I agree @Ereshkigalangcleg
I felt sympathetic to the first ‘trans woman’ I worked with as did other female colleagues. He creeped me out but I kept my feelings to myself.
He had endured painful operations as well as enduring nasty behaviour from male colleagues when he transitioned and I think we felt sympathy he went through all that to try and become like us.
He became well known and received an OBE.
Then I noticed articles by him saying trans men should be allowed to participate in women’s sport….
That peaked me, 20 odd years ago.