My boyfriend likes to be fuc*ked up the bum!

[liliboard]

So this is a long one.

And note, I'm deadly serious.

So me and my partner have been together for 11 years. His sex drive is waaaaay higher than mine. Which is cool. But my partner loves anal. And I don't mean my bum! He likes me to fuck him in the bum with, well, anything. Dildo, carrot, orange, my fist.
This all started within a year of our relationship. He admitted he liked some bum stuff and it's just evolved. At first I didn't mind and was interested in the new and exciting sex stuff we were doing. But as time has gone on I have hated it more and more. Dreaded it every time. It's like a chore. I really hate it. When he talks about wanting to 'suck my dick after I've fucked his arse' and 'i want your spunk up me' whilst we're in the moment just puts me off him completely. We've had countless arguments over it and I've just ended up basically saying 'i don't like it but I'll do it because you do'. But it's honestly making me find him less sexually attractive. And I feel it's completely ruining how I feel about him. We've talked loads about it and we even stopped doing it for a while which made me happy but him sad!! He says it's his way of release and takes away stress. And I get that. But no matter how hard I try, I cannot get away from feeling distant from him. I don't believe he is gay. We've got 2 kids together and are engaged (although yes , I know it can still happen) but I think he's maybe a little bit gay? Bi? I dunno.
Anyway. Any advice would be really appreciated and if anyone likes this stuff too , please, let me know!!!

[Motoko]

OP hasn't been back to the thread since October. No point replying and asking questions now.

[Thehop]

I really hope everything went well for you OP

[IHateLegDay]

What were you searching to find a 3 year old thread about bum sex? 😂😂😂

[vodkaredbullgirl]

JFC was I really on this thread back then, it popped up on my list.

[lilkitten]

I know a lot of guys who like it (DP included), it's a kink community so we're pretty open-minded. I don't think all of them would say they're anything but straight, as a lot of them get a kick out of it being a woman, but the majority of us identify as queer, bi, pan, heteroflexible etc. The crux of it is that you're not enjoying it. I get a kick out of pegging and being in control, but if you're not then it's best to address it with him. This is particularly what a lot of men go to pro-dommes for, one of my friends does as his GF is not into it but happy for him to see someone else for it.

[GonnaBeMaayy]

@IHateLegDay

What were you searching to find a 3 year old thread about bum sex? 😂😂😂

Just what I was thinking 😂😂😂



ZOMBIE THREAD.
ZOMBIE
ZOMBIE
ZOMBIEEEE

[JaneJeffer]

It's in your buuuum, in your buuu uuu uh um
Zombie zombie zombie

[Simon12]

Inspired!!

[topnoddy]

Back on track .

I love being pegged with a strap on and have sucked a few dicks but doubt i'd go along with a real dick but hey you never know .
Just because a bloke likes this doesn't mean he's gay

I'd class myself as mostly straight but bi sometimes

At the end of the day sex is sex , whatever turns ya boat .

[JaneJeffer]

<hides thread>

[GonnaBeMaayy]

@topnoddy

Back on track .

I love being pegged with a strap on and have sucked a few dicks but doubt i'd go along with a real dick but hey you never know .
Just because a bloke likes this doesn't mean he's gay

I'd class myself as mostly straight but bi sometimes

At the end of the day sex is sex , whatever turns ya boat .

Doesn’t matter if it’s back on track. This is a zombie thread. It is from 2019.

RTFT

[gamerchick]

Love it when a bloke comes along to tell us about his bedroom antics on an ancient thread. Isn't creepy at all

[YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet]

We're going to lock this now.