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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Well that's not very lady like

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whachatalkinaboutwillis · 22/12/2021 17:58

I was sent this link by my 91yo DGM with the above comment.
www.northwichguardian.co.uk/news/19802592.northwich-woman-jailed-cocaine-fuelled-sex-dog/
Utterly repulsive. Would this be recorded as a female crime?

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yourhairiswinterfire · 22/12/2021 23:07

I didn't see anything awful on that thread and it's really disappointing it's been deleted

I hope I'm wrong, but I have a feeling it was for ''personal attacks''. Mocking the paedophile dog abuser's wig, stubble etc.

As I understand it, we don't have to call male sex offenders 'she'? So unless the rules have changed, I don't think it was taken down for that 😕

Is there a way for us to find out?

whachatalkinaboutwillis · 22/12/2021 23:08

@Signalbox

TWAW doesn't stretch to TW being female does it? Female is XX even to those deluded people who believe gender overrides this.... I fucking well hope so!

They are after the word female too. Any word that describes us as a sex class is at risk…

Could you post a link to the thread? I can't find it and would like to read the comments. Thanks for posting
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whachatalkinaboutwillis · 22/12/2021 23:11

@NotTerfNorCis

The issue is that many people, and in some cases our laws, consider trans women to be female. And as much as you’d like your opinion to be the only opinion, it isn’t. Nor is it any more valid than anyone else’s.

If you were to do a poll of the general public on whether this person was a woman, I'm confident the vast majority would say no.

As for whether this person is female, even genderists don't believe that. At least, they claim to acknowledge biological sex - and female refers to sex, not gender identity. Logically that means TRAs don't think transwomen are female.

I have asked a great many people in a very respectful and inclusive way whether they believe TW are women over the last 5 years. Almost none do. Some believe women should deal with TW as they are 'better at that sort of thing' and some believe TW should be allowed to believe they are women and act like women and occupy women's spaces, but almost none believed TWAW.
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Signalbox · 22/12/2021 23:12

As for whether this person is female, even genderists don't believe that. At least, they claim to acknowledge biological sex - and female refers to sex, not gender identity. Logically that means TRAs don't think transwomen are female.

There is plenty of evidence to the contrary.

Well that's not very lady like
NotTerfNorCis · 22/12/2021 23:15

Willoughby believes they are a 'cis woman" and have a cervix. That's extreme even by genderist standards.

RepentMotherfucker · 22/12/2021 23:16

@NotTerfNorCis

Willoughby believes they are a 'cis woman" and have a cervix. That's extreme even by genderist standards.
'Claims to believe' at best.

No one actually believes this shit.

RepentMotherfucker · 22/12/2021 23:17

With Willoughby it's more 'trolls people on SM for shits n giggles'

Clymene · 22/12/2021 23:17

@yourhairiswinterfire

I didn't see anything awful on that thread and it's really disappointing it's been deleted

I hope I'm wrong, but I have a feeling it was for ''personal attacks''. Mocking the paedophile dog abuser's wig, stubble etc.

As I understand it, we don't have to call male sex offenders 'she'? So unless the rules have changed, I don't think it was taken down for that 😕

Is there a way for us to find out?

Oh I see. We're not allowed to mock the appearance of rapists and child abusers. Right, understood.

I didn't make any but it's true there were mocking posts. I will report any other posts I see mocking appearance as they are fairly frequent on here. Although it's usually women who are mocked rather than men.

Signalbox · 22/12/2021 23:19

Could you post a link to the thread? I can't find it and would like to read the comments. Thanks for posting

twitter.com/KirstySNP/status/1270294457217355778

twitter.com/IndiaWilloughby/status/1473642917285838852

ErrolTheDragon · 22/12/2021 23:21

@NotTerfNorCis

Willoughby believes they are a 'cis woman" and have a cervix. That's extreme even by genderist standards.
Yes. In the context of this thread though, it doesn't remotely help people such as Willoughby for male sex offenders to be allowed to 'identify as women' and have courts and the media going along with it.
RepentMotherfucker · 22/12/2021 23:24

Oh I see. We're not allowed to mock the appearance of rapists and child abusers. Right, understood.

Oh no I think we are. If we wanted to mock Warboys or something that would be fine.

