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I have rejoined just to ask this question.

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hathorisaskingaquestion · 04/07/2012 18:00

Why are some members of this site allowed to get away with persistently being vile, pushing an agenda, defending the indefensible, upsetting other members, twisting versions of events and generally being nasty, and they do not get banned?

Not about any one particular poster, but I have noticed that some stronger "personalities" on here seem to be Teflon coated.

Why is this?

Why do the owners of this site want that kind of vile poster and do not seem to care about the number of truly decent kind posters who are being upset and driven off the site?

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Tee2072 · 04/07/2012 18:04

It's not stronger personalities. It's mean people.

What is MNHQ afraid of?

RandomNumbers · 04/07/2012 18:04

I think you need to contact MNHQ, with names/examples so that action, if any needed, can be taken

Half-hints and , pleas to 'PM me'* - horrid

*CAT me you cunt, those were the days, eh

hathorisaskingaquestion · 04/07/2012 18:05

I have contacted HQ.

Repeatedly.

Nothing has changed.

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NoKnownAllergies · 04/07/2012 18:07

What Tee said.

LeB0F · 04/07/2012 18:08

I'm a cunt. And I'm still here. What can I say? I have an awful lot of dirt on Helenmumsnet.

sweatyscamp · 04/07/2012 18:09

It is all a bit odd - perhaps these people are famous or something and not to be frightened away Grin

HoneyDragonWearingLederhosen · 04/07/2012 18:09

I whole heartedly miss being able to say Cat me you cunt

But way to go Hath, excellent question to come back and post

KatherineKavanagh · 04/07/2012 18:10

Where? What's happened?

There is another thread about the same thing going on too

nannyof3 · 04/07/2012 18:11

Some people are just to rude !!!!

hathorisaskingaquestion · 04/07/2012 18:14

Where is the other thread? Can someone link?

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HoneyDragonWearingLederhosen · 04/07/2012 18:14

BOF Grin

You're a cunt Wink but not actually evil and malicious. It's one thing to be out & out evilly weaselly on a thread and open so people can see, and another to be sneaky sinister squirrelry.

I want to know why certain posters always respond aaaaaah but you don't know what was happening behind the scenes so you can't possibly call me on my horridness as that makes you an evil bitch kind of thing.

LeB0F · 04/07/2012 18:14

Dreadful dreadful people.

KatherineKavanagh · 04/07/2012 18:14

It's in site stuff Hathor! I just posted on it

BIWItheBold · 04/07/2012 18:15

nannyof3 - do you ever post anything else?!

hathor - unfortunately, unless you're more specific (not naming names, obviously) it's a very difficult question for anyone, never mind MNHQ to answer.

Define 'vile' for instance, or pushing an agenda - we're probably all guilty of the latter sometimes not mentioning low carb any more and certainly not on this thread

It's a tough line for MNHQ to tread - they adopt a 'light touch' when it comes to moderation. And look at the uproar that was caused when they started to get heavier with the delete button!

I would far rather that some posts were too 'forceful' - for want of a better word - than everything is deleted and censored left, right and centre.

KatherineKavanagh · 04/07/2012 18:16

Called 'why is Aibu allowed to continue'

LeB0F · 04/07/2012 18:16

Yeah BIWI, but they could delete the people we don't like, surely?

Pinot · 04/07/2012 18:17

oh lordy!

usualsuspect · 04/07/2012 18:17

Who, what where, when?

BIWItheBold · 04/07/2012 18:18

Shall we make a list LeBOF? Wink

HoneyDragonWearingLederhosen · 04/07/2012 18:19

BOF - yes every month we could have a sority and black ball crap Mnetters Grin

hathorisaskingaquestion · 04/07/2012 18:20

It's not about people I don't like.

There's lots of people I don't like. I am old and grumpy. I don't like most people most of the time.

But there are "well-known" "Royalty" posters on here who get away with posting comments that no one else would get away with.

Not one person. A number of people.

Why is this?

As Tee said, what are MNHQ scared of?

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Nagoo · 04/07/2012 18:21

I miss all the shit. I'm here all the time. I must be oblivious. That said, I do choose my threads carefully these days.

amillionyears · 04/07/2012 18:22

See the pushchair thread as it is called by Mumsnet.
It is actually the disabled thread,with MN being accused of being disablist.
It was started by madmouse,who has largely left this site.
start date 20 June I think.
Im useless at linking.if you cant find it,perhaps someone else can link for me.

the short answer to above is MN want freedom of speech

usualsuspect · 04/07/2012 18:22

Not the old royalty bollocks

OatyBeatie · 04/07/2012 18:23

Ugh at old royalty bollocks. Now I can't get Prince Phillip's bits out of my mind.