/07/2024 09:11

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 07:59

if its just something a staff member is allowed to wear, would it be transphobic not to refer to them with their preferred pronouns?
No it wouldn't be transphobic, just rude.

If so, is that fair to the patients attending the surgery. Should patients have to remember that the women on reception dosent want to be referred to as 'she'?
They don't "have to remember" anything. That's why the receptionist is wearing the badge.

Has the surgery looked at the impact of using preferred pronouns on patients? What specific "impact" are you referring to? Should the surgery also look at the impact of having posters about cancer up in the waiting room on cancer survivors? What about the impact of their receptionist wearing a hijab on atheists?

If not, why wear the badge at all - wouldnt it just add unnecessary confusion? So patients who are happy to respect pronouns don't have to be reminded all the time what they are. So this staff member does not need to repeatedly "come out" as a trans man to patients, which would be stressful and exhausting

The badge is either significant or it isn't. If it isnt significant for the employee, why wear it at work knowing it is confusing to many who are just there to be treated, if it is significant isn't that forcing gender ideology onto the public?
It clearly is significant to the employee, or they wouldn't bother.
It is not "forcing gender ideology onto the public". It is making a request of the patients at that GP surgery. People are free to change doctors if they find it that offensive. There is no need for abuse or hostility to the receptionist though in any circumstances.

The receptionist isn't there to request validation from GP patients. The receptionist is there to book appointments, send prescriptions etc not to exploit sick people as validation tools. They don't need to come out as a transman at all in this situation, nobody needs to know about their personal life.

SummerScarf · 22/07/2024 09:14

Alwaystired94 · 22/07/2024 08:55

this.

i think more people need to remember that GC does not mean feminist, as is the case with KJK. maybe leave discussions about women’s issues out if you’re going to repeat gender stereotypes? cos feminism isn’t about crap like ‘mama bear’ (actually shuddered)

and the idea that you’re not GC enough because you don’t want to harass and hound trans people out of their jobs just for existing.

I agree to a point, but I’d go further. What’s “gender critical” about reinforcing gender stereotypes (like “masculine energy” or “mama bear”)? I’d argue that KJK and her followers are not only not feminists, they’re not gender critical either.

illinivich · 22/07/2024 09:27

'GC' doesnt mean anything if the person using it can't imagine scenarios where people would be confused, intimated, and humiliated by nhs staff expecting them to use wrong pronouns.

I dont want to book an intimate exam with a woman HCP, and have to explain this to a man who is wearing a she/her badge. Its worse for vulnerable women.

Alwaystired94 · 22/07/2024 09:49

SummerScarf · 22/07/2024 09:14

I agree to a point, but I’d go further. What’s “gender critical” about reinforcing gender stereotypes (like “masculine energy” or “mama bear”)? I’d argue that KJK and her followers are not only not feminists, they’re not gender critical either.

agreed with that point also. if womanhood is just stereotypes how is that different to trans people ‘cosplaying women using stereotypes!’

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 09:50

illinivich · 22/07/2024 08:26

What specific "impact" are you referring to? Should the surgery also look at the impact of having posters about cancer up in the waiting room on cancer survivors? What about the impact of their receptionist wearing a hijab on atheists?

I specifically said you didnt need to answer the question, given you do not understand the needs of patients who may be using the surgery.

The surgery have a duty to prioritise patients, and i would hope that they would not be like you and label elderly, those with special needs, vision problems, and more, as 'rude'.

😂
"Only people who agree with me should answer this question, the rest of you shut up and go away"

MessinaBloom · 22/07/2024 09:53

@Alltheprettyseahorses

The receptionist isn't there to request validation from GP patients. The receptionist is there to book appointments, send prescriptions etc not to exploit sick people as validation tools. They don't need to come out as a transman at all in this situation, nobody needs to know about their personal life.

As a transman still presenting with some female attributes, perhaps the receptionist feels they are helping people solidify their identification of him.

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 09:55

illinivich · 22/07/2024 08:32

It works the other way, too.

When i request a female nurse or doctor, i would feel i could be mocked if the staff are wearing pronoun badges.

Why on earth would someone mock you for that? Patients are entitled to ask for a same sex doctor, the staff hear that all day every day. A member of staff "mocking you" would be at risk of disciplinary for being unprofessional. Very much a false equivalence there and reminds me very much of a "women do it too" type thing that men say on here.

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 09:56

SummerScarf · 22/07/2024 08:47

I also find it slightly amusing that on this thread those of us who are gender critical but do not support KJK’s American far-right tactics of trying to bully trans people out of their jobs, homes and families, are being accused of being woolly or indeed not gender critical at all.

Those who support her, on the other hand, have argued that she is showing “masculine energy” or behaving like a “mama bear”. Both of which are massive gender stereotypes of the kind that the gender critical perspective disavows. Shows what this is really about - the perpetuation of gender roles beloved of the highly conservative right from where KJK gets her ideology as well as her tactics.

It’s often said that KJK doesn’t claim to be a feminist; I suggest that those who support her differentiate themselves from actual gender critical feminists, who do not believe in gender stereotypes.

