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Do I look fat in this

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amifat2022 · 12/09/2022 13:04

I am a size 8/10 but i think I do shop at shops where the sizing is generous like seasalt, crew clothing, boden, joules etc. second dress is from outnet and by a designer called rachel zoe. I have always been petite so generally eat whatever I want but now that I am nearly 30, possibly this is not a great idea...

And I don't usually pay much attention to my figure. I focus a lot on makeup (which I love) and that takes 10 minutes everyday so after that and brushing my teeth and putting on contact lens, i just grab a dress, put it on, drag a brush through my hair and zoom out of the door. So I don't actually notice much how my figure looks until I go on holiday and my DH takes photos of me...

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WhoppingBigBackside · 12/09/2022 19:59

37 kg for a slightly-built nearly 5 foot teenager isn't that skinny. It's a bit skinny.

I'm size 6/8/10 depending on brand and weigh 50kg and I look fat in some photos. I'm a fair bit taller than the OP. It depends on what I am wearing.

TheOGCCL · 12/09/2022 20:07

The camera always adds a few pounds. Agree with others that the dress styles are not as flattering as they could be, for example dress 3 is hitting your leg at its widest point. Dressing is all about proportion and contrasting looser shapes with highlighting your slim points such as ankles.

kimchifox · 12/09/2022 20:26

I bet you wish you hadn't asked. You could wear something with a waist - the cold shoulder dress is a bit more flattering (if it didn't have the cold shoulders). The dresses are the wrong length for you - the first one literally does nothing for you, but it wouldn't do much for Kendall Jenner either. I used to put DD in T-shirt dresses with polka dots like that when she was 3.

Shorter length, as PP have said because if we could see your calves come in at the knee it would give you a more shapely leg. Waist or fitted waist, v neck because you do have boobs, non jersey fabric. I think a tea dress style would look lovely. And I don't know what is on your feet but please get something else - it looks like you've gone out in your socks.

UmbrellaLegs · 12/09/2022 20:56

I'm sorry but I haven't read every comment but I would not have put the age "nearly 30" with that person I see in those photos. I just think those clothes are not flattering for you. Clothes don't have to be tight or short and I appreciate your background. I think the way you stand as well is not enhancing your "look".

UmbrellaLegs · 12/09/2022 20:58

Sorry I got cut off again...those shops I associate with women in their 50/60s. How about treating yourself to an online style consultation ? Have a look on FB for a group called Style Sisterhood for ideas. Many stylists post free posts on there. They are just about to do an Autumn special.

dragonDan · 12/09/2022 21:06

You have a gorgeous figure but those dresses really do nothing for you. They make you look frumpy.

VividlyReneredLandscape · 13/09/2022 00:54

It's height isn't it?

I'm 5' 9 and much bigger than you.

I'm a size 12 and 10 stone.

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amifat2022 · 13/09/2022 01:37

When you guys say form fitting dress with defined waist do you mean like this?

Do I look fat in this
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VividlyReneredLandscape · 13/09/2022 01:58

Well you are super-beaitiful!!

Monty27 · 13/09/2022 02:11

You don't look fat. Rather lacking in style however. Sorry but you need to ditch the gardening dresses.

Aria999 · 13/09/2022 02:16

That one is certainly better!

Josette77 · 13/09/2022 02:38

Much more flatterng!!!

MyneighbourisTotoro · 13/09/2022 07:56

amifat2022 · 13/09/2022 01:37

When you guys say form fitting dress with defined waist do you mean like this?

That dress is so much nicer and very flattering! You look lovely!

MyneighbourisTotoro · 13/09/2022 07:57

@VividlyReneredLandscape Oh how I wish I was your height! 😍

LizzieSiddal · 13/09/2022 07:57

Yes that dress looks fab on you!

WhoppingBigBackside · 13/09/2022 08:02

That dress looks lovely on you. You look very pretty and no, you are not fat.

amifat2022 · 13/09/2022 08:16

MyneighbourisTotoro · 13/09/2022 07:56

That dress is so much nicer and very flattering! You look lovely!

Thank you.

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thefoggiest · 13/09/2022 08:21

OMG! You are absolutely beautiful! You have such a cute face and that dress looks amazing on you. I think you would look even more beautiful with your hair cut to just above your shoulders.

Great style of dress for you 👌

Calphurnia88 · 13/09/2022 08:33

amifat2022 · 13/09/2022 01:37

When you guys say form fitting dress with defined waist do you mean like this?

No. It might go in at the waist, but it's loose everywhere else so not form fitting at all.

That dress would be filed under 'frumpy' IMO.

Calphurnia88 · 13/09/2022 08:35

Is that you in the photo?

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 13/09/2022 08:36

You stand like a statue!
I think that dress is similar to the others just the angle makes it look better? I suspect from front on it would look similarly shapeless?

Bestsinglemumever · 13/09/2022 08:47

No of course not, would definitely recommend slimming world if you feel a bit insecure about your weight!
Hourglass figure queen.

Bestsinglemumever · 13/09/2022 08:47

nah it’s me

UmbrellaLegs · 13/09/2022 08:49

Bestsinglemumever · 13/09/2022 08:47

No of course not, would definitely recommend slimming world if you feel a bit insecure about your weight!
Hourglass figure queen.

She is an 8/10 - no need for SW!

UmbrellaLegs · 13/09/2022 08:51

amifat2022 · 13/09/2022 01:37

When you guys say form fitting dress with defined waist do you mean like this?

Aaaw you are just a baby - how pretty! TBH I like this colour on you.

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