Do all women enjoy giving blow jobs & anal?

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I really want to know the general opinion beyond my very small circle of friends who I discuss sex life with. As I'm now feeling a little insecure about it all. Do you enjoy giving blow jobs ? Every time ? Plus have anal every time too?

My DP explained to me this evening that all women enjoy giving a blow job plus to swallow. Now I never swallow and certainly don't give blow jobs every day/week. But apparently every other women he's been with it happened every time they had sex (a lot) plus he said the same about anal, happened every time they had sex. He said this has been the case since he was in his early twenties, now mid forties. I joked they done of my friends give blow jobs for special occasions, he was mortified and said up until me he received it every time. He's not putting pressure on me to give it but we were talking about sex lives, etc

We got together three years ago, now have two little kids, he works away and when he comes back I'm a bit frazzled with work and home life. I'm not wanting to start a debate about the wrongs and right about his opinion and purely interested to know about blow jobs/anal, is this really the case? Is everyone giving blow jobs getting anal it every time ? And enjoying it or do you do it out of 'duty'?

Absolute horse shit. And, if you’ll pardon the pun, he can shove “anal every time” up his arse! Who are these women he was with?!

I used to give a lot of bjs but now not very often. Tried anal once, never again.
Most of my friends don’t seem to give oral very often from what they’ve said. I don’t think any of them do anal regularly either.

He's talking utter bollocks.

Absolute rubbish

Posted too soon. But sounds like bullshit to me!

He’s trying it on. “Everyone else loves it!”

Every now and then? Sure. Every time? No.

How could he possibly say 'every woman' likes something? We do vary!

If you said every one of your previous partners had been giddy with delight at the thought of you using a strap on on them, would he be saying 'well, I've never been keen myself but clearly I'm wrong, let's do it!'

Nope, dislike blow-jobs and haven't given DH one for years. Have never tried anal, don't want to try it and have never been pressured to try it, and I'm the same age as your partner and had multiple sexual partners in my teens/twenties. I wouldn't stay in a relationship with someone who tried to make me do something I didn't want to do.

😅😅😅😅 no. He is an idiot.

Double up on your contraceptive and do not have more children with him.

He's talking bullshit.

Jesus no. Have been in few lt relationships but have given blow jobs to a man I did love (who was always lovely to me) so it felt ok, not subservient.

But anal, no fucking way. Never. Fuck off, I'd literally dump any man who even suggested it because I'd be so turned off by him asking.

Get him to try anal first

Second the horseshit, he's talking bollocks.

Unless he's paying every time tho?

Utter shit. And it's a massive red flag that he's trying to coerce you with such lies.

No fucking way he gets this every time OP.
My DH gets a blow job now and again when it takes my fancy, and has never requested anal again after I let him try a vibrator up his own arse when he was pestering me for it.

Women, as human beings, have a whole range of sexual preferences, likes and dislikes. I wouldn't trust any man who claimed that 'all women' enjoy a particular activity.
But it sounds like the bigger problem is that this man leaves you with all the childcare and housework then expects enthusiastic sexual servicing from you as well.

It happens every time he watches porn, and he’s confusing that with real life.

@Hapoydayz

Get him to try anal first

Agree - ask him to give pegging a go - seeing as 'everyone' loves it 😂

Not every man likes BJs - thankfully. Or anal (which I intend to go to my grave without trying). He is talking pish.

God no. Oral I’ve done but don’t particularly enjoy. Anal, not a chance.

@Doyoumind

Utter shit. And it's a massive red flag that he's trying to coerce you with such lies.

Yup! He sounds like an absolute twat.

Nice try, op.

He’s a prick. I don’t particularly enjoy giving bjs. But I will if that’s what my partner likes. Honestly I’d rather not ever give them.

@HeadNorth

Not every man likes BJs - thankfully. Or anal (which I intend to go to my grave without trying). He is talking pish.

lol I agree.

@ChippyDucks150 has never requested anal again after I let him try a vibrator up his own arse when he was pestering me for it.