First date cf ?

[AnyaMarx]

Was meant to have a first date today with a guy -been texting back and forth and seemed nice but haven't t spoken

Woke up to a text this morning after id suggested a late lunch

He said hopes he isn't pushing his luck but if we hit it off he was thinking he would stay over , turn it into supper and have a few drinks then stay over

He's expecting sex on date 1 isn't he ?

I dont want to take a stranger to my house .

I've made an excuse and turned my phone on silent

I've got the ick .

onepringle

I feel your pain . I think this is why I periodically give up .

😂😂😂

I know! Picturing him wanting the OP to make him a thick vegetable soup later.

After he said he was thinking of making it late lunch early supper there was a wink emoji just to make matters worse ......😂

I would love there to be a documentary on TV where people like this are interviewed. Presumably some women agree to go along with this.

I've had a voicemail now saying he was only joking and we should talk before we meet anyway and he was only joking g about it being the last night on earth or something

He'd suggested we live like it's out last night due to this asteroid.....

Nah .

He said I was only joking g but if you wanna forget it it's your call

I blocked him so phone didn't ring.

Eeewwwwww!!!!

Dodged a bullet there! Next!!

After OLD on and off for a year or so, nothing surprises me. I’ve only met a handful of men but had so many unwanted messages and ‘chats’ that didn’t go anywhere because the sex talk started. I think a lot of these guys are messaging woman/wanking and trying their luck with literally anyone.

I’ve just started chatting to a new guy over the last couple of days, he seemed quite nice and interesting. But last night he started with the ‘I miss having someone to snuggle up to/cuddle’. I actually miss sex too but personally don’t want to get suggestive with someone that I haven’t even clapped eyes on. Not sure now whether to bother with this one.

OP, well done for ditching this chancer ASAP.

lol the feed me and fuck me type chancers!

Well done.
You dodged a bullet there.
We’re all relieved you sustained your boundaries and have done the best and safest thing.

They’re so stupid
this shit works with no one

apart from my ex who I shagged on the second date 🙄

but it baffles me
and they all do it

who does fuck them ??

AnyaMarx · Today 11:42After he said he was thinking of making it late lunch early supper there was a wink emoji just to make matters worse ......😂”

oh good grief 🤢

Eww, I’d be chucking Randy Rex back, goodness me, cheeky that is. At least you found out early!

She was the intended supper I think 😂

@AnyaMarx Yeah, he was 'just joking'. Unless you agreed to it, then he would have been serious. 🙄

I can't stand the false jokes. Own your shit.

I think I'm about to take another break from it all. Men are just so perpetually disappointing! I don't think they're all terrible, but all the good ones have been snapped up.

@TeaserandtheFirecat Such a brutally accurate name for these men. 😂

One told me he had needs and had to consider those needs, and if I wasn't willing...

Immediate ick. Immediate block.

The thing is, I'm not even that attractive. I can't even imagine how much worse the skinny pretty girls have it.

I got a message with this emoji 😜 asking if he could get up my Wizards sleeve.

Was he coming from a far distance?

And that is me being pretty generous.

I wonder if that has ever worked for him before

So, book a Travelodge.

Block. He's a creep 🚩🚩🚩

Gross

Oops, that came out bigger than I expected.

I swear I think some of these men just live in caves and rub their sticks all day.

Always so fucking entitled when you block them and they find another way to contact you too. Creeps.

I would say Bwahaha, I have never even met you and you are already angling for staying at my place and sex. Sorry, nothing about my profile said I am looking for a hook up or booty call. Good luck, you might want to try casual encounters on Tinder or Facebook.

Did he really say I'm only joking three times in a short voicemail? Because that means he knows he really really fucked up and would confirm that he was a chancer and not actually wanting a serious relationship.

I think all his sorries would double my ick.

Dodged a bullet there OP, take yourself out for lunch and celebrate your own lucky near miss!