Started this thread to help people pass the time and also communicate time frames and outcomes going through the process of a MR
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
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Lulakate84 · 13/03/2024 16:27
Originally applied 19/09 - declined 26/01 over the phone, did MR over the phone an sent additional information 19/02 scanned onto system. Phoned Friday just gone told its in a queue and should have answer soon. So nervous
sjm100 · 13/03/2024 16:35
@LancsMcG @Lulakate84 its bad enough waiting 16/17 weeks for a decline without waiting another 11 weeks for the MR good luck both x
LancsMcG · 14/03/2024 05:52
@Claireold1986 @Komahra
the thing that gets me is that it just seems so inconsistent in terms of their awards.
i really do believe it all depends which DM you get as reading through all of the awards / claims that other people post it doesn’t follow consistency what so ever
1tiredmam · 14/03/2024 19:55
Hi everyone.
What's all your start dates for MR. Mines 22/01 hoping to hear soon. Was told middle to end of march but not holding out much hope!
1tiredmam · 15/03/2024 10:31
Hiya
Just got through. It doesn't even get passed to anyone till you're at week 8 and then may take a few more weeks for a decision if they need to contact 3rd parties. I was also told you would get a payment before you have even been informed of the results. So a while yet. I'm already on week 30 since this started.
1tiredmam · 15/03/2024 10:59
It's ridiculous. I phoned for my form on the 22 of August sent it back within a week. My almost 3 year old is non verbal autistic ( not diagnosed) but told by every professional that sees her! She is classed as low functioning she does not understand anything that is said to her. She doesn't eat or sleep. I have 6 different people see her a week ATM. I sent off the pediatrician letter that states she is well below her age. She is 6 months old for speech and language. But it takes at least 3 weeks to be scanned onto the system. So I hope the new dm sees it!
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LancsMcG · 15/03/2024 10:51
@1tiredmam @sjm100 goodness sake - they don't half like to make a meal of it
The issue we've got is that because our son is 3 (and a half) we filled out the forms back in early October, things are moving all the time. We had a Specialist Inclusion Teacher from the Local Authority go in to nursery on Wednesday - we've just got the report now (super quick) and it's a 6 page report of what she's observed and she's put him (in several instances) at 18-24 months or 24-28 months
I'm just about to send this now to DLA (special delivery) so it can be scanned on so it's all extra evidence for when another DM does pick it up
1tiredmam · 15/03/2024 10:31
Hiya
Just got through. It doesn't even get passed to anyone till you're at week 8 and then may take a few more weeks for a decision if they need to contact 3rd parties. I was also told you would get a payment before you have even been informed of the results. So a while yet. I'm already on week 30 since this started.
sjm100 · 15/03/2024 11:03
that report will definitely help your case, its so sad that we have to go through this, think I'll need a therapist when this is all over!
LancsMcG · 15/03/2024 10:51
@1tiredmam @sjm100 goodness sake - they don't half like to make a meal of it
The issue we've got is that because our son is 3 (and a half) we filled out the forms back in early October, things are moving all the time. We had a Specialist Inclusion Teacher from the Local Authority go in to nursery on Wednesday - we've just got the report now (super quick) and it's a 6 page report of what she's observed and she's put him (in several instances) at 18-24 months or 24-28 months
I'm just about to send this now to DLA (special delivery) so it can be scanned on so it's all extra evidence for when another DM does pick it up
1tiredmam · 15/03/2024 10:31
Hiya
Just got through. It doesn't even get passed to anyone till you're at week 8 and then may take a few more weeks for a decision if they need to contact 3rd parties. I was also told you would get a payment before you have even been informed of the results. So a while yet. I'm already on week 30 since this started.
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