It's this one that's different. For some reason.

Can't quite put my finger on it...(definitely wouldn't put my finger anywhere near it 🤮)

RepentMotherfucker · 22/12/2021 23:26

Stupid autocarrot - Worboys.

ScrollingLeaves · 22/12/2021 23:31

CheshireWife
“The issue is that many people, and in some cases our laws, consider trans women to be female. And as much as you’d like your opinion to be the only opinion, it isn’t. Nor is it any more valid than anyone else’s.“

It is not opinion but fact though that trans women cannot ever actually be female because that is one of two biological sexes.

A man who is trans gender may ‘cross’ over to adopt perceived feminine traits and social norms, possibly using surgery and hormones to appear more feminine. But the sex cannot change to female.

The reason a trans woman is ‘trans’ is because they are not of the female sex to start with. But it is not possible to change sex, only gender in the social sense.

A trans woman can by law have gender recognition and live socially as though they were one of the female sex.

Generally biological females commit far fewer sex crimes than biological males (whatever the gender identity of those biological males.).

Datun · 22/12/2021 23:47

Crikey, India Willoughby went a bit overboard on the Gone with the Wind name checking.

DdraigGoch · 23/12/2021 00:36

@GiantKitten

It gives no hint that it’s a man Angry
I dunno, the photos are a bit of a giveaway.

...was described as 'manipulative' and 'deceitful' by a probation officer.
That's certainly true, in more ways than the probation officer had in mind.

DdraigGoch · 23/12/2021 00:40

Looking at the pictures in the Daily Mail article, it strikes me that this is the first time I've seen someone look better in their mugshot than in normal photos.

highame · 23/12/2021 09:12

If Willoughby is a cis woman, then cis is now a trans term and has no links to women at all. Nice

rockinghorsebadge · 23/12/2021 09:42

@highame

If Willoughby is a cis woman, then cis is now a trans term and has no links to women at all. Nice
I'm very much cool with that idea
Wheresthebeach · 23/12/2021 10:23

The Trans women are women chant has muddied the waters. Biological sex can't change yet everyone is behaving as if it can.

Born males shouldn't be in female prisons. End of. Esp violent sex offenders.

porridgecake · 23/12/2021 10:28

MN should post the rules at the top of every board IMO. Deleting the thread in chat was a bit unfair as many of the posters there probably didn't know about the extra strict rules for this topic. There were a lot of posters on that thread who genuinely did not know the ramifications of current policy.

ErrolTheDragon · 23/12/2021 10:31

The guidelines (either general or specific) aren't posted at all on the app. Anyone joining FWR who doesn't use the browser will be likely to be entirely ignorant of them.

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Kotatsu · 23/12/2021 11:04

Don’t know how much more ‘extreme’ your criminality would need to be than being a pedo dog fucker but we’ll see won’t we?

God I love MN - the people that is, the fact that this actually a question that we are sitting here shrugging our shoulders to and seeing if we get deleted is shameful..

as to Who cares what it’s recorded as

Well, for example, should there have actually been another female dog fucker this year, then the Daily Mail would be able to run the headline - 'Women Fucking dogs up 100% in one year' and be entirely truthful in doing so. As it is, if this is recorded as female, and assuming there were no actual female dog fuckers (which I think is reasonable), then the daily mail probably wouldn't run the 'infinite rise in women fucking dogs in 2021' headline, because a) most people would find that confusing, and b) people would ask questions about who that was, and it's better for the DM to head straight to the point.

JustcameoutGC · 23/12/2021 11:19

I think we need to be very clear here, why identifying as female is an issue here. There will be some crimes where the gender identity of the perp is not relevant and some where it absolutely is.

Women are absolutely capable of bestiality and have been successfully prosecuted for it, so 'not our crime' isn't quite right here.

So, is the issue that the perp has adopted a trans identity as a flag of convenience, to try and get a more lenient sentence and access to a womens prison? And if so, we have no way of distinguishing genuine from non genuine people claiming trans identity?

Or is it that this evidence that in some cases trans identity is co-morbid with other really horrendous paraphilias, deviant and criminal behaviour.

Any which way, not really sttengthening the case for us opening our spaces

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