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[buttercup1001]

Hi my partner of 2/3 years put his hands round my throat 3 weeks ago couldn't breathe for about 15 seconds and he let go.ive since had trouble/ pain in my throat and heartburn alot plus I have become forgettable can these symptoms be due to this or would the symptoms have dissapeared by now?

You need to stop contact with your son, you are absolutely unable to keep him safe as you are still with your abusive partner despite having had the opportunity to seek help from the doctor and school you chose not to. Your poor boy.

I'm out.

This is just unbelievable now. "no WiFi"?? What does this even mean?

I think you're enjoying knowing there's hundreds of people worrying about you and you're deliberately winding them up. It's either a wind-up and you're just attention seeking, or if it's true then you are too far gone on this scumbag to take the simplest step to get away from him and you should not be anywhere near your son.

All this help and support and you are just ignoring it to continue to update how terrible this man is. WE KNOW. But it is YOU who is harming and abusing YOUR SON now through YOUR actions.

This is on you now.

So he went into the Dr's room when you were having a vaginal examination
Really?
Did the Dr not seem concerned about that

@Name99

So he went into the Dr's room when you were having a vaginal examination Really? Did the Dr not seem concerned about that

Yep.

I'm done with this thread too.

Because that's the only way you wouldn't have had 5 mins to alert your GP to the other issues you need to talk about
Do you have a learning disability OP, do you have someone who can advocate for you?

I mean as easy as it is for us to say you should of done this or that, at the time it won't be of course. But considering you reached the point where you was going to take action, despite him going with you to the doctors, whilst you was in there, I would have been filled with anxiety but said, can you leave the room I want to speak to the doctor alone. And then told them everything, what's your partner going to do?! After all if he kicked off then that would only be a good thing as it would show him for what he is. I would then say I can not leave here with this man or without the police being called. That would of been it then, it would of got something done!

I didn't read it that he accompanied her to the Dr ? Just that she has gone Dr's Friday and that he wanted to and did come round as he thinks she's cheating locally , which obviously she isn't ? How's your throat @buttercup1001 , are you ok ? What made you decide to not get help ?

@givinglessfucksdaily

I didn't read it that he accompanied her to the Dr ? Just that she has gone Dr's Friday and that he wanted to and did come round as he thinks she's cheating locally , which obviously she isn't ? How's your throat *@buttercup1001* , are you ok ? What made you decide to not get help ?

Well OP said 'he come' meant to say he came I assume. And so it has been assumed he went to the surgery with OP.

Well as neither of us were there , we can't really assume too much ? I'm just keen for Buttercup to let us know she is ok

If you really want help op then say. If not I'm out. You're not engaging, not trying, you just keep on endlessly updating with how much of a bastard he is, it's so frustrating.

Morning, everyone. This thread doesn't seem to be helping anyone much, and we've had to delete some trollhunting this morning, too.

We're going to close it to new posts now.

OP - we'll be in touch off the boards.