First date cf ?

[AnyaMarx]

Was meant to have a first date today with a guy -been texting back and forth and seemed nice but haven't t spoken

Woke up to a text this morning after id suggested a late lunch

He said hopes he isn't pushing his luck but if we hit it off he was thinking he would stay over , turn it into supper and have a few drinks then stay over

He's expecting sex on date 1 isn't he ?

I dont want to take a stranger to my house .

I've made an excuse and turned my phone on silent

I've got the ick .

I once knew a good looking man in my youth who used to approach women in a club chat to them , make them laugh and then ask them if they fancied a fuck ! Some women slapped his face , some just laughed it off and some actually said yes ! He said it was surprising the amount that said yes .

Yeah, men say all sorts of bullshit, I’d take this with a huge pinch of salt.

How horrible. Definitely dodged a bullet there.

I know a man who is also good looking and he did similar in their youth.

They did the same - chat, make them laugh, "fancy a fuck?"

He said he got lucky more often than you'd think! He reckoned it had about a 10% success rate 🤷🏻‍♀️

You say that but I've known women who would sleep with any man who showed them a bit of positive attention. Even in these circumstances.

I'm guessing it's how many one night stands happen and men aren't having those on their own...

Good boundaries OP!

This

Well small victories- just been to Aldi and got the trolly that didn't need a pound .
Karma . 😂

👌

Not very hard to see why he's single is it 😂 I'd just stop replying and look elsewhere, forget him

Bet he's kicking himself
Idiot

Wait, what?

@Naunet

Yeah, men say all sorts of bullshit, I’d take this with a huge pinch of salt.

You're very naive if you don't think some women are up for casual sex after being propositioned by an attractive man in a club having had a few to drink.

I've amended my bio .

Said no dick pics , no expectations of sex .

Friendship to build for possibly more .

His voicemail was ick inducing. Back peddling so hard .

Not responded and blocked earlier so he should get message.

Supper where I come from is toast, Crumpets or tea and biccies sat on the couch in your 'jamas 😁

I knew one such man, back in the early 80's. Tall, dark, handsome, personable, used to wait at nightclub doors and approach drunken women with the, "Fancy a fuck?" line. Worked often enough to keep repeating the exercise.

🤣🤣🤣

How old are you can I ask?

Are you thinking of asking her out? Kind of a strange question 😯

No just gonna wish her good luck with a bio like that if she’s quite young, say in her 20s. People want to date romantically not make a friend and hope that later she might take a shine to them.

I'm 51 .

I look a lot younger . No wrinkles as yet and just had a blonde redo and a fringe which has knocked a few years off

I'm a size 12 -14

34 d

14 knickers

Great legs and fabulous tits . Tons of confidence. And self respect .

What else would you like to know ?

I feel I need to amend the bio because it appears men who are single in their 40s/50/"s think with only one part of their anatomy no matter how unattractive they are physically.

They must think middle aged women are just gagging for it .

I've done the whole one night stand thing and actually it's just shit .

And I'd rather stay single than look like some desperado.

I have a full life - a career , friends , night classes, friends of both sexes I can go out with . I'm extremely happy in my own skin . Yes I miss sex but - really not so much as to pimp myself out to the first middle aged, overweight, egotistical knob that deigns to decide he can invite himself to stay without so much as a bloody conversation first .

Amen mamma!👏👏👏