Do all women enjoy giving blow jobs & anal?

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I really want to know the general opinion beyond my very small circle of friends who I discuss sex life with. As I'm now feeling a little insecure about it all. Do you enjoy giving blow jobs ? Every time ? Plus have anal every time too?

My DP explained to me this evening that all women enjoy giving a blow job plus to swallow. Now I never swallow and certainly don't give blow jobs every day/week. But apparently every other women he's been with it happened every time they had sex (a lot) plus he said the same about anal, happened every time they had sex. He said this has been the case since he was in his early twenties, now mid forties. I joked they done of my friends give blow jobs for special occasions, he was mortified and said up until me he received it every time. He's not putting pressure on me to give it but we were talking about sex lives, etc

We got together three years ago, now have two little kids, he works away and when he comes back I'm a bit frazzled with work and home life. I'm not wanting to start a debate about the wrongs and right about his opinion and purely interested to know about blow jobs/anal, is this really the case? Is everyone giving blow jobs getting anal it every time ? And enjoying it or do you do it out of 'duty'?

Oral yes I enjoy.
Swallow no
Anal tried. It's like a shit in reverse. Not sexy. No thank you.

He's talking crap!! Anal absolutely not for me, but pretty much all men I have had sex with want to have a go at it? Why?? Just no thanks not for me.

Blow jobs, if I am really horny then yes, but certainly not every time I have sex.

Utter shit

Don't think he knows the difference between real life, Porn and his own lies

Well either the women he’s been with have been good liars and happy to go along with it to make him happy or he’s just full of shit. I think far too many younger women in particular go along with things because they feel they should, not because they want to. I know I was guilty of this as a younger woman, and the men I’d been with would literally have no idea how I really felt.

Now I’m in my mid 40s and I’d literally rather stick pins in my eyes than do anything other than normal sex.

@Hapoydayz

Get him to try anal first

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Love giving blow jobs. Not a fan of anal, although I will always try it with a new partner if they also agree to give it a try.

This is key, though: Women, as human beings, have a whole range of sexual preferences, likes and dislikes. I wouldn't trust any man who claimed that 'all women' enjoy a particular activity.

Nice one DP.... every women has anal sex every time they have sex...? Hahahahhahshsh

@Boopeedoop

Oral yes I enjoy. Swallow no Anal tried. It's like a shit in reverse. Not sexy. No thank you.

Absolutely this - “shit in reverse”

I honestly don’t mind giving oral and do most of the time as part of foreplay, probably about 90% of the time. But I tried anal once and absolutely hated it, and that was a special occasion/big ordeal, I’d never do it again and if DH and I ever split up I couldn’t be with someone who wanted to do it. Hate it.

I call bullshit to both assertions.

Lying arse.

Bullshit

This has come up after 3 years?

He must rate his stamina if he thinks he can do a blow job, anal and presumably PIV in the same session every day. Bless.

He must be surprised so many people conceive, including you, if they’re all doing arse sex every time.

I like giving BJs, anal… nope. Hurts like fuck. Tried it once with DH when I was drunk.

A male friend of mine has been around the block and of the many women he’s slept with, he’s only done anal with 3.

BJs almost every time but I genuinely enjoy giving them
Anal maybe once or twice a month, again I enjoy it (from time to time but not every time, no way!) and am never under pressure to do it

" Like a shit in reverse"

You have kids together and this is only coming up now,why? What's his sudden obsession with bringing up 'past' relationships and sex?

I hope you told him women love multiple orgasms & you are used to plenty!

Pornsick.

@Wecando

" Like a shit in reverse"

a constipated one that won't come out at that.... Tried that in my 20s. Couple of kids and a truck load is washing later.. that is not happening, in my 40s thank you.

He is an absolute liar.

You sound in a vulnerable position OP. Do you have support IRL? Does anyone know how unpleasant he is to you?

Like a shit in reverse

Pretty much!

He must rate his stamina if he thinks he can do a blow job, anal and presumably PIV in the same session every day

This is why it's definitely BS

Absolutely no to both.

He's talking out of his anus IMO !

The thing is, it doesn't matter what other people like or do, it matters what you do.

For me, I like BJ because I want to pleasure my oh. If he's been an arsehole then no, I don't like it. But I don't get off on it per se.

@VioletLemon

Total prick. Get him to fuck. In the meantime tell him you require high quality oral and a massage EVERY time you have sex... And a cup of tea after.

I would totally be up for sex more often if I got a post coital cup of tea (and buttered toast?? like after giving birth??) afterwards.

sounds bloody marvellous.

Now how do we convince mankind that this is The.Done.Thing.....