On the verge of kicking her out eldest DD16

[Pisssssedofff]

She hits her siblings and really hurts them aged 12 and 6. My son when he was interviewed by the court over custody thing drew my eldest dd in the sad house.
I kind of feel these incidents are happening more frequently with exam pressure. I'm on my own with 4 of them. In a three Bed house. It's pretty much like living in a pressure cooker

[Letmehaveausername]

Phil At your worst, most overwhelmed and unable to cope moments, do you hate your dc? Wish him gone and blame him for everything wrong in your life and speak about him with such contempt? I'm not trying to have a dig or anything, I'm genuinely curious

[paxillin]

Philoslothy the worst taunting came from OP. Which is the reason for people ASing her to see if she is goady or just stressed. She goads, taunts and attacks in her other threads, too.

[Philoslothy]

I have certainly been angry. My son has a diagnosed condition so it is different. I have a supportive husband, am not going through a difficult divorce and not living in cramped housing.

My son has attacked me when I was pregnant. I have had miscarriages - one of which happened after an attack and I would not want to use the word hate but I did struggle to look my son in the eye for a while. That is in a much easier situation than the OP is in.

I have a relative who has a mental health condition who sometimes fires out vile things in the way the OP has done on this thread. She only does this when pushed to the edge of her coping level. When she is doing this j would not stand there trying to catch her out. I would recognise that for the sake of her children she needs supporting

[Letmehaveausername]

Phil that must have been an extremely difficult thing to go through, I am very sorry that you've experienced that. And no one can judge if your situation is easier than the OP's is or not either.

My point is, if someone is so desperate for help as the OP seems to be, there is no need to shun all help. I agree that the OP needs to have some sort of medical intervention, but I also stand by what I've said with the consistent flaws in her posts. It is very hard to have sympathy for someone who seems to be lying, who seems to be deliberately baiting with what she says.

However I do think it's best I leave this thread now. I do hope things are easier for you now as well

[Philoslothy]

Things are good for us at the moment. Thankyou

[Alvah]

I think you really need to get some outside agency support for your daughter asap. The way you are speaking/feeling about her is not appropriate or healthy. I feel it is not just your daughter's behaviour which needs help, but also you and the whole family. Can the school help? GP? Social services?

Hope things work out for you all.