Anal fisting (sorry)

[Bumfunname]

I don't know where else to ask this. Apologies if it puts you off your dinner.

Over the past year or so Dh and I have been pushing boundaries with each other further and further. A combination of our youngest child sleeping through reliably and more free time in the evenings, I suppose. We've always enjoyed anal sex together and a fair bit of bdsm type activities. Lately the spanking and the like has increased, which we are both happy with.

Last night took a turn for the proper perverted, as we (fully consensually and to great mutual enjoyment) ended up with him actually fisting my anus. It was all very slow and careful and an incredible turn on, but today I have freaked myself out with thoughts of fissures and tears etc

It kind of feels like the last taboo and certainly isn't something we'll do daily, but I did wonder just how dangerous it is and if there's anything we can do to make it safer.

I know it's not the most mainstream of practices (and I'm more than a bit mortified to be posting about it) but I wondered if any aficionados might be around to reassure me that fine right it can be safe.

A thousand thank yous to anyone who can help.

Well all I can say is don't knock it 'til you've tried it. I loved it but was just looking for some reassurance on how to minimise the risks. MN is clearly not the place to discuss kink though, so I'll remember that in future.

This thread is a bit too fishy for me

How do you know what else people have tried ? Some of us grown ups don't feel the need to broadcast every single bedroom move we make.

Well excuse me but it's hardly broadcasting. I had a genuine question about a not particularly mainstream act, I thought I could get some advice here. I've been an Mn regular for ten years, I'm not trolling or on a wind up. I thought the whole point of the sex topic here was to have a safe corner to talk about stuff. I don't particularly want to frequent the kind of forum where this would be a usual topic as I don't want to have to fend off the pervs.

I thought I might get a few jokey replies, and they have made me laugh. But I didn't expect to be told I'm over sharing or that no one cares. That's just rude.

But no one does care Op

And to be fair you have learned nothing here that you couldn't Google....

Been enlightening re Marine life rough,

'Though'
Not rough

I have to agree with the op ( not about the whole bum thing ) but it is indeed the sex topic and so is bound to contain some stuff that one normally wouldn't chat about in the playground or office.

^^ does that last post look like something you would say in the playground/office ?

Whatever forum you write on is going to get trawled by pervs though. If there's a sex topic then I don't see what's wrong with people using it - as long as they are aware that there's probably some unsavoury folk about and that as usual said this isn't private and media could pick up on it

She ought to take care of her outbox too, usual

Arf

What's the next thread- grouper sex?

This thread was hilarious last night.

It's gone a bit cold. So the OP posted for advice, you had your laughs and she is over sharing? It's the effing sex board for crying out loud

OP MN gets very bitchy on a Friday. Just sayin...

Pps I honestly wouldn't repeat it. I mean - it can't have good consequences in the long tern

I wonder why the posters saying this board is full of pervs hang around it so much?

This board is here to keep sex out of 'chat' & 'Aibu' & is clearly for a smaller MN audience, so why not just leave them alone?

I never said I wasn't a perv myself did I ? Total.

anyfuckers a perv na na na na naaaa

I can't imagine my anus being stretched to that extent. it's hard enough getting a poo out when I'm constipated