@Amjam2025 - that thread is super annoying, not least because it's really obvious why the OP has put weight back on, she says herself that her portion sizes have gone up a lot, and what she's eating in a day isn't exactly conducive to maintaining. We all know that we're going to have to change our eating and exercise habits for life if we want to maintain once at goal, but MJ is helping us do that. I've been slowly re-educating myself about what a "lose" portion size and balanced plate of food looks like, and when I get to goal I'll do the same thing for a "maintain" plate - and it's very different to what I was eating in "gain" phase. I know that because I'm super sad and take photos of all my food 😂
And I now absolutely know for a fact that I cannot eat breakfast, and cannot eat late - I have to stick to a 16:8 pattern, anything else is rubbish for me, and instantly goes straight onto my middle. I'd never really understood that the impact of when I eat matters as much as what I eat.
And I have to have to have to exercise religiously - because of my height and my shit metabolism (thanks PCOS, peri and everything in-between) if I don't my base calorie need is actually really low, so I need to create the extra calorie need by moving a lot.
And I have got more comfortable with being a bit hungry at times - MJ hasn't taken that away completely. In gain phase, as soon as I felt a bit peckish, I ate. Now I don't until mealtimes.
There is a lot of evidence that many people do regain a lot - but if you really dig into why, it's because they just relied on suppression to restrict calories, without really trying to go on a journey to change eating habits for life. I maintained at my higher weight for quite a long time (like that's something to be congratulated about!) so I know I know how to maintain. It was losing that I needed help with - and MJ has given me the space to do that.
It's absolutely not going to be easy (and I'll give myself the allowance of a couple of pounds of bounce weight) but so many of us are hyper focused on changing habits not just suppressing appetite, that I'm optimistic.