What is a pervert?

[FordAnglia]

I seem to recall two or three times in this bit of the board where folks have cruised by and used the word pervert, but when I have politely asked for a definition of the term/asked what they mean, the question has always been swerved. I have even been advised to google it, which to my mind seems dubious if not avoidant advice.

The term seems to be tossed around a fair bit, though usually I let it pass.

So what do the good folks of the sex board define the term as?

This is also an opportunity of course for those folks who have avoided questions to have their say and educate us.

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Happy New Year! Best wishes folks 💕

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Happy new year everyone x

Oh here we go again.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/sex/4976937-inability-to-orgasm

Quote from that thread:

Agiftandacurse · Today 15:40

"Maybe we need a women’s health sex topic. Where men can’t post!

I posted once about trying to orgasm through piv and only men replied" 😭

"Maybe we need a women’s health sex topic. Where men can’t post!

I think if mumsnet would have done that instead of a sex topic, it may have been better for women.

I agree.

The difficulty would be in ensuring that men do not post.

MNHQ don't know if posters are male or female.

When a poster asks whether she’s alone in not liking their husband ejaculating inside them, and at least 2 men use it as an excuse to overshare their preference/be more graphic than necessary, I think that's pervy.

And yet the op hasn't complained so why are you? Discussing ejacaculation is hardly 'pervy' omg.

Maybe op's could specify that they only want a woman or man's perspective, would that do?

Even if the OP concerned didn't mind, @DancingAllNight found some of the responses on that thread to be objectionable.

Also, we all know that specifying men's or women's answers won't work, because this board is infested with pervy men who won't pay attention to that request.

Then she or he should have taken it up on the relevant thread or reported.

'Infested with pervy men' as we've said this just isn't true. Trolls are everywhere on the Internet sadly. You mustn't let it upset you. Just report.

I do report.
That is not something which the regular posters do, though.
I've seen a few people engaging with perverts

@Janiie The OP of the thread asked does anyone else feel this way, as in not liking it being inside them. Why on earth would a good man then think that’s the right time to say where he prefers to ejaculate? That man is not in the OPs situation, he’s on the other side of it! It wasn’t what OP was asking. It’s weird.

Another told OP where their husband could ejaculate, OP wasn’t asking that either, in fact OP had already mentioned the place that suited them. It’s just any excuse to overshare about themselves.

the "regular posters" being the regular folks in this bit?
What proportion of the posters in this bit are the "regular posters"?
Who are the ones who aren't regular posters and what proportion are they?
I find this all very odd I must say.
As for folks engaging with other folks I fear you are going to be very busy in life if you devote yourself to stopping that.

This has surely turned into an odder thread than I imagined - scanning back on returning I see there are even references to organised religion and even the Old Testament (a repository of perversion if ever there was one - thankfully I broke free of its baleful influence at a young age)

Discussing ejacaculation is hardly 'pervy' omg.

You are missing the point yet again. I have just read it and agree with the op, the answers were not relevant to that particular thread so we’re pervy because they were completely unnecessary and sharing for their own purposes. A woman says she doesn't like it inside her, asks if others feel the same and a man told her where he likes to ejaculate. 🙄

Maybe op's could specify that they only want a woman or man's perspective, would that do?

Then they just pretend to be women.

pp not op