Well apparently, according to Meghan, they were married three days before the ceremony at Windsor Castle. Everyone has a different version of events depending on what suits their narrative. Just a narcissistic exercise in self pity.
Compare their 'hardships' with the women of Iran who die if they don't where a headscarf correctly, the women in Afghanistan who are being denied an education under the Taliban, or the people of Ukraine, many of whom have lost family, homes and country.
Seriously, these two are going on about their first world problems from a California mansion and seem to be obvious to what is going on around them.
Harry just needs to get the help he so obviously needs and maybe then he can move on.