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What shoes do you wear if you can’t walk in heels?

187 replies

DonnaChang · 10/07/2024 22:09

I’m really, really bad in heels. Broke my ankle a few years ago and I’m like Bambi if I try anything over two inches. Anything strappy presents an even worse issue.

I’m also very tall and don’t like towering over people constantly.

I’d like to buy this dress for an event but I don’t know what to do shoe-wise.

Any ideas, and ideally, links please oh wise ones?

What shoes do you wear if you can’t walk in heels?
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Sillystrumpet · 11/07/2024 00:12

Sorry but the brogues comment made me chuckle. Very amusing, imagine wearing brogues with that dress,

personally I’d wear either flat strappy sandals or a velvet,slipper mule.

beigeBEIGEBeiger · 11/07/2024 00:56

clearly just flats, especially considering your height insecurity

Moonshine5 · 11/07/2024 00:58

@DonnaChang What's the event? Love the Donna Chang episode!

SnowFrogJelly · 11/07/2024 01:10

Doc Martens or smart white trainers

beigeBEIGEBeiger · 11/07/2024 01:20

Doc Martens seems a questionable move for the height insecure (I guess with the exception of those after 'exposure therapy')

Wedoourish · 11/07/2024 01:22

Maybe fly sandals? So comfortable and not too frumpy.

Bigcat25 · 11/07/2024 01:25

These last forever! I have 3 pairs and have got years of daily on my feet wear with them. The strap placement gives great stability too.

VincentVanGoth · 11/07/2024 07:55

Silver Gladiator sandals

RosesAndHellebores · 11/07/2024 08:08

I've never worn heels.
A low heeled pretty shoe with a bow or other embellishment. Sling backs are in and there are some nice crossover strap flats that are dainty about. Russell & Bromley have some. Also dainty sandals.seem to be making a comeback - my local Jones have some.

Summertimer · 11/07/2024 08:24

I’ve got some of these. I’m tall and seem not to have very many tall friends or colleagues. DH is same height and DS taller.

I like ballet flats and loafers. I also favour mules, clogs, Birkenstock type things. I’m very into the trainers with dress look.

I fell off some high wedges once and it put me off heels

HouseofHolbein · 11/07/2024 08:26

SnowFrogJelly · 11/07/2024 01:10

Doc Martens or smart white trainers

Was going to be my answer 🤣🤣 as they are about the only things I stick on my feet

DeftLemonDog · 11/07/2024 08:31

These have no straps OP Basic navy blue velvet shoe flat

I gave similar style in dark green suede, and I wish I’d brought some black ones too as they are very comfortable and can be with dressy clothing or with jeans.

Suede Bow Slipper

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TeenLifeMum · 11/07/2024 08:32

I wear these for nights out/celebrations. I really dislike heels these days.

What shoes do you wear if you can’t walk in heels?
Puppiesmakemehappy · 11/07/2024 08:46

I wear a tiny kitten heel sandal I bought from M&S once. They’re silver. That failing, I’ve a pair of pointy toe kitten heel navy shoes I bought from Dune one year.
Otherwise I wear docs with my dresses now. Definitely get a wee kitten heel or one of those pointy flats for that dress. It’s beautiful

Mosaic123 · 11/07/2024 08:50

Suede flat slingbacks.

Buy some fancy shoe bows or sparkly shoe clips to wear for the wedding. You will get far more use out of the shoes if you can make them plain again.

There are lots of shoe embellishments on Amazon.

Ozanj · 11/07/2024 08:56

I’m the same as you. I wear flat sandals. These some I’ve bought recently. If you’re near an Indian shopping area will be worth taking a look as gorgeous flat sandals is kind of our super strength lol. It’s also wedding season so lots of choice.

https://www.dunelondon.com/nightengale-diamante-flat-sandals-rose-gold-0086503940133708.html?geCountry=GB&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_content=pla&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADy0tvdRvhzUXc7lMIblsA5sRPxYh&gclid=Cj0KCQjwhb60BhClARIsABGGtw8UgJn5OwWqaE4bdiVkYJsDJJAdhyLFSg-iazq-RoSat56nZmdvus4aAs7WEALw_wcB

https://www.modainpelle.com/sandals-c29/flat-sandals-c50/ormay-silver-textile-p9931/s56171?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_term=moda-in-pelle-ormay-silver-textile-38-size-eu-38-uk-5-size-eu-38-uk-5-5051645948948&utm_campaign=product%2Blisting%2Bads&cid=GBP&glCurrency=GBP&glCountry=GB&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADmxl_9AKcwJD1D7iG0zuJW3BKXWN&gclid=Cj0KCQjwhb60BhClARIsABGGtw9hMT485Q_Vh9gmO0_Z_c1glDcM_4mJyaoaburjy9EQ5odDFYiSWwIaAm3FEALw_wcB

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BigDahliaFan · 11/07/2024 09:05

I wear gold or silver sandals, flat, with wide straps.

pointed ballet shoes…boden usually has some good ones. www.boden.co.uk/en-gb/jewelled-buckle-flats/sty-a1443

and I can manage a chunky heeled strappy sandal….for a while.

FantasticFanny · 11/07/2024 09:07

Another pointy flat fan. Otherwise these very boring but extremely comfortable heels are all I wear. I have them in loads of colours.

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Skykidsspy · 11/07/2024 09:13

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