Anal fisting (sorry)

[Bumfunname]

I don't know where else to ask this. Apologies if it puts you off your dinner.

Over the past year or so Dh and I have been pushing boundaries with each other further and further. A combination of our youngest child sleeping through reliably and more free time in the evenings, I suppose. We've always enjoyed anal sex together and a fair bit of bdsm type activities. Lately the spanking and the like has increased, which we are both happy with.

Last night took a turn for the proper perverted, as we (fully consensually and to great mutual enjoyment) ended up with him actually fisting my anus. It was all very slow and careful and an incredible turn on, but today I have freaked myself out with thoughts of fissures and tears etc

It kind of feels like the last taboo and certainly isn't something we'll do daily, but I did wonder just how dangerous it is and if there's anything we can do to make it safer.

I know it's not the most mainstream of practices (and I'm more than a bit mortified to be posting about it) but I wondered if any aficionados might be around to reassure me that fine right it can be safe.

A thousand thank yous to anyone who can help.

I'd have said misplaiced meself.

Wonder where this thread will end up today....

On the DM trawler?

This thread has just shown on my App current threads beneath

'Fishnet'

'How many guppies?'

Well I never

Soooo glad i braved having a read of this thread hahahaha

perch on his fist has killed me 😂😂😂😂😂

Oh god you lot are killing me. I don't know if I'll ever be able to do it again because I'll think of this thread and start fixating on fish puns.

For those that asked, it's not like a while clenched fist up there, just all the fingers, pointed in like a duck beak shape. We didn't make it past the knuckles.

Anyway, I'm glad to have given you all a good laugh.

Like a duck beak shape

Surely that's not so weird?! I think the word 'fist' (and indeed the word 'fish')implies something much more er cumbersome/damaging.

I'm glad to hear that OP - been lying awake all night worrying you had acwhole hand up your jacksie - james herriot style.

This is a genuine question but do gay men have major issues with their anuses ( sp) . If they have bum sex every night surely it can't be good for them ?

Many gay men do not indulge in anal sex at all.

Really ? What do they do then ?

Use your imagination, Jessie.

I have genuinely presumed gay men have anal sex regularly and have always wondered how their body coped with it .

Yes, wasn't it Stephen Fry in a programme about attitudes to gays around the world who said that he and his partner mainly engage in a bit of mutual wanking and cuddles?! He made the point to the fervently anti gay heterosexual man he was talking to that it's mainly fervently anti gay heterosexual men who are obsessed with gay men having anal sex

I think Op has more AS than the majority of my male gay friends.

Oh it's got all serious again....

STICKLEBACK COD MULLETS all of you....

I love a bit of drop your anchor in loo bay. Been to long..

Poo* ffs

Was it like this...

While searching for a fish pun can't help wondering why nobody has mentioned pollocks?

In fairness to the OP we should dolphinitely scale back on the fish puns though.

"it's not like a while clenched fist up there"

Typo there - presumably you meant 'whale'?

We still Carping on about this old Chestnet....

Those poor arse mussels

Some of these comments are trout of order.

An utter cockel up

I've wondered that about gay men/anal sex in general as we partake occasionally. I'm v aware they do other things but if they avoided it for safety raesons I would too...