Anal fisting (sorry)

[Bumfunname]

I don't know where else to ask this. Apologies if it puts you off your dinner.

Over the past year or so Dh and I have been pushing boundaries with each other further and further. A combination of our youngest child sleeping through reliably and more free time in the evenings, I suppose. We've always enjoyed anal sex together and a fair bit of bdsm type activities. Lately the spanking and the like has increased, which we are both happy with.

Last night took a turn for the proper perverted, as we (fully consensually and to great mutual enjoyment) ended up with him actually fisting my anus. It was all very slow and careful and an incredible turn on, but today I have freaked myself out with thoughts of fissures and tears etc

It kind of feels like the last taboo and certainly isn't something we'll do daily, but I did wonder just how dangerous it is and if there's anything we can do to make it safer.

I know it's not the most mainstream of practices (and I'm more than a bit mortified to be posting about it) but I wondered if any aficionados might be around to reassure me that fine right it can be safe.

A thousand thank yous to anyone who can help.

So is the general consensus that we shouldn't try it again? Only it's Friday night and wine is happening, which tends to loosen my inhibitions and orifices

Do what you like. Nobody really cares. Didn't you get that from this thread ? We would rather make fishy pun jokes and post daft pictures than have to think about what your do with your arsehole.

So what exactly is the point of this topic if anything slightly left of centre gets policed by you and detailed? Serious question by the way.

We'll ignore that last post. I meant derailed.

By me ? I'm not the thread police. See all the others up there ? ^^

Oh up your bum OP

The fish puns were funny. But your last post was just a rude shut down that I thought was unnecessary. I thought this was supposed to be a topic where we could talk about stuff without splashing it across the main boards, not somewhere where people get told to stfu.

I'm open minded and all that, but sex involving rubber gloves, faecal incontinence and a possible a&e trip gets me green around the gills.

To answer your question OP no I wouldn't do it in the first place again

Well Friday's Fish night here Op

But if you're fancying being a glove puppet again, that's really your trawl.

It's your arsehole. The medical risks are googleable. The rest is between you and your partner surely ? Why the need to overshare ?

Just so long as the knuckles aren't involved op!

At least this way you won't get crabs- ba boom tish.

AF you were pretty funny earlier on but if you don't want oversharing then maybe don't go to the Sex page. OP was looking for genuine advice and lets face it we all often come here for advice on things that can be googled but the point is to discuss it with a set of people we think might have useful advice. Leave the OP alone, if people want to give advice and discuss then let them.

So is the general consensus that we shouldn't try it again?

The general consensus appears to that it's up to you OP, some people may find faecal incontince and rectal tears appealing.

Well..

It's quite risky to be honest. I'd take it careful and it isn't something I'd be wanting to do on a weekly basis. Not unless you want to become incontinent.

Mortified last night.

But still very, very keen to keep people cheerleading the arse fun. With as much detail as possible. Hmm.

he is otherwise occupied

I expect so

David Furnish had an opening tonight < boom boom >

Stick what you like up your arse, but don't come here crying when you can't control what's coming out of it.

It's Friday night here too, we are having wine too. We may well have a nice shag later but I really cannot understand why a whole hand up your arse is remotely enjoyable.
I'm definitely not a prude either but my bum is only so big you know.