👏👏

Alwaystired94 · 22/07/2024 09:56

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 09:55

Why on earth would someone mock you for that? Patients are entitled to ask for a same sex doctor, the staff hear that all day every day. A member of staff "mocking you" would be at risk of disciplinary for being unprofessional. Very much a false equivalence there and reminds me very much of a "women do it too" type thing that men say on here.

this.

no one mocks people for asking for same sex care considering it’s a very frequent occurrence. everyone is entitled to ask for that.

OldCrone · 22/07/2024 09:57

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 00:48

People can wear whatever they like in the UK. If its in line with the employers dress code there is no issue.

If you want pronoun badges banned, take it up with Wes Streeting not the receptionist. But I think he might have slightly higher priorities just now

There's another thread at the moment about an NHS worker who is thinking about wearing an adult human female badge at work.

If badges are in line with the dress code, there should be no issue, but most posters are advising her not to do this.

Why should it be OK to declare a belief in genderism by wearing a pronoun badge, but not to declare that you are a sex realist by wearing an adult human female badge?

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 09:58

Alltheprettyseahorses · 22/07/2024 09:11

The receptionist isn't there to request validation from GP patients. The receptionist is there to book appointments, send prescriptions etc not to exploit sick people as validation tools. They don't need to come out as a transman at all in this situation, nobody needs to know about their personal life.

😱
Did you actually just type that?
"It is fine to be trans, as long as you do it in private"

FFS. How regressive. Next it'll be women should stay at home in case their bodies offend the men.

illinivich · 22/07/2024 10:01

We know that women have been mocked and refused treatment for requesting same sex care, so i dont know why people here are pretending otherwise.

BeachParty · 22/07/2024 10:02

Myalternate · 22/07/2024 07:18

If I was KJK I’d rather not use that particular GP’s surgery as I’d be concerned my private medical information could be shared with people that have no right to it.

Assuming someone will be criminal based on nothing but their protected identity is pure prejudice and discrimination.

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 10:02

OldCrone · 22/07/2024 09:57

There's another thread at the moment about an NHS worker who is thinking about wearing an adult human female badge at work.

If badges are in line with the dress code, there should be no issue, but most posters are advising her not to do this.

Why should it be OK to declare a belief in genderism by wearing a pronoun badge, but not to declare that you are a sex realist by wearing an adult human female badge?

I think she should wear the badge and "most posters" are overly paranoid.

However I also think there is a difference between a pronoun badge (which could be seen more like a name badge) and an "adult human female" badge which is purely a political statement. Depends what the employers policy is about pins at work.

I'd see an "adult human female" pin in much the same way as an "I love jesus" bangle and be a bit 🙄

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 22/07/2024 10:02

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 09:55

Why on earth would someone mock you for that? Patients are entitled to ask for a same sex doctor, the staff hear that all day every day. A member of staff "mocking you" would be at risk of disciplinary for being unprofessional. Very much a false equivalence there and reminds me very much of a "women do it too" type thing that men say on here.

Unless you rock up to Edinburgh Rape Crisis centre requesting that, then you’d be branded a bigot 🙄.

OldCrone · 22/07/2024 10:03

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 09:55

Why on earth would someone mock you for that? Patients are entitled to ask for a same sex doctor, the staff hear that all day every day. A member of staff "mocking you" would be at risk of disciplinary for being unprofessional. Very much a false equivalence there and reminds me very much of a "women do it too" type thing that men say on here.

I think if I asked that receptionist for a female doctor I would almost expect to get a male doctor wearing a she/her badge, as I'd think the surgery was mocking everyone who believes that sex is real.

KJK said that the receptionist looked very much like a typical woman, and without the he/him badge nobody would have thought she was anything other than an ordinary woman.

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 10:03

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 22/07/2024 10:02

Unless you rock up to Edinburgh Rape Crisis centre requesting that, then you’d be branded a bigot 🙄.

We were talking about the NHS I thought Confused
But yes, let's have a bit more whataboutery

MessinaBloom · 22/07/2024 10:03

@OldCrone

Why should it be OK to declare a belief in genderism by wearing a pronoun badge, but not to declare that you are a sex realist by wearing an adult human female badge?

One (pronouns) is a personal belief. The other is a political statement.

CassieMaddox · 22/07/2024 10:04

OldCrone · 22/07/2024 10:03

I think if I asked that receptionist for a female doctor I would almost expect to get a male doctor wearing a she/her badge, as I'd think the surgery was mocking everyone who believes that sex is real.

KJK said that the receptionist looked very much like a typical woman, and without the he/him badge nobody would have thought she was anything other than an ordinary woman.

KJK said that the receptionist looked very much like a typical woman, and without the he/him badge nobody would have thought she was anything other than an ordinary woman.

I'm guessing that's why there was the need for the badge then.

Alwaystired94 · 22/07/2024 10:05

OldCrone · 22/07/2024 10:03

I think if I asked that receptionist for a female doctor I would almost expect to get a male doctor wearing a she/her badge, as I'd think the surgery was mocking everyone who believes that sex is real.

KJK said that the receptionist looked very much like a typical woman, and without the he/him badge nobody would have thought she was anything other than an ordinary woman.

typical women?
you mean societal gender norms?

also considering how small the population of trans people is in the UK - i doubt they have 2 in their GP surgery. and bear in mind, you ask for single SEX care.

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