Sorry for the long post, I got carried away!
I'm glad to read that the discussion on Charles and parenting was only a small part of the podcast (I haven't listened as I find the pair of them frustrating).
I guess the problem is that Harry has left one gilded cage for another. He's now stuck dealing with the demands of the companies he's now working for.
The Crown portrays his mother in a pretty negative way, never mind the rest of the family, and yet he has to defend it because he's working for Netflix. Netflix are now going all out on the British Royal Family and there's another documentary about Diana in the pipeline. This can't sit comfortably with Harry as Netflix are essentially profiteering from his dead mother.
He did the podcast to champion the mental health series he has done with Oprah Winfrey for Apple TV. His main role in that appears to be being the face of the series, given he doesn't have much experience in producing TV series etc. He has to go out and sell the series, and it's led to him making some comments that he may later regret.
When you are in the public eye, everything you say can be checked against the things you said and did at an earlier stage. That was why the Oprah interview was soundly criticised, because so much of it could be demonstrated to be false.
Same with this podcast. The repeated discussion about not being able to ride a bike with his son in the UK, but being able to in the USA; when the press immediately pulled out a multitude of pictures of Harry on the back of Charles and Diana's bikes as a child. By now his PR company must know that those pictures are being circulated, and yet he repeats the comment on this podcast.
He's either not being properly guided, or he's not doing the ground work before these interviews. He needs to know what he's said previously and attempt to be consistent.
Obviously I don't expect him to remember being on the back of his father's bike at two years old, but once its been pointed out then he needs to adjust his comments for his next interview or he begins to seem a bit false.
The comments about Meghan encouraging him to seek therapy - his PR team ought to know that he's attributed it to William previously (and fairly recently) as they should be clued up on what he's said before.
It may be as simple as Meghan encouraged him to get further therapy, as he'd finished the round he had previously, but by not being clear, he again looks like he's rewriting history.
Rather like Kier Starmer with the Brexit Deal, when he stood up and listed all the things he thought ought to be in the deal - then Theresa May stood up and stated that all those items were in the deal she brought before parliament, but Kier Starmer had voted against it. It's a rookie error (more for Kier Starmer than Harry) but makes them look a bit foolish.
Harry has no set career path now he's left the Royal Family. I don't know if he can rejoin the army? I suppose he could fly air ambulance helicopters etc like William did, but that is not going to keep them in the lifestyle they had in the royal family, and seem to want to keep hold of.
Meghan seems to not want to return to acting, which rules out another career option, one which might actually pay quite a substantial sum of money, depending on the parts she gets offered.
So they are left in this slightly awkward position where they have to trade off their titles to try to bridge the gap into celebrity status, while trying to up-skill into their chosen field - which seems to be TV and film/podcast production, where neither have much (if any) previous experience.
They clearly became very angry at the Royal Family, sometime after their original statement about being half in and half out, as they weren't desperate to leave the racist, cold, genetic pain they were experiencing at that stage.
I suspect that they genuinely thought the half in and half out could work, and neither of them had really considered the ramifications for things such as security and possible exploitation.
At that stage the Queen had already had the dreadful Andrew interview to contend with - which I'm sure laid bare all the reasons that the Royals are targets to be exploited by rich "friends" if they are not careful.
I don't doubt that that interview steered her view in deciding that you are either a working royal, or you aren't - which has just been validated by the Duke of Kent (?) and his actions.
It appears that Meghan was keen to return to the USA (I don't blame her one bit!). That creates more problems for them in terms of security.
If they lived in the UK at Frogmore, even as non working royals, they would have security in and around the house, because it's part of the Queen's estate. So even though they wouldn't have personal security, they would have regular security just by proxy, as do all the other non working royals, such as Beatrice and Eugenie as they live at Kensington Palace.
Living that lifestyle must be hideously expensive, and I'm sure the pair of them must be very stressed. Their combined fortunes won't run a big household, house and pay security for long.
They have to earn a massive living - and I don't think it's clear right now where that is going to come from.
It sounds like not only have they lost the Sovereign Grant (which is fair) but Charles has also removed the money he paid to Harry from the Duchy of Cornwall. I can't remember the sum, but I think it was something like £2 million a year.
That's a lot of money to lose, and I doubt any of us would be pleased to have it taken away when there is nothing to replace it. Even though one of their goals was financial independence - they are certainly not there yet.
I think the OW interview and the podcast have come after Charles cut Harry off and he is extremely angry about it - not least because he genuinely feels he needs round the clock security (understandable after Diana and the continual press interest) which must be eating away at his personal funds.
If he feels that his wife and child are exposed because he is a prince, then I'm sure he is very angry about those funds being taken away so quickly - because he's not had chance to replace them.
I don't like the way he's behaving at the moment - but the reality is that he would have been funded by Charles, and then William, for the rest of his life as a working royal. It was expected, and it was standard for children of the monarch/future monarch because they were working royals. So it's not the same as your average Joe who would not usually receive money from their parents in their late 30's.