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What shoes do you wear if you can’t walk in heels?

187 replies

DonnaChang · 10/07/2024 22:09

I’m really, really bad in heels. Broke my ankle a few years ago and I’m like Bambi if I try anything over two inches. Anything strappy presents an even worse issue.

I’m also very tall and don’t like towering over people constantly.

I’d like to buy this dress for an event but I don’t know what to do shoe-wise.

Any ideas, and ideally, links please oh wise ones?

What shoes do you wear if you can’t walk in heels?
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TooManyNiblings · 10/07/2024 22:09

Brogues?

Izzynohopanda · 10/07/2024 22:10

Mary Jane ballerina shoes

TeddyBeans · 10/07/2024 22:12

Ballet pumps or espadrilles

DonnaChang · 10/07/2024 22:13

TooManyNiblings · 10/07/2024 22:09

Brogues?

Would they not look very frumpy with that dress?

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NashvilleQueen · 10/07/2024 22:17

Something like this in whatever colour you want?

What shoes do you wear if you can’t walk in heels?
BenignIntervention · 10/07/2024 22:21

I wear a low-ish, slim wedge sandal with dresses for weddings. Occasionally a kitten heel slingback if I can find a style that’s actually stylish. I have some low block heel and some nice flat sandals for more casual dresses.

(Also tall and can’t walk in heels!)

I can’t stand brogues or Mary Janes. I wear loafers or pointy flats with trousers, but I think a dressy dress needs a little heel.

Beepbeepoutoftheway · 10/07/2024 22:22

Dr Martens boots!

Agoddessonamountaintop · 10/07/2024 22:24

These are nice if you can find them in your size, little heels: www.johnlewis.com/gabor-monte-carlo-suede-large-bow-detail-slingback-shoes/atlantic/p111306831.

Agoddessonamountaintop · 10/07/2024 22:43

Would a wide fitting help? sargassoandgrey.com/products/indy-wide-fit-flats-navy-suede. sargassoandgrey.com/products/indy-wide-fit-flats-navy-suede]].]]

whatonearthishappenin · 10/07/2024 22:47

Please don’t wear brogues, the dress is too feminine. It’s stunning, I think a pointy flat would look nice (sorry no link to share!)

EllenLRipley · 10/07/2024 22:47

I have 1 lovely pair of Chanel flats. Everything else is a trainer or a Birkenstock 😂

MikeWozniaksMohawk · 10/07/2024 22:49

I have a pair of sparkly silver slingback pointy flats from Next which are a good heeled shoe replacement for dressier occasions like weddings

JoanThursday · 10/07/2024 22:54

whatonearthishappenin · 10/07/2024 22:47

Please don’t wear brogues, the dress is too feminine. It’s stunning, I think a pointy flat would look nice (sorry no link to share!)

Yes, I agree with point flats! A sling back would look quite dressy - perhaps in silver? Something like this.... www.asos.com/na-kd/na-kd-pointed-slingback-flat-shoes-in-silver/prd/206580052?currencyid=1&browsecountry=GB&affid=28694&_CjwKCAjw4ri0BhAvEiwA8oo6F0A5wtrQuaxTLmdOnXqwz9tAps6I4kUk9_LycXaXeFOiTiFIhOBlYBoCo0IQAvD_BwE&channelref=product+search&ppcadref=20546713158%7C%7C&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjw4ri0BhAvEiwA8oo6F0A5wtrQuaxTLmdOnXqwz9tAps6I4kUk9_LycXaXeFOiTiFIhOBlYBoCo0IQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

Agoddessonamountaintop · 10/07/2024 23:02

Forgot to say, the dress is lovely, where is it from? I agree it’s uber feminine so brogues or anything heavy won’t gel. Siver shoes are really trendy at the moment but might draw attention away from the dress. Something navy, feminine and low-key but stylish would do it.

StarCourt · 10/07/2024 23:03

a low wedge sandal

MNisHarshSometimes · 10/07/2024 23:23

What's the event?

What time of day?

If it was, say a summer garden party, then you could get away with something like from Next.

Not the most glamorous but they add a small heel!

However, if it's an evening function then they I would suggest these!

MNisHarshSometimes · 10/07/2024 23:24

Oops ...

What shoes do you wear if you can’t walk in heels?
justasking111 · 10/07/2024 23:28

Pointy flats with straps. I've a black leather pair with elastic straps and a silver pair with Mary Jane strap.

I miss heels 😢

bananamum13 · 10/07/2024 23:55

Nike Air max