Alright if I join?
I'm just under 5'3", currently 9st 10lb. I suffer with a chronic pain (neurological) disorder, which means it's difficult for me to exercise. I have the occasional good day but it's not enough to get a exercise proper regime going, I've tried.
My happy healthy weight is somewhere around 8 - 8st 7lb, which for me is about a size 8.
I tried low BIWI's boot camp (twice), not for me. I'm a recovering ED sufferer so I won't be counting calories. I think I'm best doing fasting days occasionally, portion control, lots of salad & veg, "real food". I will also be prepping some smoothies for the days when I can't get out of bed (which is quite a lot, & I usually have a bit of warning by way of gradual increase in pain.) TBH I've been relying too much on cheese, crackers & fruit which DH brings me - nice but fattening. DH keeps ordering takeaway because he doesn't want to cook, which isn't helping. He has mobility issues & does all the childcare when I'm unwell, as well as studying for his degree.
I don't have much of a sweet tooth, except for very good quality chocolate. Even then I mostly prefer the dark stuff. I don't do sweeteners, overly processed food, or "low fat" unless low fat is the natural choice.
I am not going to punish myself for slipups. It's a lifestyle change. It's supposed to help me feel better about myself.