@teddypicker
Ok, thanks both - I'll write it out again. Bear with me, might take a while
So been seeing someone for about a year, taking it slowly and easy, but then I went and fell for him. He says he loves me but no actions to back up the words. Red flags - never going to his, meeting up in a different town, Christmas present promised but never appeared, dah di dah.
I'd been working night shifts up to last weekend (finished Monday morning) and he surprised me by saying he'd booked an Airbnb lovely little cottage in the countryside for 3 nights. We could go there when I'd finished work, I could sleep, he could do his paperwork and then we could chill together. I was so happy and all my reservations got put to one side. We got there and it was lovely.
I couldn't sleep that well probably because I wasn't at home, but then at about 2pm he announced that he had to go, something to do with work (he's a tradie). He said I should stay there and get some sleep and he'd come back first thing in the morning) I was a bit upset (LOT upset) but nothing I could do. I went home too so I could get some sleep.
So I woke up at about 4am with a really strong feeling that he wouldn't turn up again. I got up, drove over and picked up all my things, tidied the place up and drove back home. Sure enough, got a text at 7am saying he'd been called out to an emergency job 
After that I started thinking about all the red flags and inconsistencies. So yesterday I rang a Private Detective to find out the truth about him. Part 2 in a minute in case it gets lost again.