Do all women enjoy giving blow jobs & anal?

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I really want to know the general opinion beyond my very small circle of friends who I discuss sex life with. As I'm now feeling a little insecure about it all. Do you enjoy giving blow jobs ? Every time ? Plus have anal every time too?

My DP explained to me this evening that all women enjoy giving a blow job plus to swallow. Now I never swallow and certainly don't give blow jobs every day/week. But apparently every other women he's been with it happened every time they had sex (a lot) plus he said the same about anal, happened every time they had sex. He said this has been the case since he was in his early twenties, now mid forties. I joked they done of my friends give blow jobs for special occasions, he was mortified and said up until me he received it every time. He's not putting pressure on me to give it but we were talking about sex lives, etc

We got together three years ago, now have two little kids, he works away and when he comes back I'm a bit frazzled with work and home life. I'm not wanting to start a debate about the wrongs and right about his opinion and purely interested to know about blow jobs/anal, is this really the case? Is everyone giving blow jobs getting anal it every time ? And enjoying it or do you do it out of 'duty'?

I love giving blow jobs. With the right man I love anal.

But as all women are individuals not all women like to do those things. He is horrible and is trying to manipulate you and make you feel less than.

Hugs.

Sounds like he is watching too much porn or he doesnt realise that its not real life.

Nothing at all wrong with giving blow jobs and having anal sex but if those 2 are all he's ever interested in, than he sounds like a very selfish man! What's in it for you? If he wants a BJ every time you're intimate does he return the favour? I very much doubt every woman he's slept with in the past 2 decades have be ok with that and only interested in his pleasure.

Pretty much every time we have sex oral is incorporated into foreplay, both giving and receiving but giving a start to finish blowjob average day? That's crazy.

Yes. All woman love blow jobs and anal.

And in that world, all men really love being pegged in a really aggressive manner.

he works away so probably spends time watching porn I would say and surely a loving relationship should mean doing things together in and out of bed that is mutually satisfying and enjoyable to you both?

I adore anal, and I like giving blow jobs to the right man. I had two amazing sessions with a man I dated with nothing BUT those two.

BUT I'm kinky - as in submissive. So for me, it's the mental turn of being "used" and "powerless".

And I would ONLY do it with a kinky man - meaning someone who knows what they're doing AND gets off on the situation specifically because of the power dynamics. AND, huge AND, takes responsibility as well as control for the whole situation. For me, ironically, the last thing it's ACTUALLY about is the sex acts themselves, and I would (and do) run from (many) men who just like these things as sex acts alone. And these men don't enjoy doing those sorts of things, generally, unless the woman is getting off on the whole situation (it's sort of a mental loop where both side gets off on the other sides reaction).

Incidentally, I used to be married for 13 years and that was totally vanilla. Blow jobs - every so often. Anal - once or twice a year. A COMPLETELY different sexual relationship (because, as I mentioned above, he wasn't kinky - and I didn't really know that I was either).

I agree that this man has been watching too much porn. Most women aren't like this. To be frank, most men aren't capable of inspiring this sort of sex in the few women who ARE in to this sort of thing. I think you're entirely normal, and he's barking up the wrong tree. He's got to accept that, and stop trying to shame you into being someone you're not, or naff off.

As a straight guy I absolutely enjoy anal, receiving that is, it feels divine when done in the right way. Im sure most of the guys who insist on giving anal all the time have no idea what it actually feels like. I’ll leave it there.