Found condoms in DH’s suitcase

[Rainyautumnday]

Regular, name changed here. DH travels for work a fair bit - maybe every 6 weeks. He’s about to head to a conference. He’d left his packed but open suitcase on the bed and I just moved it and had a look inside and found 2 condoms in his wash bag. It’s a new case and bag and we haven’t been on holiday together since he had it.

Do I confront him now or wait until he’s back? I know he’s unhappy at lack of physical relationship - I have been depressed and had low libido, but things are ok otherwise

Zombie thread from last november.

That's no excuse to cheat. If you have any health issues affecting your drive then you should be honest and tell him, if he still needs to cheat then that shows lack of care or understanding or both.

I would confront him.

omg. I’d say something right away. Like now before he uses them. You have every right to know what’s going on. They’re there for a reason. I once found a ton of condoms in my ex’s car and felt physically sick to my stomach (he was off on hols too).

'Right away' you say?

The time for that was 7 bloody months ago.

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Hi all,
Just flagging to you all that this is a reanimated thread from a few months ago now. A zombie, in other words. So be aware you might not hear from the OP.